I just got an engagement proposal @_@

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by ArbolTreeClub on Tuesday, June 17, 2025 and has 24 replies.

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@ArbolTreeClub
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Through chat message on FB Messenger.

I could not believe it.

I like her but I haven't met her yet in person. She's fun to chat with though and my mood always lights up when we talk.

She lives far away, in another island, about 6-9 hours away... where you have to cross the treacherous Pacific Ocean.

She's smart, a little pretty, sort of big (she's on weight loss though). By profession, she's a pharmacist.

I still can't believe this is happening...

Should I say YES—

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Posted by Kalelno
Posted by ArbolTreeClub
He’s already married, buddy!

She’s 36.


I mean for the best man slot

Oh then yeah she’s of the settling down age

Being it up with your parents if it gets serious

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In our culture, a married guy cannot be the best man... so the next in line would be the groom's best friend.

I have many best friends, Ands, but it is you I choose.

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Posted by ArbolTreeClub
Posted by Kalelno
Posted by ArbolTreeClub
He’s already married, buddy!

She’s 36.

I mean for the best man slot

Oh then yeah she’s of the settling down age

Being it up with your parents if it gets serious
click to expand


In our culture, a married guy cannot be the best man... so the next in line would be the groom's best friend.

I have many best friends, Ands, but it is you I choose.

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Oh I didn’t know that buddy. I’ve never been to a wedding and a funeral.

I’m in but can you ask her who her maid of honor is 🤣

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@ArbolTreeClub
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Let's not be too fast just yet. I haven't said yes to her. I need to date her first. So far, we like each other but the distance is just too far.

On the other hand, the Reyna Elena I'm talking about lives far away too... like 6 hours away... but at least, I don't need boats to meet her... and we've already dated before... It's just that she doesn't reply often and if she does, it's only 1 line or so... The company was great though... Throughout the entire date, we laughed several times.

I'm thinking about visiting them both on separate weekends and see where it goes... but the thing is, the girl who proposed to me seems very sure about it...

HELP ME DECIDE, ANDS!!!

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@Kalelno
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Posted by ArbolTreeClub
Let's not be too fast just yet. I haven't said yes to her. I need to date her first. So far, we like each other but the distance is just too far.

On the other hand, the Reyna Elena I'm talking about lives far away too... like 6 hours away... but at least, I don't need boats to meet her... and we've already dated before... It's just that she doesn't reply often and if she does, it's only 1 line or so... The company was great though... Throughout the entire date, we laughed several times.

I'm thinking about visiting them both on separate weekends and see where it goes... but the thing is, the girl who proposed to me seems very sure about it...

HELP ME DECIDE, ANDS!!!

Go with the pharmacist