@saweetz1988
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Detached Aqua n even more detached cap moon Works!
Um... isn't that contradictory? Love is scientifically an addiction. So you're addicted to his detachment? What... Whatever. He's detached, meaning he isn't loyal to you, herpderp.
Sorry for my um... potentially off putting first response. I'm curious what you mean by detached. Do you just mean like, his emotions don't weigh on you and vice versa? That I can understand a bit more. But like I'm confused. What's stopping you from leaving him for someone who's even more detached or whatever? What's making you stick to him when you're all about detachment?
What is there to keep you from cheating? Is it an open relationship? Or what?
Yep!
Posted by LordTerramine
Sorry for my um... potentially off putting first response. I'm curious what you mean by detached. Do you just mean like, his emotions don't weigh on you and vice versa? That I can understand a bit more. But like I'm confused. What's stopping you from leaving him for someone who's even more detached or whatever? What's making you stick to him when you're all about detachment?What is there to keep you from cheating? Is it an open relationship? Or what?
I am addicted to him wholeheartedly , spiritually , love wise n sexuality wise. I think subconsciously, I am drawn to his calmness. When I say detach I don't meant disloyalty. I mean a balance feeling of emotion and his Way of making sure we both live life to the fullest. No limitations, no bothering, no jealousy no posessiveness . My love for him is blossom. I get my independence n much love space yet when we r together it's fire..... his emotion don't weigh on me either so it work both ways. He's also very independently and like to achieve things on his own without my help and I find that extremely attractive.... In social setting, we both hate drama n emotion outburst so we love our connection yet giving each other spaces.. we r leaning towards n open relationship somehow.. His sag sun hate limitation n appreciate freedom n my moon in Aqua also enjoy non traditional relationships. Yet, he jokingly asked me to marry him. So we have a wired relationship but the deepest bond... Best friends n lovers.... With that kind of relationship, Aqua moon like myself can't go anywhere else... Fulfilled
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omg. Aqua and Leo only get ONE energy like. lol
the others get two.
oh wait. Gemini likes them Virgos. (that is true with father in law and gemmy step-mom!)
and virgos like 'em back!!! it's the mercury connection. lmao.
😄
ohhhhhhhh Sag is in looooooveee with Cancer. Yup.I see it here in dxp. But don't know any in real life.
all the sag sun ladies gooo "Cancer man for mmme-oh -meeooohhhh!!" yeah yeah!! well except for my sis. 😆
oh is this for moonies??
ok. that also makes sense.
awwwww, leo males (dominant leos) only like them Aries energies.
oohhhh poor other females who don't have aries energy in them.
that sucks!!!! this is so bad. it's soooooooo unrequited. poor things 😢
ok i had to go check. maria shriver (Scorpio sun/leo moon/sag venus) was married to a Leo sun/cap moon guy (arnold schwarzzer)
and she has NO aries, not even 1st house.
so, she did "get him", but he was NEVER caught really. Since he was doing the horizontal sex thing with Bridget Nielsen from the begginning of their marriage or before. he seemed to have married her for "status" it seems. it sucks!!!
now i have to check Nielsen's chart and why she and him got eachother good.
OOOHHH!!!!
O____O
Bridget Nielsen's chart. Top three energies, she has Aries!!!!
no wonder.
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Brigitte_Nielsen
Born: July 15, 1963, 6:20 AM
In: Copenhagen (Denmark)
Sun: 22??01' Cancer AS: 16??55' Leo
Moon: 7??12' Taurus MC: 26??52' Aries
Dominants: Cancer, Aries, Taurus
Moon, Sun, Jupiter
Posted by lisabethur8
oh is this for moonies??ok. that also makes sense.
It can also be for the ascent and sun but strongest with moon.
But for someone else it may be the ascent and/or sun.
So I need a Pisces moon guy.
A lunar Fish would also work well with my Cancer sun.
Posted by lisabethur8
ok i had to go check. maria shriver (Scorpio sun/leo moon/sag venus) was married to a Leo sun/cap moon guy (arnold schwarzzer)and she has NO aries, not even 1st house.
so, she did "get him", but he was NEVER caught really. Since he was doing the horizontal sex thing with Bridget Nielsen from the begginning of their marriage or before. he seemed to have married her for "status" it seems. it sucks!!!
now i have to check Nielsen's chart and why she and him got eachother good.
OOOHHH!!!!
O____O
Bridget Nielsen's chart. Top three energies, she has Aries!!!!
no wonder.
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Brigitte_Nielsen
Born: July 15, 1963, 6:20 AM
In: Copenhagen (Denmark)
Sun: 22??01' Cancer AS: 16??55' Leo
Moon: 7??12' Taurus MC: 26??52' Aries
Dominants: Cancer, Aries, Taurus
Moon, Sun, Jupiter
I think Arnold was social climbing with Maria.
Not to say he didn't love her but I see he wanted a woman who could take him higher on the social economic scale.
Most people don't marry the people they are magnetically attracted to.
She even states in her video that oftentimes even if we are magnetically attracted to someone we won't date them because they may not look like what we are normally attracted to or just don't fit our standards of what we want. i.e. from a famous, rich and well connected political family vs a fellow actor with no political ties. Arnold married up and through that connection he became Gov of California. Gaining power. Which seems to be a theme with Leo males/Scorp women. Hillary and Bill Clinton.
I think the Scorp power and Leo leadership make an excellent combination for successful business.
He made a very wise choice in wife as far as that is concerned.
You're right about that, Lunar. Arnold was "using" Maria Shriver's skills, her professionalism, for "social Climbing" . She loooked "good" for him and his career and success. To have another professional woman by his side. But NOT all leo men are like this though.
Sadly, Maria Shriver didn't see that about him. How could she NOT feel that he was already doing the sex bump with Bridget Nielsen even the day before their wedding or even a few days before their marriage? And it states that Nielsen and him continued the affair. Not to mention Arnold was doing the Maid in his house too. It seems like he never really loved Maria Shriver or respected her at all.
Maybe that is just in the Leo man/Scorpio woman theme you mentioned.
but in reverse, the Scorpio man/Leo woman is different, like Bill Gates and Melinda Gates.
Even the Cancer woman/Leo man seems more about "Love" than status. Just from these limited observations of course.
hm i have to re-look at Arnold's chart.
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Arnold_Schwarzenegger
he's got cap moon in the 6th house (workaholic ambitious)
sun in the 1st house (both dignified and exaltation!! very Lucky guy all his life, his venus cancer also in the 1st house - strong sense of self and love style)
his mars gemini in the 12th.
also Uranus gemini 12th.
hm i wonder about that mars in the 12th. astrologers are Always talking about that mars in 12th.
it comes off way different than having venus in 12th or sun in 12th ect.
Natal Mars in the 12th House
With your natal Mars in your 12th house, your energy can be hidden from the outside world. You can have a hard time having enough energy for what you need to do, and this holds you back. You don't like being in the spotlight, and have the most energy when you're in the background or working alone. Other people tend to drain you physically. You need periods of solitude to rejuvenate and energize yourself, otherwise you may have low energy all of the time. You may have low confidence and avoid confrontation. Building your confidence is important to having a successful life for you. You may hide or repress your masculine side.
http://www.thedarkpixieastrology.com/the-12th-house.html
this is weird dichotomy for the rest of his chart.
Mars in the 12th House
As strange as it may seem, to you, action means behind the scenes and secrecy. The form of your action is important, as compared to what you actually do. You want no publicity on what you are doing and the reasons of your struggle!
You loathe being seen when you are on the move. You have the uncomfortable feeling that you are spied upon, and that people may judge you. Or you are afraid to displease others. You enjoy taking action in the dark. You may be dedicated to charitable causes, and it is natural to you that you must focus your energy on them.
Humanitarian works, secret settings (hospitals, prisons, convents, etc.), remote and forgotten places (charity missions operating abroad, etc.) constitute privileged settings for the expression of your capacity for action (and for devotion), that is as strong as anybody else's, although it is marked by these quite peculiar characteristics.
Struggles may crop up in the guise of hidden pitfalls and enemies: you may have to fight in some secret ways, in order to face these dark events. It is an art which you master quickly and which enables you to triumph over adversity, more often than not.
http://www.astrotheme.com/files/mars_what_makes_you_tick.php
anyway, all that 6th house, 1st house, 12th ect blah blah....
i'm becoming like those astrologers lol ewww. it doesn't matter, because with all those energies in his chart and his LUCKY life, he took advantage of it and made a CHOICE.
it was his choice to do what he did. No one twisted his arm to go put his dong dong in that woman's body. HIS CHOICE. and he just couldn't help it.
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As time goes by, my moon in Aqua is even more in love with the detached cap moon of his. I love the coolness, the calmness , the cool n collect exterior with water running deep down. There's so much respect, Deep caring , our kind of affection n my detached ways when feeling with his depression n down moments. Over all...... ? I recommend this paring!!!!