This is really stupid of me (don't know if you can relate phoenix), but I just broke up with someone I have been seeing for a while and although it needed to be done and I'm happy about it, I'm sitting here on a friday night moping about the house feeling sorry for myself because usually i'd spend the weekends at their place and now my life kind of has an empty edge to it :-
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*hug* tis okay cortica, you'll get through.
ROFL Parallax!!! And thanks Luz 🤢gt;
I think you really have to see the funny side in these situations. I spoke to this person on the phone today and it just reinforced all of the many reasons why I don't want to be in a relationship with them, but still, there's this umbilical sentimentality that keeps dragging me back into thinking about what could have been before the blustery sheen of attraction faded. Pathetic I tell you!!!
I think you really have to see the funny side in these situations. I spoke to this person on the phone today and it just reinforced all of the many reasons why I don't want to be in a relationship with them, but still, there's this umbilical sentimentality that keeps dragging me back into thinking about what could have been before the blustery sheen of attraction faded. Pathetic I tell you!!!
I do know exactly what you are talking about Cortica, I swear! I have broken up...and then remembered what attracted me...and then remembered why I broke up...vicious cycle!!! Arrgghhh!
I wound up breaking up with my last boyfriend twice. I broke up with him the first time, and then we kept talking... And then we were at this party together, and we were both kind of lonely and yatayatayata. Then I broke up with him again about four months later.
Cortica, I can absolutely relate. Just keep imagining them losing their genitalia in a "freak accident" and then imagine their face melting off of their skeleton as onlookers point and laugh while you smile in satisfaction. Then have a one night stand. lol. I'm only partially joking. Breaking up sucks, I'm still not in a great place mentally/emotionally about mine, but imagining his imminent downfall and public humiliation sometimes helps.

Phoenix hard woman real hard woman
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