He turned off his phone

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Scorpio moon, Leo sun. The past couple of days I felt like he's been ignoring me... He would call but when I asked for alone time or for a special request (he would be around people so it would be short) he would say e would call me back ans didn't but when I called he would answer... Well today I had enough of it and went off. If you not gonna live up to your your promise don't make them... Well, I tried calling and it instantly went to voicemail. So great I'm now frozen out when I've done nothing but tried to have time alone. Why the hell cant you expres your feelings to a Scorpio moon and they be upfront!? So is this it? We were fine well at least I thought we were up until this morning when he said he would call me back but never did. Now him doing this making me feel he has someone else... But he never ignored my calls till now.
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Posted by Rambunctious76
"Now him doing this making me feel he has someone else... But he never ignored my calls till now."

He's not making you do anything. You're feeling it on your own and allowing yourself to get carried away by his (non) actions. Quite possibly he needs to be left alone now after you went off at him for not keeping his promise of not calling you back. Just like you need some down time, so does he.
Youre right . He never denies or says he has someone when I have these doubts though he just skips over it never really talk about it and then we start normal communication again. Telling me it's not the case would put my mind at ease a great deal. I shall back down though. And get busy again. Smh
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My leo ex was pretty bad about following keeping her promises though not saying all leo are like this. Maybe he doesn't care as much?
He's never went this far. I doubt it's that. But people change quickly so it could be
At the end of the day if you feel you've done everything possible to make sure things work and he doesn't reciprocate the same way, is he really worth it? He won't suddenly transform into someone who will give you the same love you envision and same reciprocity. I think he wants to play chicken aint no worse sign to play it with than a bull. Yeah you feel for him, i empathize for you there but stand up for yourself and let him reach out to you. The ball is in his court. If he takes his sweet time or doesn't see it as much of an issue then you got your answer.
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Thanks. I let my emotions get the best of me and I'm normally in control. So I'm just gonna put my focus elsewhere. Just hate things being unturned and not resolved but I'm not waiting for closure. I learned that in my last relationship.
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To be honest, you two don't sound compatible at all.
Oh I feel we are. I'm Taurus sun and moon with Aires Venus and he's Leo sun and Scorpio moon with cancer Venus. These placements wants a homely loyal environment, but we are long distance. So yes it becomes a bit hard to be apart at times.
Astrology only takes you so far. Trust me if it was the end all be all there would be far less divorces and schools would offer astrological reading degrees. Actions matter, people are more than sum of their charts.
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You hit the nail on the head there
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To be honest, you two don't sound compatible at all.
Oh I feel we are. I'm Taurus sun and moon with Aires Venus and he's Leo sun and Scorpio moon with cancer Venus. These placements wants a homely loyal environment, but we are long distance. So yes it becomes a bit hard to be apart at times.
Astrology only takes you so far. Trust me if it was the end all be all there would be far less divorces and schools would offer astrological reading degrees. Actions matter, people are more than sum of their charts.
You hit the nail on the head there
Good luck and as hard as it is, and it's real fuckin' tough keep yourself busy and around people.
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Thank you for being rational for me... Much better than people rolling their eyes at your misery... And it all came from another bull lol.... I actually feel calm now... Thanks so much for that. I shall just continue on and if he comes back then fine but if he doesn't I'm ok now... Again thank you.
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Update; he called... It was brief but it was somewhere along the lines of he had a hectic couple days and didn't want to be bothered.
I told him he should have just said that and I would have no problem giving him space. He also said I should know this by now and it has nothing to do with a female and to stop thinking that way. It was brief but he made the effort to reach out. I really was gonna move on... I actually went to the grocery store And was dong some errands and stuff. Funny how when you done worry about it; things fall into place... This post shall be left up for another female who may stubble upon it later on and need guidance. I always revisit old posts here. Thanks for everyone's input. Even the snobby ones.
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To be honest, you two don't sound compatible at all.
Oh I feel we are. I'm Taurus sun and moon with Aires Venus and he's Leo sun and Scorpio moon with cancer Venus. These placements wants a homely loyal environment, but we are long distance. So yes it becomes a bit hard to be apart at times.
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Except when you shame your partner to such an extent that they hide their face from you.

Yea, sounds stable.

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i skimmed through some of your other posts, op.

would you recognize the truth if it hit you in the face?

you´re pretty grande on exaggeration and mis-interpreting.

you paved your downfall.

personally, i understand why he has you blocked.
Not blocked.. Phone was off. I can admit to my wrong doings but no one is without fault and he also have been unfair with me as well.
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To be honest, you two don't sound compatible at all.
Oh I feel we are. I'm Taurus sun and moon with Aires Venus and he's Leo sun and Scorpio moon with cancer Venus. These placements wants a homely loyal environment, but we are long distance. So yes it becomes a bit hard to be apart at times.
Except when you shame your partner to such an extent that they hide their face from you.

Yea, sounds stable.

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Thanks he does the same as well so.... Your point?
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To be honest, you two don't sound compatible at all.
Oh I feel we are. I'm Taurus sun and moon with Aires Venus and he's Leo sun and Scorpio moon with cancer Venus. These placements wants a homely loyal environment, but we are long distance. So yes it becomes a bit hard to be apart at times.
Except when you shame your partner to such an extent that they hide their face from you.

Yea, sounds stable.
Thanks he does the same as well so.... Your point?
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That was the point.

It sounds more like a toxic detrimental situation

and if someone is messaging you- just block them- I had to read those posts twice to come to that conclusion by the way.

It was so exaggerated it sounded like you had an intruder or something lol.
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He's playing the field but would like to keep you to. He called because he secretly thinks it's cute how you got so worked up. Leos love drama. He doesn't keep his promises because you ain't his top priority. When a Leo falls for you its no power struggles. If you despise anything he's willing to revise it immediately. When he loves, you are apart of him. You're his motivation the key. His word to you is everything simply because he like to impress the one he loves.
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So since then... He's called me more and I even get to see what he's doing. It's like he's letting me in a little more. I never ask what he's doing... But that seems to be paying off now. On another note... I've gotten busy since this post and he's actually being more inquisitive .... wondering what I'm doing, why I'm not answering the phone (maybe he's scared he's about to lose me? Maybe he sensed something I haven't said? Scorpio moons are good for that). You see, when I'm angry he always comes back running... If he wasn't interested wouldn't he just cut it off and on to the next? Yes I do love him. I think he knows it too. I feel he does also. But I don't have words or a status to back it up. He's said before... You're mines, I'm not dating anyone else and I'm monogamous with you. That's all we have ever said to each other... I'm scared to take the "official" leap. He may be too. Insight would be great. Nonetheless. I'm staying busy. One thing is certain, You can't help who you fall for though.
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To be honest, you two don't sound compatible at all.
Oh I feel we are. I'm Taurus sun and moon with Aires Venus and he's Leo sun and Scorpio moon with cancer Venus. These placements wants a homely loyal environment, but we are long distance. So yes it becomes a bit hard to be apart at times.

i've concluded that Taurus /Scorpio relationship can be extremely strained if its long distance..i think it would applies to moon signs as well in your case.
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Yes I agree. I feel we both are possessive and the trust factor is always a siren in our heads.