Should I not ghost anyone?

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Kalelno on Sunday, June 22, 2025 and has 16 replies.

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@Kalelno
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Horrible move of modern times

But I deleted a dating app months ago and now I’m Jorny so the Scorpio would be ideal to come over particularly coz I’m up at her schedule now

I have to download the app and match with her again though

Dunno if she would swipe right this time coz flakey thing to do to just ghost right but maybe I would have an easier time if I just kept in touch 😅

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Maybe I will see how I feel after I nut into a tenga mouth

The libra goes home on the weekends and helicopters to islands with her dad to overlord on some things so weekends are usually off with her

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Thier are different kinds of ghosting.

There is, very busy and lost touch with each other. Which happens. You each other when you remember. (Relationships you want to kep and maintain)

There is, inpersonal relationship so keeping in touch doesn't matter, but say hi and engage whenever either each out. ( Outer circle friendships are usually this)

There is, I need space to process our relationship and work on other things.( Doesn't count in my book, because loose contact is kept).

There is, inpersonal Idgaf and ignore the other person until you feel like it.

Which one or variation did you do?

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@Kalelno
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Posted by Lostthoughts
Thier are different kinds of ghosting.

There is, very busy and lost touch with each other. Which happens. You each other when you remember. (Relationships you want to kep and maintain)

There is, inpersonal relationship so keeping in touch doesn't matter, but say hi and engage whenever either each out. ( Outer circle friendships are usually this)

Well it’s not the last 1

So maybe 1 or 2

We’re casual so I don’t think it matters that much to her at least I hope not

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Posted by Kalelno
Posted by Lostthoughts
Thier are different kinds of ghosting.
There is, very busy and lost touch with each other. Which happens. You each other when you remember. (Relationships you want to kep and maintain)
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There is, I need space to process our relationship and work on other things.( Doesn't count in my book, because loose contact is kept).
There is, inpersonal Idgaf and ignore the other person until you feel like it.

Which one or variation did you do?


Well it’s not the last 1

So maybe 1 or 2

We’re casual so I don’t think it matters that much to her at least I hope not

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Well I guess pickup where you left off and see if she responds and is game too.

In the future, if you value something and most importantly relationships, be sure to put in effort to maintain it to some extent🙂

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Posted by Kalelno
Taurus jorny = message woman for sex

Forgot he doesn’t have her number 🤣

Nope. I've got many Taurus personality traits. Lmao definitely put effort into things that matter. Though, if it's one-sided or unappreciated or made to be too difficult, eventually green pastures....

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Posted by MidAtBest
Good luck

If shes open to conversation just act like you were overwhelmed and afraid to love, afraid to get hurt

She won't believe you but the sliver of possibility that you're honest will be romantic for her

Classic DENNIS system

I don’t think the vibes are like that at all

It’s not like we were talking about relationships and being together

It was very casual

She also mentioned she sometimes ghosted other people when she started to get feelings