Redeeming Qualities

Alright everyone!

A simple question.....what is considered the most redeeming quality of every person who visits this board?

Don't lie, and don't pass the buck, and everyone answers for themselves.

As for me, my ability to diffuse most situations.

Excepting most people for who they are even if I don't agree with them.Lying,inconsideration and senseless violence is alot of the time the only ways to make me really mad to the point that I completely avoid someone.

Giving me new sex tips....HA HA HA HA!

KIDDING! Well only partly...But I must say mine is unlimited empathy and compassion for my fellow man, especially the underdogs.

Cancerlady

LOL cancerlady @ "sex tips"- I can't lie- me too!

LOL cancerlady,forgot about that one.Im a perv,or maybe that just means I need to get laid more often,hmm,I don't know,something to check on though.

Perhaps my one redeeming quality is that no matter what a person has done, if they say they are sorry to me, I will believe them and forgive them immediately. Certainly, I will say my little piece to them how they have hurt but that's it - I won't go on and on. I refuse to hold grudges - life is too short - plus the vanity factor kicks in:-)...you hold a grudge against anyone or anything in your life and it will show on your face.....oh those frown lines and wrinkles will set in big time:-) - it's a natural law of the universe or of my universe anyway:-)!!!

A x

I totally agree Alana...holding grudges is pointless because all people make mistakes and to forgive them makes you a better person.

I can sometimes get so angry that I just blow my top, but its mostly only steam, and when it comes out...it just evaporates. It's like I CAN'T stay mad! This can be good & bad though, because sometimes you have to realize some people don't mean you ANY good and will keep hurting you. L

Cancerlady

The last time I blew my top I found myself in a room at the opposite end of my house.

Then I had to go back and find the body.

the fact that I have not hunted down and killed any one on this board yet.I am very proud of that fact

I like the fact that I dont judge anyone and I try to find all things in a positive manner, if I dont agree I am still able to be positive about it and not make a big deal out of something. like the phrase make a mountain out of a mole hill. I am one to sit back and take in my surroundings before reacting- not normal of my sign I dont think- wonderer if I was lied to about my birthdate,,haha. But then, every one has their off days,,I just happen to not be online when I have them days..🙂

AK

LMAO Old Jake,

I just love you!

Cancerlady

Do not kill board members, keep hands of death in your pockets , think about the sex you will have if you don't kill , its a turn off for some baby's.

LOL Jake now just dont loose track of thought..🙂

Hi guys,

I am still out here somewhere, mys system is still real messed up. I cant have it looked at util next week, so I am taking a chance even trying to be here on it, gulp!

Well I guess my Redeeming Quality would be my open minded attitude about things, and patience. I always try to express the concern I feel for the person and the situation they are sharing about.

And I am able to stay open and not judge anyone, as that is just not my intention in giving any kind of reply or help per say. As I dont feel anyone comes here looking for anything but honest heartfelt feedback in most matters.

TW2