The Opposite Sex

What do you notice first about members of your opposite sex, before they've even spoken?

On a purely visual level, the first two things I always notice are the eyes, and then the frontal chest/shoulder region. That is, if he's facing me. If he's not facing me, then (brace yourself for a shocker) I notice the back/shoulder region first. The other place I'm not too concerned about. Yet. lol.

Anyway, on down the list we go...the next thing I notice are his arms. Then the neck. I like a good neck. lol. Don't ask me why, I couldn't tell you. I just like a nice neck. The things I seem least concerned with are the legs.

I do notice hair, but it's much more important to me that it's clean and in good condition than the color. I recently suprised myself by finding this blonde guy who was on that Celebrity Mole show to be extremely hot.

So basically, the eyes, and the shoulder-slash-chest region are the most important things to me, on a purely physical attraction level.

What about you all?

P.S., it was the young-ish blonde guy, not the older blonde guy. The one I'm referring to was sort of freckle-ish and looked like a surfer type, but much, much hotter. And his hair was naturally blonde...*sigh*

*faints

🙂

(oh, and superclean hands and nice cologne will get my attention *really* fast, also)

What I tend to notice first is the hair, I don't know why, I think it's because I'm always looking up... Then I look at the eyes, usually to see if they're looking my way... Then the teeth, which is very important. Then usually at their stature. Overall, I'm just looking to makesure they are clean with good hiegene first.

Not to turn this into an Erik von Detten picturefest, but he's just so pretty...lol

(from http://www.erik-von-detten.da.ru/)<BR>

let's try that again.

well, never mind then 😢

Well, I guess what will catch my attention is charisma first and foremost. Then the smile and arms. Arms MUST be well defined and muscular.

I think I walk in a cloud...I rarely notice men until they are right in my face talking to me...(I have been accused of being in my own world often! LOL! Guess it is true! One guy did observe, 'it seems to be a happy place though!' LOL!)

OK. Once he is in my face...I look at his eyes. I don't care what color, they are....I am looking for warmth, sincerity, and a sense of humor.

Teeth are very important to me! Not only should he have teeth, but, he shouldn't have some missing or huge visible cavities!

I also look at his ears...I don't know why, but, I just don't like the look of the ones that look like they are trying to tune into outer space! (The ones that are out-there!) However, I would never let the look of his ears be a deciding factor...whereas teeth would be...

I love a strong jawline. If he doesn't have one...he is not a match for me! Perhaps it is just my imagination that the jawline signifies strength of will...but, it just seems that when he has a weak one, I am dominant and we are not equal...I don't like to chew guys up and spit them out! So, I don't even go there...

I work out with weights...so, the guy must have better biceps than I do! (I am toned, not a body builder) He must have strong shoulders... He doesn't have to be a body builder either...but, he must have some muscle tone!

I am a butt-and-leg woman though...I cannot wait until I can get a look at his butt and see his legs in shorts! Small butt and strong legs...whew! I gotta go...is it getting hot in here??

OK...I am past my hot flash!

I forgot to mention pheromones! Ah...the test!! He must pass my pheromone test! Of course, he should be clean...but, I prefer to smell him (without cologne) so that I can determine if I like the smell of his natural scent...
This is not something that I am able to determine on a first time meeting!! LOL!

These Eyes...There's a superb song named so ...
Deep,dark,fascinating and daring gaze.Then ...the buttocks!
Round shaped,muscular,strong.And the chest.Smooth or hairy-doesn't matter-but has to be worked on -still not the Van Damme or Schwarteneger type.
Also I have an attraction towars beautiful hands and I look for nice healthy shape of the nails.

Well, i won't go on about the guys, although i can, but i will tell you what attracts me in a person.

I usually go with the eyes; whether or not they can hold my stare or not. I like to see 'something' in the eyes... Next i would have to say it is the way they hold themselves. I like a study person who holds themselves well. Tall and confident but not necessarily tall if you get my drift.

I like a person with a naturally good physique. It doesn't have to be 'worked on' but it has to be obvious they take care of themselves and respect themselves.

I also have this thing for teeth. I like to know a person cleans their teeth every day! Hair doesn't really bother me, as long as it suits them and they are comfortable with it.

I like someone who is 'comfortable' with themselves.

I suppose all in all, i like someone who is damn sexy! And that is the sort of thing that comes from within.

"whether or not they can hold my stare or not". Can you believe this sentence? I should be in primary school.