opinions?

ok.....say u have a signifigant other and they made plans that u were uncomfortable with, be it insecurity, or distrust, non inclusion. u both get mad and stop talking. then the person goes and does exactly what u feared would happen. does that make u right in your fears or the cause of the situation?

Depends on the subject.

Wanting to have meat for dinner and you?re a vegitarian?
Wanting you to go on a "around-the-world" trip with them and you either can?t afford the money or the time?
Wanting to have a foursome with the couple next door...

Put it in perspective might help.

It is kind of tough to give any feedback without more detail about what the "IT" that they did anyway was. K good buddy!

yeah, i know its not very detailed....i guess i was trying to not have to think about the details.....its making my blood boil.

its too complicated, id have to go way into detail to get the whole picture.
just forget i brought it up. it doesnt matter. 😢