I just got an engagement proposal @_@

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by ArbolTreeClub on Tuesday, June 17, 2025 and has 19 replies.

Should You Say Yes to the Engagement Proposal

Deciding whether to accept depends on your feelings and readiness for commitment. Consider your connection, future goals, and comfort level with the relationship. Trust your intuition and assess if this partnership aligns with your values before making a decision.

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@ArbolTreeClub
1 Year

Through chat message on FB Messenger.

I could not believe it.

I like her but I haven't met her yet in person. She's fun to chat with though and my mood always lights up when we talk.

She lives far away, in another island, about 6-9 hours away... where you have to cross the treacherous Pacific Ocean.

She's smart, a little pretty, sort of big (she's on weight loss though). By profession, she's a pharmacist.

I still can't believe this is happening...

Should I say YES—

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Posted by hydorah
don't let ands aura farm your success boo. Make sure it's not a man before saying yes

+1000 in fact don’t let ands do anything 🤣🤣🤣

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Posted by ArbolTreeClub
Ands will be the best man 🤣🤣🤣

Buddy you have a brother for that 🤣🤣🤣

How old is she btw?

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@Kalelno
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Posted by ArbolTreeClub
He’s already married, buddy!

She’s 36.

I mean for the best man slot

Oh then yeah she’s of the settling down age

Being it up with your parents if it gets serious

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Posted by Kalelno

Posted by ArbolTreeClub
He’s already married, buddy!

She’s 36.

I mean for the best man slot

Oh then yeah she’s of the settling down age

Being it up with your parents if it gets serious

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In our culture, a married guy cannot be the best man... so the next in line would be the groom's best friend.

I have many best friends, Ands, but it is you I choose.

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@Kalelno
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Posted by ArbolTreeClub

Posted by Kalelno

Posted by ArbolTreeClub
He’s already married, buddy!

She’s 36.

I mean for the best man slot

Oh then yeah she’s of the settling down age

Being it up with your parents if it gets serious
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In our culture, a married guy cannot be the best man... so the next in line would be the groom's best friend.

I have many best friends, Ands, but it is you I choose.

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Oh I didn’t know that buddy. I’ve never been to a wedding and a funeral.

I’m in but can you ask her who her maid of honor is 🤣

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@ArbolTreeClub
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Let's not be too fast just yet. I haven't said yes to her. I need to date her first. So far, we like each other but the distance is just too far.

On the other hand, the Reyna Elena I'm talking about lives far away too... like 6 hours away... but at least, I don't need boats to meet her... and we've already dated before... It's just that she doesn't reply often and if she does, it's only 1 line or so... The company was great though... Throughout the entire date, we laughed several times.

I'm thinking about visiting them both on separate weekends and see where it goes... but the thing is, the girl who proposed to me seems very sure about it...

HELP ME DECIDE, ANDS!!!

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@Kalelno
1 Year1,000+ Posts

Posted by ArbolTreeClub
Let's not be too fast just yet. I haven't said yes to her. I need to date her first. So far, we like each other but the distance is just too far.

On the other hand, the Reyna Elena I'm talking about lives far away too... like 6 hours away... but at least, I don't need boats to meet her... and we've already dated before... It's just that she doesn't reply often and if she does, it's only 1 line or so... The company was great though... Throughout the entire date, we laughed several times.

I'm thinking about visiting them both on separate weekends and see where it goes... but the thing is, the girl who proposed to me seems very sure about it...

HELP ME DECIDE, ANDS!!!

Go with the pharmacist

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Posted by Textosmoon
Can I be brides maid—

I guess that depends on the bride... but yes, you can be part of the entourage 🙂 I'm guessing, you're willing to travel to the Philippines—

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Posted by MidAtBest
No offense but ask her if she has PCOS first

Thanks for the advice. I hope she'll be able to conceive but, if not, maybe it's okay with me.

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Posted by ArbolTreeClub

Posted by Textosmoon
Can I be brides maid—

I guess that depends on the bride... but yes, you can be part of the entourage I'm guessing, you're willing to travel to the Philippines—

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Would love to see the philippines! Humidity is high right?

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@ArbolTreeClub
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Yes, it's humid here! Good thing we face the Pacific Ocean so we have plenty of winds this side of the Philippines 🙂

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@Kalelno
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Posted by Kalelno

Posted by MidAtBest
No offense but ask her if she has PCOS first

What does PCOS do lol?

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Nvm you answered it in the next post

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