What’s a healthy amount to be frequenting a strip club?

Legit asking for my friends

I asked them to come out with me today

1 wants to wait for a new young hooker to do a 1st day stint like his budget is reserved for that thing

The other is waiting for an old (30) hooker legend to report back to work

The June maybe gem guy is more interested in other ways to get girls but the libra seems focused on escortcelling til the bricklemarks hit

Ok my bad they’re called therapists here not hookers but same thing

@midatbest forgot to tag in the first post

He is consciously setting out to break in a baby stripper? There are surely many like that 😭 since baby strippers would lack confidence and boundaries

Just go as often as you have money to tip everyone onstage and remember that the stripper does not like you (in case your friends need to hear it)

You would assume we're the lowest of the low undesirables and that clients are not going to find new girlfriends, but they're falling in love all the time. My coworker Luna has this cute dude around my age crying over her regularly, she's a Cap sun/ASC Aries moon, somehow she gets him to spend bands on her at least once a week spanning a long while.

Most of the strip joints right here where I am is closed down now. I think what they trying to do is ban stripping altogether but rather outlawing it slowly. But yea try to go as often as you can while you still can if you got the funds for it but I wouldn't go everyday as that probably can be unhealthy like try to do it in proportion and balance your everyday normal regular life style and going to strip joints. I mean that's all I got to contribute to this thread really.

I went to a strip show when I was in my 20s. The bloke was full of muscles and oiled up. I was hiding behind my pint hoping to not be chosen to go on stage and be fake shagged 😂. I’d not go again, once was enough. I think women strippers are often more sexier than male ones although I’ve never been to a strip club.

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He is consciously setting out to break in a baby stripper? There are surely many like that 😭 since baby strippers would lack confidence and boundaries


Just go as often as you have money to tip everyone onstage and remember that the stripper does not like you (in case your friends need to hear it)


You would assume we're the lowest of the low undesirables and that clients are not going to find new girlfriends, but they're falling in love all the time. My coworker Luna has this cute dude around my age crying over her regularly, she's a Cap sun/ASC Aries moon, somehow she gets him to spend bands on her at least once a week spanning a long while.

yes that's his style in general

just having money and going if you have enough is not healthy lol! a buddy of mine does that every week. I think his days are Thursdays and Fridays and then weekend with the family lol!

I think the opposite of undesirable is more common here

I personally wouldn’t date men who go to strip clubs seriously. Outside of like a bachelor party and even then I think it’s cringe.

Its usually men who can’t get women without leveraging money or men who need women to perform in a low risk no rejection environment

There is one type of guy I’ll give a pass to. The guys that don’t make the women perform and just let them sit down with them and give them tips regardless. No ego trip or power dynamic, he’s just maybe a little lonely or wanting the company of a woman without having to jump through dating hoops.

The last time I went to a strip club was in Dec 2018... The girl who hooked up with me literally told me that I'm very handsome that I should submit modeling applications.

What's your predator-minded friends sign ands? I suspect Gemini or Pisces lol

When I said "undesirable" I meant in the dating market value context, not looks but I forgot who I was talking to 😆

We have several regulars who make it once-twice a week or more. I figure they must have infinite $ 🤷 I've made some 1.2k in the past week off one guy who comes in daily and I'm the only girl he gets dances w bc below 30 gives him the ick and the mid-40s woman is his former coworker. So I struck gold there, pray it lasts 💸

Maybe if I'm being more realistic it's healthy to go to the club just during special events like local college graduation or other major events in town where there'll be tourists and it'll be poppin. I was thinking healthy as in financially and emotionally (how not to become parasocial)

An old man the other day was crying to me about his ex of 3 months, his other ex who died, and his ex wife of 3 years ago who he finally cemented the divorce. I made some $ 150+ off him just for being the first person to sit by him 🤷 that's happened quite a few times now. pilatesbod defined the clientele in excellent terms lol. Except some of the guys who let the girls just sit there during dances and talk are grimy

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The last time I went to a strip club was in Dec 2018... The girl who hooked up with me literally told me that I'm very handsome that I should submit modeling applications.

She mightve meant it but those hoes also be lyin xD that girl Luna I spoke of told an obese regular that he looks like Channing Tatum and now he's obsessed with her

Posted by MyStarsShine
I went to a strip show when I was in my 20s. The bloke was full of muscles and oiled up. I was hiding behind my pint hoping to not be chosen to go on stage and be fake shagged 😂. I’d not go again, once was enough. I think women strippers are often more sexier than male ones although I’ve never been to a strip club.

Vinny Guadagnino though 😍

Yes

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The last time I went to a strip club was in Dec 2018... The girl who hooked up with me literally told me that I'm very handsome that I should submit modeling applications.

She mightve meant it but those hoes also be lyin xD that girl Luna I spoke of told an obese regular that he looks like Channing Tatum and now he's obsessed with her

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LMAO

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I went to a strip show when I was in my 20s. The bloke was full of muscles and oiled up. I was hiding behind my pint hoping to not be chosen to go on stage and be fake shagged 😂. I’d not go again, once was enough. I think women strippers are often more sexier than male ones although I’ve never been to a strip club.

Vinny Guadagnino though 😍

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Scorpio 😃

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The last time I went to a strip club was in Dec 2018... The girl who hooked up with me literally told me that I'm very handsome that I should submit modeling applications.

She mightve meant it but those hoes also be lyin xD that girl Luna I spoke of told an obese regular that he looks like Channing Tatum and now he's obsessed with her
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LMAO

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Ands also told me that he took you to a bar once and bought you a lap dance but you watched him receive one instead x)

I told him it could be the three of us in a winsome throuple, lazily fondling bottles in an orchard in the pale moonlight

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The last time I went to a strip club was in Dec 2018... The girl who hooked up with me literally told me that I'm very handsome that I should submit modeling applications.

She mightve meant it but those hoes also be lyin xD that girl Luna I spoke of told an obese regular that he looks like Channing Tatum and now he's obsessed with her
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LMAO
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Ands also told me that he took you to a bar once and bought you a lap dance but you watched him receive one instead x)


I told him it could be the three of us in a winsome throuple, lazily fondling bottles in an orchard in the pale moonlight

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LOL I didn’t know what to do then! It was my first time at the strip club. Wanna try it again though! 😅

Only went to a strip club once back in 2020 for my friend’s birthday. Bouncer nearly killed some guy, then the Bouncer looked like he was about to cry after the owner was calming him down 😂

I only got a dance from one girl, she chose me like a Pokemon. Took me to the back. Then she came back with me to our table for shots, asked for my socials but I said I’m not on social media and I’m from out of town.

I don’t think I care to go again.

Posted by PilatesBod
I personally wouldn’t date men who go to strip clubs seriously. Outside of like a bachelor party and even then I think it’s cringe.


Its usually men who can’t get women without leveraging money or men who need women to perform in a low risk no rejection environment


There is one type of guy I’ll give a pass to. The guys that don’t make the women perform and just let them sit down with them and give them tips regardless. No ego trip or power dynamic, he’s just maybe a little lonely or wanting the company of a woman without having to jump through dating hoops.

It’s much worse when I mean strip club I think o really mean brothel 🤣

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The last time I went to a strip club was in Dec 2018... The girl who hooked up with me literally told me that I'm very handsome that I should submit modeling applications.

She mightve meant it but those hoes also be lyin xD that girl Luna I spoke of told an obese regular that he looks like Channing Tatum and now he's obsessed with her
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LMAO
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Ands also told me that he took you to a bar once and bought you a lap dance but you watched him receive one instead x)

I told him it could be the three of us in a winsome throuple, lazily fondling bottles in an orchard in the pale moonlight
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LOL I didn’t know what to do then! It was my first time at the strip club. Wanna try it again though! 😅

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It’s not very becoming of a good citizen to go to strip clubs