What house represents friends?

11th or 7th?

so if my mc is cancer my 11th is Leo

sun is in my 7th house

is bro mathing right

wtf I need to double check why have I never noticed this

ok no 11th house virgo mercury in 6th

rocket is my best friend

Posted by MidAtBest
I like people falling into my 1st/2nd house and 4th/5th

I've never thought about liking someone as a friend

I don't think I have boundaries lol

Posted by Kalelno
ok no 11th house virgo mercury in 6th

rocket is my best friend

you have a Virgo merc?

I think scorpios are the perfect taurus friend

then all the taurus scorpio relationships are coz they misjudged a great friendship for a romance

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Posted by Kalelno
ok no 11th house virgo mercury in 6th

rocket is my best friend

you have a Virgo merc?

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no aries mercury in the 6th house

my 11th house is virgo

i feel like it's the 11th coz most of my friends are Aquas

and i've got Virgo rising so Pisces is in my 7th (partner/marriage)

It’s supposed to be the 11th house. 7th house is supposed to be about serious relationships (marriage, business partnerships, open enemies). My empty 11th house is in Libra. I’ve personally overall attracted a lot of Libras more than any other signs as friends or much more. My empty 7th house is in Gemini and I barely ever met any.

Posted by SassyKiwi
It’s supposed to be the 11th house. 7th house is supposed to be about serious relationships (marriage, business partnerships, open enemies). My empty 11th house is in Libra. I’ve personally overall attracted a lot of Libras more than any other signs as friends or much more. My empty 7th house is in Gemini and I barely ever met any.

Damn firebunny is the only Virgo that wants to be my friend 😭

Most of my friends are fire and air

11th house is suppose to represent friends from my understanding. I got empty 11th house in Leo. I don't know what that suppose to mean but yeah there's that.

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Posted by SassyKiwi
It’s supposed to be the 11th house. 7th house is supposed to be about serious relationships (marriage, business partnerships, open enemies). My empty 11th house is in Libra. I’ve personally overall attracted a lot of Libras more than any other signs as friends or much more. My empty 7th house is in Gemini and I barely ever met any.

Damn firebunny is the only Virgo that wants to be my friend 😭

Most of my friends are fire and air

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Kinda wild he’s like the only close Virgo in your life? Must mean y’all are like BFFL or something xD I bet you could probably expect that friendship to last ‘till death do y’all apart? I feel like he’d definitely make sure of it

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Posted by SassyKiwi
It’s supposed to be the 11th house. 7th house is supposed to be about serious relationships (marriage, business partnerships, open enemies). My empty 11th house is in Libra. I’ve personally overall attracted a lot of Libras more than any other signs as friends or much more. My empty 7th house is in Gemini and I barely ever met any.

Where ia your Mercury tho? Always look at both house and its ruler. Also, it's not necessarily about attracting those signs, it's just people with their characteristics

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Mercury in Aqua in the 3rd house. Are you implying something like the ruler of the 3rd house being in my 2nd house (Uranus is in my 2nd house)? Tbh I don’t see how I’d personally like anything resembling Gemini energy for 7th house matters. I’d actively romantically avoid people with sun or venus in Gemini lol. Although it could also still imply they’d make a good business partner and/or open enemy if I attempted? Lol confirmation bias at its finest huh

11th = friendships

7th = partnerships romantic and business

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Posted by Overthinker

Posted by SassyKiwi
It’s supposed to be the 11th house. 7th house is supposed to be about serious relationships (marriage, business partnerships, open enemies). My empty 11th house is in Libra. I’ve personally overall attracted a lot of Libras more than any other signs as friends or much more. My empty 7th house is in Gemini and I barely ever met any.

Where ia your Mercury tho? Always look at both house and its ruler. Also, it's not necessarily about attracting those signs, it's just people with their characteristics
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Mercury in Aqua in the 3rd house. Are you implying something like the ruler of the 3rd house being in my 2nd house (Uranus is in my 2nd house)? Tbh I don’t see how I’d personally like anything resembling Gemini energy for 7th house matters. I’d actively romantically avoid people with sun or venus in Gemini lol. Although it could also still imply they’d make a good business partner and/or open enemy if I attempted? Lol confirmation bias at its finest huh

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Is Uranus your only 2nd house planet? Is it odd to have in the 2nd house?

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Posted by SassyKiwi
It’s supposed to be the 11th house. 7th house is supposed to be about serious relationships (marriage, business partnerships, open enemies). My empty 11th house is in Libra. I’ve personally overall attracted a lot of Libras more than any other signs as friends or much more. My empty 7th house is in Gemini and I barely ever met any.

Where ia your Mercury tho? Always look at both house and its ruler. Also, it's not necessarily about attracting those signs, it's just people with their characteristics
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Mercury in Aqua in the 3rd house. Are you implying something like the ruler of the 3rd house being in my 2nd house (Uranus is in my 2nd house)? Tbh I don’t see how I’d personally like anything resembling Gemini energy for 7th house matters. I’d actively romantically avoid people with sun or venus in Gemini lol. Although it could also still imply they’d make a good business partner and/or open enemy if I attempted? Lol confirmation bias at its finest huh
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Sometimes people really can't relate to their 7th house as a description of a life partner. It could also point at attraction towards youthful or intellectual people. Always keep in mind that Mercury as a ruler of 7th indicates attraction to someone intellectual and that you simply put an emphasis on the intellectual connection in relationships. So in your case, it could describe someone younger looking, sometimes even younger than you, very smart, humoristic, quirky or unusual in some ways and that you might meet that person in school, neighborhood, short trips etc.

But again, that's just description based on 7th, I personally find Juno equally important. For me Juno and DSC paint the perfect picture of someone who is right for me. Here's also example of my bf (or ex now already) who's 7th is in Aqua - if he finds a woman repelling, she's usually Aqua 😅 rulers of his DSC Uranus and Saturn are jn 3rd and 4th and in Libra and Sag...but, his Juno in Sag falls between my Venus and MC so there it was😅

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Juno in Gemini 8th house 😭

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Posted by Kalelno

Posted by SassyKiwi
It’s supposed to be the 11th house. 7th house is supposed to be about serious relationships (marriage, business partnerships, open enemies). My empty 11th house is in Libra. I’ve personally overall attracted a lot of Libras more than any other signs as friends or much more. My empty 7th house is in Gemini and I barely ever met any.

Damn firebunny is the only Virgo that wants to be my friend 😭

Most of my friends are fire and air
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Kinda wild he’s like the only close Virgo in your life? Must mean y’all are like BFFL or something xD I bet you could probably expect that friendship to last ‘till death do y’all apart? I feel like he’d definitely make sure of it

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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Posted by Overthinker

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Posted by Overthinker

Posted by SassyKiwi
It’s supposed to be the 11th house. 7th house is supposed to be about serious relationships (marriage, business partnerships, open enemies). My empty 11th house is in Libra. I’ve personally overall attracted a lot of Libras more than any other signs as friends or much more. My empty 7th house is in Gemini and I barely ever met any.

Where ia your Mercury tho? Always look at both house and its ruler. Also, it's not necessarily about attracting those signs, it's just people with their characteristics
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Mercury in Aqua in the 3rd house. Are you implying something like the ruler of the 3rd house being in my 2nd house (Uranus is in my 2nd house)? Tbh I don’t see how I’d personally like anything resembling Gemini energy for 7th house matters. I’d actively romantically avoid people with sun or venus in Gemini lol. Although it could also still imply they’d make a good business partner and/or open enemy if I attempted? Lol confirmation bias at its finest huh
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Sometimes people really can't relate to their 7th house as a description of a life partner. It could also point at attraction towards youthful or intellectual people. Always keep in mind that Mercury as a ruler of 7th indicates attraction to someone intellectual and that you simply put an emphasis on the intellectual connection in relationships. So in your case, it could describe someone younger looking, sometimes even younger than you, very smart, humoristic, quirky or unusual in some ways and that you might meet that person in school, neighborhood, short trips etc.

But again, that's just description based on 7th, I personally find Juno equally important. For me Juno and DSC paint the perfect picture of someone who is right for me. Here's also example of my bf (or ex now already) who's 7th is in Aqua - if he finds a woman repelling, she's usually Aqua 😅 rulers of his DSC Uranus and Saturn are jn 3rd and 4th and in Libra and Sag...but, his Juno in Sag falls between my Venus and MC so there it was😅

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When you interpret it as putting an emphasis on intellectual connections in relationships I definitely relate to that. I literally had a requirement in my future spouse being able to communicate properly in long lengthy text messages with proper punctuation, grammar and everything ._. Kind of like sending modern letters back and forth to each other (apart from emails). Unfortunately that ability is dwindling among people. And my husband ended up unknowingly always living 15-20 mins away from me xD I was shocked I ended up with someone so local.

Gurl, the Juno thing is kind of wild to me. I have Juno in Sag in the 1st house and I often irrationally get mesmerized by Sags like no other (apparently even women). Like I’m a confident hetero demisexual here. So weird. I had an ex who was a Sag and while they’re toxic for me I often found myself dazing off into a trance when I’d be with him… so bad for me.

My DSC is in Taurus which indicates “a desire for stable, reliable, and aesthetically pleasing partners and relationships.” That’s very true but it also strongly fits my Venus in Capricorn in the 2nd house a lot.

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Posted by SassyKiwi
It’s supposed to be the 11th house. 7th house is supposed to be about serious relationships (marriage, business partnerships, open enemies). My empty 11th house is in Libra. I’ve personally overall attracted a lot of Libras more than any other signs as friends or much more. My empty 7th house is in Gemini and I barely ever met any.

Where ia your Mercury tho? Always look at both house and its ruler. Also, it's not necessarily about attracting those signs, it's just people with their characteristics
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Mercury in Aqua in the 3rd house. Are you implying something like the ruler of the 3rd house being in my 2nd house (Uranus is in my 2nd house)? Tbh I don’t see how I’d personally like anything resembling Gemini energy for 7th house matters. I’d actively romantically avoid people with sun or venus in Gemini lol. Although it could also still imply they’d make a good business partner and/or open enemy if I attempted? Lol confirmation bias at its finest huh
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Is Uranus your only 2nd house planet? Is it odd to have in the 2nd house?

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I have Uranus, Neptune and Venus in the 2nd house. I like to pretend the first two don’t exist xD. Venus is definitely the golden child.

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Posted by SassyKiwi
It’s supposed to be the 11th house. 7th house is supposed to be about serious relationships (marriage, business partnerships, open enemies). My empty 11th house is in Libra. I’ve personally overall attracted a lot of Libras more than any other signs as friends or much more. My empty 7th house is in Gemini and I barely ever met any.

Damn firebunny is the only Virgo that wants to be my friend 😭

Most of my friends are fire and air
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Kinda wild he’s like the only close Virgo in your life? Must mean y’all are like BFFL or something xD I bet you could probably expect that friendship to last ‘till death do y’all apart? I feel like he’d definitely make sure of it
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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You will always be my best friend, buddy 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Posted by Kalelno

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Posted by Kalelno

Posted by SassyKiwi
It’s supposed to be the 11th house. 7th house is supposed to be about serious relationships (marriage, business partnerships, open enemies). My empty 11th house is in Libra. I’ve personally overall attracted a lot of Libras more than any other signs as friends or much more. My empty 7th house is in Gemini and I barely ever met any.

Damn firebunny is the only Virgo that wants to be my friend 😭

Most of my friends are fire and air
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Kinda wild he’s like the only close Virgo in your life? Must mean y’all are like BFFL or something xD I bet you could probably expect that friendship to last ‘till death do y’all apart? I feel like he’d definitely make sure of it
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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You will always be my best friend, buddy 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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No buddy I just paid attention to you on DXP but don’t you know the ands talks to everyone 🤣

Posted by Kalelno
11th or 7th?

so if my mc is cancer my 11th is Leo

sun is in my 7th house

is bro mathing right

wtf I need to double check why have I never noticed this

11th is community not just friends. If the house is empty you have no karma their and a lot of freedom as far as life experiences. You can learn a lot from those who you attract in that department. We are drawn to and admire people for the qualities we ourselves want. Considering you aura farm, I'm going to double down on this with you.

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Posted by MidAtBest
I like people falling into my 1st/2nd house and 4th/5th

I've never thought about liking someone as a friend

I don't think I have boundaries lol
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But how can you be friends with them if you don't like them?

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I never have it a thought

But like here your high school class can become your friend group for life

While there is some choice for sure you don’t always pick who becomes you high school classmate

Posted by MidAtBest
This thread gave me a realization

People consider their peers, coworkers, family etc "friends" because they feel they have to due to the proximity. Hence the roasting, they're venting things they would normally reject the person for but due to involuntary proximity "I luv ya anyways you scoundrel"

I've taken tons of shit for refusing to engage with such, but I didn't realize people are consciously friends with those they dislike. Till now. Incredible

I’m sure people in the friend group get kicked out if their behavior is too foul like I have a buddy that gambles and has caused a lot of drama for my high school friend group

I personally still consider him a friend because I was gone the whole time he was wrecking havoc in my social circle and I remember him as a great guy in high school

I’m avoidant so I probably wouldn’t be friends with toxic people but I doubt they’d try toxic shit and drama on me anyway

But yeah even my parents are still friends with people they went to high school with

I would even say it’s their main friend group

High school seems to be very important here 🤣

My teacher even told this to me when I was in high school!! Like he’s friends with his old high school friends and shit

Posted by Kalelno

Posted by MidAtBest
This thread gave me a realization

People consider their peers, coworkers, family etc "friends" because they feel they have to due to the proximity. Hence the roasting, they're venting things they would normally reject the person for but due to involuntary proximity "I luv ya anyways you scoundrel"

I've taken tons of shit for refusing to engage with such, but I didn't realize people are consciously friends with those they dislike. Till now. Incredible

I’m sure people in the friend group get kicked out if their behavior is too foul like I have a buddy that gambles and has caused a lot of drama for my high school friend group

I personally still consider him a friend because I was gone the whole time he was wrecking havoc in my social circle and I remember him as a great guy in high school

I’m avoidant so I probably wouldn’t be friends with toxic people but I doubt they’d try toxic shit and drama on me anyway

But yeah even my parents are still friends with people they went to high school with

I would even say it’s their main friend group

High school seems to be very important here 🤣

My teacher even told this to me when I was in high school!! Like he’s friends with his old high school friends and shit

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*I’m avoidant so I probably wouldn’t be friends with toxic people but I doubt they’d try toxic shit and drama on me anyway*

Amen to this, I’m constantly avoiding toxic people and can’t even be around people who drink and get drunk 🥴