peoplethatcheatandindenial

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I found out that my scorp girlfriend has been cheating on me and when i found out, i turned the tables and turned to my bachelor ways. Two years of devotion all demolished with the complete truth. She is a complete headcase for hating my bestfriend that cheated on his girlfriend, talk about complete hypocracy. Then when she finds out that i slept with a rival she had in college, she becomes infuriated like i was at fault.

During the argument i threw in my trump cards stating the 3 men she slept with when we were still together. Dead silence strikes the room for 10 minutes, after the uncomfortable moment i broke up with her and she admits she wants to stay and she messed up for pushing a "perfect potential husband".

Im now currently dating 2 women, and she knows both, and is dreading me with complete jealousy. how funny scorp females can be, so jealous so possesive, but when they do the things they dread its ok.

What sign are you?

they know what thier doing, they just get pissed that they didnt get away with it.

How about "she" rather than "they".

I would never sleep with three other people...my conscience wouldn't allow it, and I would never want to sort of silently make it "okay" for my partner to do the same thing. I've not always been completely faithful my entire dating life, but I've certainly never slept with three other people...and I deeply regret the occasions when I was unfaithful on any level, because the knowlege that I hurt someone is painful to me.

I hope you have better luck next time...better you found out now than later.

My hubby has come home the other day and said he has heard a work buddy of his (who is married with a young daughter and 3 mortgages) is in the midst of an affiar with another workmate..it has been going on about 6 mths. Both of their respective partners are still in the dark but everyone at work has the knowledge.

I think my hubby should talk to him and let him know everyone knows and that he should either fess up or get his act together. What do u think? Stay out of it or give the guy some prior warning that he's heading down a path that will basically destroy his life and the lives of others?

no, i understand sort of the people with cheating. my teachers at my school firlt with girls way to much and worse his wife works at the school half the time. i hate and despiese but i never tell....
I'll never tell....
Daddy will drive the boat u always dirve the treetrunking boat in all those damned movies u do while i'm away growing up without a father. Drive the boat daddy. u always do. Drive. Drive. Damn it Dad.

No, the quote goes, Daddy will u drive the boat u always drive the boat in thosse movies.

my sister and i the Aries sister and i were watching I'll never tell. Great movie. And she points out that he drives the boat in all the movies he's in he always endes up driving the boat. That's when i said the last quote.

No, just be careful and watch out.

I'm surprized she wasn't a Gemini.

Lawgoddess: just my personal opinion, but I would stay out of it. Way, way, way out of it. Unfortunately, people usually turn on whoever is actually *not* at fault, in these situations, because they want to divert attention, blame and anger away from themselves. Do not give in and let them by putting yourself out there to be a scapegoat. Morally, it is a huge dilemma, but in my opinion it is best kept between the husband and the wife. It may hurt everyone even more to be called on it and have it talked about.

Too true Phoenix..the mouth is zipped

Longjohnnyoneye (what a mouthful!),
I sympathise with you. I too have been on the end of a scorpio cheater and it wasn't very pleasant. My advice is to stay broken up because she only wants what she can't have and as soon as you get 'back together' she will do it to you again. Her actions say to me that she is fundamentally dishonest. Unfortunately there are always the bad eggs of every sign and it sounds like you copped the bad end of the scorpio spectrum. Tell her you'll get a restraining order out on her if she doesn't leave you alone, lol!

Good luck with everything 😉

UPDATE!

She called me lastnight asking for forgivness, she said that she wanted a clean slate to start over. Also, she added that she never intended to do it. How dumb does she think i look. I also learned that she never went this far before and that they were meaningless to her to quote her she said "I've not always been completely faithful to you i admit, but they were meaningless." (THAT MAKES ME FEEL SO MUCH BETTER). I told her "thats a guy's excuse, and i have heard it plenty of times. What makes you think that it will work with me?" Then a silent pause, i then said "goodbye love" with deepest emotion. Then i hung up.


LOL. Its funny to find alittle humor with her cruel betrayal.

BTW: Phoenix (male, female?) im a libra.

UPDATE!

She called me lastnight asking for forgivness, she said that she wanted a clean slate to start over. Also, she added that she never intended to do it. How dumb does she think i look. I also learned that she never went this far before and that they were meaningless to her to quote her she said "I've not always been completely faithful to you i admit, but they were meaningless." (THAT MAKES ME FEEL SO MUCH BETTER). I told her "thats a guy's excuse, and i have heard it plenty of times. What makes you think that it will work with me?" Then a silent pause, i then said "goodbye love" with deepest emotion. Then i hung up.


LOL. Its funny to find alittle humor with her cruel betrayal.

BTW: Phoenix (male, female?) im a libra.

OOPs!!

yeah i like that meaningless one. "well if it meant so little why did u do it 3 times?" "so u would throw away something that meant so much for something that mean so little?" its all bullbutter and groveling.

longjohnnyoneeye:

I'm a female.

I'm glad that you are emotionally removed enough from her to find humor in the situation; that will help you move on a lot quicker. Good luck to ya. 🙂

good to have humor in any situation, but not good to gloat over someone else in this situation. This was a girl you felt serious about ntil you found out she was cheating, so i just feel that a little more respect (not the right word but you get what I mean) is needed. Ahd then, I think your ex girlfriend is a desperate idiot: she jepordized a relationship with "potential husband" material for sex with three men which were "meaningless". She needs to set her priorities and you are much better staying away from her. She counds like a clinger.

Glad to see ur doing better. U be careful.