compatability, which is a better fit

I just started coming on this site, and knew nothing beyond sun signs before going through the chat rooms. I still have no clue. I am Taurus sun with Leo moon. Can anyone tell me the dynamics between me and a cancer sun Libra moon or a Capricorn sun Virgo moon? I would be interested to see if what you all say matches what I think. I am quite delusional right now, so I would love to hear any input.

Only you can say which is the better fit.
Who do you feel the most emotionally and physically connected to?
Who understands you?
Who are you attracted to the most?
Who will be there for you when your car breaks down at 3am?

I find you being double fixed compared to a double cardinal quite interesting.
Which may make the Can/Lib very assertive.
And then there is the double earth sign, which would suggest you have a desire for more stable earthy connections.
You may feel more emotional understanding coming from the Can/Lib due to the sextile moon placements.

Hm I am a Taurus with Aquarius moon female. I'm not into astrology to much be it's interesting. But now that I have never met another Taurus.. I want to find out.. A Taurus and Taurus highly compatible with the right placement.. according to cafe astrology..everyone has ups and downs..the Aries male I know and the Taurus male I discovered..both say that's it may be more negative than positive.

And if you don't go by astrology. Go by the conversation and let it ride. Like I am doing old fashioned way.. by talking and trusting.. I found a Taurus male is like meeting someone you never knew and find out you are different but similar which makes it work.

LunarMaiden, answers to the questions. I feel most emotionally connected to the cancer/Libra. I am also more attracted to him, and feel much more understood by him. I think either would come get me at three in the morning if my car broke down, but I think either would do that for anyone.

The cap/Virgo has been a stable presence in my life for fifteen years now (since I was 18). I have much more reason to want to be with him. Once upon a time I thought he understood me more than anyone else. I have been realizing for the last few years he really does not understand me at all. He has no idea how emotions work and can only understand logic.

The other man I have only known for about half a year. There was a pretty instant connection once we started chatting. I now realize his connection came at first sight. I can not believe anyone can so easily understand exactly how I feel. But, there are a million obstacles standing in our way. It is basically impossible for us to ever be together. There is a strange dynamic between us as well. I have actually been the more assertive one. I think this is because he tries to keep his space knowing we can never have anything. There have been a few occasions when he has been quite bold, but then he hides after making any advances.

I like the same things about both when I describe them. Both are extremely intelligent, charismatic, entrepreneurs who let no one tell them how to live their lives. They are interesting and clever. They are caring individuals. Yet they are so different in ways I can mostly only feel. A negative, although capricorn has never told me a lie and cancer seems to lie by not telling the whole story. Cancer/Libra has turned my world upsidedown. He has made me feel for the first time in forever. Even though I know we cannot be together, our connection has made me question whether it is wrong for me to be with the cap/Virgo. I now feel my feelings for him are meant for friendship only and I am being unfair to him and lying to myself remaining together. Can I ever feel the same? I feel quite sure I will never meet anyone like the cancer/Libra again. If I go off on my own I will only be sad and alone, or end up with someone not nearly as good as either man. Cancer will always be the one that got away (although my stubborn ways refuse to let me let go) and cap has always been my rock and a true best friend.