Capricorn Guy
@Capricorn Guy
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Rejecting someone...
I'm so bad at rejecting people and breaking up and all that. I'll just start by saying "you know we have to have a talk, and you must know that's not good... So you must know what I want to say next, since you must have been in this situation before, in which case I don't need to keep talking, you can fill in the blank. Bye."
Capricorn Guy, don't feel too bad about it (although it shows your character and sensitivity that you do). It's better that you were honest with her and didn't placate her with a lie and got into a relationship with her and ended up having to break her heart later when a serious emotional bond with you had developed on her side.
When a guy I'm not interested in is making it clear he's interested in me, I usually just ignore it or tell him I don't want to be with anyone period. It does suck, but it's always better to be honest than to lie.
When a guy I'm not interested in is making it clear he's interested in me, I usually just ignore it or tell him I don't want to be with anyone period. It does suck, but it's always better to be honest than to lie.
So True...Honesty Is Best!
Cap Guy there is no easy way. wish I knew one. just don't be rude .
That was nice of you not to avoid confrontation and to
tell her upfront how you felt.Most guys just gradually
fade away and never really breakup officially.
Too bad you are having such a difficult time with the rest
of your life right now. that doesn't help.
I like what you said about not being able to fulfill her
expectations and not wanting to complicate her life.
Is that a Cap trait or just you? If that's you, not sure
why more women don't tell you how much they like you.
You do seem sensitive and caring, I agree with phoenix.
tell her upfront how you felt.Most guys just gradually
fade away and never really breakup officially.
Too bad you are having such a difficult time with the rest
of your life right now. that doesn't help.
I like what you said about not being able to fulfill her
expectations and not wanting to complicate her life.
Is that a Cap trait or just you? If that's you, not sure
why more women don't tell you how much they like you.
You do seem sensitive and caring, I agree with phoenix.
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