How do you deal with your friends with Aries moons

Everything is a competition to them and I'm getting fed up lol.

"YAPYAP OH YOU KNEW? WELL I KNEW FIRST"

-___- *

No aries I know act like this, moon or sun. Aries are fucking great! Excuse my language, but they are. There are some evolved people and some who are not. If everything is a competition all of the time, despite the sign, then maybe these people have much more growing to do. But I've never experienced this from Aries.

I have an Aries sun friend who I love! She knows she's awesome and her spirit is more playful.

My moon sign is leo (hehhh)
Sun cancer, moon leo, and ascendant virgo.

I have some growing up to do as well. I don't think we should ever stop learning but being around this kind of me me me energy is draining me and it feels like gangrene lol. Because I'm posting on this forum complaining about my woes >_

Posted by Rambunctious76

Posted by AquaMermaid
I slapped one as hard as I could.Try it.

Said the Aries Mars.

But really Op, Aries moons are not much different from the suns, in terms of emotional context. We are both blunt and competitive.

But the competitive nature of an Aries is really all about the challenge rather than the result. We like a good challenge. Sometimes the journey is more important than the destination.

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I think I should've specified and asked how to deal with an unevolved Aries moon :p
I am all for the good times and growth. Thank you for your input!

Posted by 2CLV7689
me me me energy

lmao

this coming from a leo moon?

seriously ROFLMAO

Well,I have a lot of Aries mooners as friends and yes,they may seem to have a lot of 'me' about them.How I deal with them? Well,many a times,I don't care if they make everything about them but if I do have problems in certain situations ,I just start the 'me' thing about me in that situation .They won't get offended,they'll understand, they're the same.

Posted by Damnata

Posted by 2CLV7689
me me me energy

lmao

this coming from a leo moon?

seriously ROFLMAO

Posted by Damnata

Posted by 2CLV7689
me me me energy

lmao

this coming from a leo moon?

seriously ROFLMAO

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Yas, so it should be apparent that it's severe ME! ME! ME! (nothing outside of my life)
I can't deny that I'm self-absorbed as well lol.
I think it's not just the Aries moon. I have one friend with virgo sun, aries moon and gemini rising. Love her and we care about each other's lives. My other friend is a gemini sun, aries moon, leo rising. Say you both had to take a shower, and you had to go to work in an hour. She wouldn't consider that and would say she'll shower first. Lots of things like that.

Believe me, I have thought about the effect of my leo moon tendencies in the whole dynamic.

Posted by champranger

Posted by 2CLV7689
I have an Aries sun friend who I love! She knows she's awesome and her spirit is more playful.

My moon sign is leo (hehhh)
Sun cancer, moon leo, and ascendant virgo.

I have some growing up to do as well. I don't think we should ever stop learning but being around this kind of me me me energy is draining me and it feels like gangrene lol. Because I'm posting on this forum complaining about my woes

Sorries

lol, Leo Moon here as well 😛

My question is, with this "ME" energy you are referring to, what is it exactly about this energy that bothers you?

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It's the JUST-ME (unjust actually) attitude I suppose.

You still don't get it.

Oh dear God, why hath you forsaken me? Why must I deal with Leo Moons? *screams internally*

Ok, I will explain it. Step away from the "me me me" energy portal within you for a second. Cover mirrors in your house too.

First off, all 3 fire moons are all about competition, play, banter. And we have kickass sense of humor if I may so myself. I'll let Sag Moon energy out of it because you asked about Aries..Sag Moons have a more polished edge to their sarcastic nature.

Sag Moon: *SNARK*SNARK*SNARK*
Aries Moon: NOW!NOW!NOW!
Leo Moon: ME! ME! ME!

The shower incident is precisely the type of energy you got wrong. The Aries Moon was all about getting it done done done...but because you filter it through me me me, you thought she was me me me. It wasn't about HER it was because the showering takes immediate precendence on the order of business because everything in Aries Moon world has to happen really fast.

The easiest way to see the difference between Aries and Leo Moons is in conversation. Aries Moons are about the fun that crosses their path. I talk a lot about people in my life and stuff that happens to me but not because I am egocentric..it's because the EVENTS that happen are funny to me and need to be discussed in the moment. It's that urgent timing (no timing at all) that Aries Moons have when talking about something that gets confused for me me me. Meanwhile, hearing Leo Moons talk about their lives..it's like listening to an Oscar speech over and over again. There is a lot of eye rolling going on but I lovez them.

I hope I make sense here to you. I can pinpoint the difference in energy but sometimes words fail me.

You can also see the difference in competition. Imo leo moons and aries moons complement each other because they cover all the facets. Leo Moon is more eyes on the prize than Aries Moon is..Aries Moon is about the fun in every step of the competition and the lulz..Leo Moon is about the result. While I want to grab them and jump around that we managed to get this stage done..the Leo Moon's eyes are 1000 miles away at the pretty ceremony with all the medals and the prizes and the ball. I find it endearing. And since it's fixed energy, it stabilizes me (that is just me because I have just one fixed sign in my entire chart)

Either way, all us 3 fire moons are cool playmates if the focus is on positive energy and good flow.

Out of us 3 you folks are way more sensitive than aries and sag moons so my downfall is in that direction because I manage to offend without even trying and then topics like "DAMNATABLABLABLA" happen. But fuck it, I can't pay attention to not step on eggo shells 24/7.

But yeah, there, you can have the mirror back. I even polished it for you, babe.

Posted by Damnata
Out of us 3 you folks are way more sensitive than aries and sag moons so my downfall is in that direction because I manage to offend without even trying and then topics like "DAMNATABLABLABLA" happen. But fuck it, I can't pay attention to not step on eggo shells 24/7.

But yeah, there, you can have the mirror back. I even polished it for you, babe.

I wrote out a long response to this but the site seems to be buggy on mobile devices 😆

Thank you! Your interpretation of the fire signs is absolutely correct. I probably wouldn't take offense if I wasn't filtering it through my leo lenses.

It's a loooooong long story but reader's digest version:
I like the upbeat energy when it's positive.
I don't like the constant negative sideways compliments.

Very personal and not just due to the Aries moon placement lol

See? Site proves me right DX

j/k

I hope I did help with bridging the gap with your Aries Moon friends.

If all fails when an Aries Moon is in the moment and yap yap yapping and getting on your nerves.. grab us by the arms and shake us "hello! hello!!! i want to say something too!". We should be able to snap back to reality. We just get..very passionate in the moment. Fine edge between endearing/anoying with all fire moons.

😆* not DX

You should see the daily bitch and grind at my place with the Gem flatmate. Aries Moon vs Sag Moon.

I dream of a world where he stops fucking talking once in a while. But then when I'm mad pissed off he just bursts into my room "HEYYY THERE IS THIS COOL EVENT ON SUNDAY! LET'S GO THERE!". And I can't stay mad for shit.

Hahaha, I've been reading a lot about the different signs and planets. Pretty nifty stuff!

I have moon mars venus in leo
(cue the melodramatic mariachi band with confetti fireworks!)
Lol but my sun is in cancer (soweepyleboohoo)
and rising in virgo
(critical, critical then indifferent)

second decanate cancer :3
learning not to take everything so personally

What's that adage? Everyone's beautiful from afar or something

Seriously.
She talks about her woes and I say something in response.
She ignores me.
I say out loud, WHY DO I EVEN BOTHER?
She doesn't hear it.
Few minutes later she says she's crazy.
Yes, you are craZy. Now get out of my rooooom!
Lol

She would tell me how she's soooo done w her ex and run back to him.
Rolls her eyes at me when I say things like, "the same thing is probably going to happen" because after the 50th time, I think it doesn't take a rocket scientist to recognize this pattern.
Soooooo ruuuuuude.

So how do I go about telling her to move out?
😆

my 9 year old is an Aries sun & moon with a Leo rising. I have a Leo moon and her energy get's on my last nerve!!!
You feel all of her fire all the time. She's an over achiever in school; straight A's in advanced classes. SHE NEVER LOSES!!!!
She never likes asking or being helps. She simply observes then do; not always right. She hates being corrected.
Me. Victoria, what does mommy love about you
Her: EVERYTHING

Posted by starlover
I have two friends with aries moon....love them both but one of them is all over the place and not reliable...she is quite immature too

the other one is amazing but i have to calm her down a fair bit and remind her to breath 😛

oh gawd. You can never stop stalking aries /any aries related posts dxp. Nothing you ever say is constructive criticism or valid. You have a warped sense of reality. Chillz and please retire; your antics are only amplifying your dementia.

*on dxp

Posted by 2CLV7689
Everything is a competition to them and I'm getting fed up lol.

"YAPYAP OH YOU KNEW? WELL I KNEW FIRST"

-___- *

This is funny coming from a leo moon. The thing about aries energy is, we enjoy the challenge..as in the PROCESS that is associated with a task. I do not have an aries moon (I'm a cap mooner), but I have an aries sun and I notice the exact same thing with Leo suns. They take aries "competitiveness" seriously. We're jokesters. We don't care about the result and the aspect of validation like Leos. If we want to enter a competition, it is not because we want the trophy, it's because we enjoy trying to see if we can overcome something. Basically, we play sports for sport, we try to break our own records for fun, and we enjoy banter here and there (similar to virgos) for intellectual stimulation. We do it just because we can, not to ACHIEVE anything. Leo suns and leo moons like doing something, so that they can get a reward...now there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, and I adore my leo moons, but you need to relax in your slacks. Another pattern I notice is how fixed energy is always trying to get cardinal energy (especially capricorn and aries) to submit. That won't happen any time soon...or ever really 🙂 Eg. That dimwitted Leo that was on the aries boards, but failed to mention the real story and PMed me an essay instead. You are fixated on being better...I can tell because you are irritated with something that was not meant to be taken seriously.

Posted by champranger
Silliness aside, Aries's competitiveness is often directed towards self more so than others. Unless the Aries Moon friend is really selfish, I think OP just needs to help her friend be more aware of her friend's action is affecting her.

Leo Moons doesn't really actively seek validation (except mr. firebunny lol) but praises and comments can have a big impact (on both the ego and the sensitivity).

IMO 🙂

champ ilu, but leo moons are all about validation lmfaooo

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Posted by champranger
Silliness aside, Aries's competitiveness is often directed towards self more so than others. Unless the Aries Moon friend is really selfish, I think OP just needs to help her friend be more aware of her friend's action is affecting her.

Leo Moons doesn't really actively seek validation (except mr. firebunny lol) but praises and comments can have a big impact (on both the ego and the sensitivity).

IMO 🙂

champ ilu, but leo moons are all about validation lmfaooo

By all means, think that if it gives you comfort 🙂

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Do you guys have trouble posting replies from your phones?
Lol, T_T

I'm a cancer sun leo moon virgo rising. I think I mostly seek validation from my close circle of friends.
She is a gemini sun aries moon leo rising.
We both have leo mars and venus. LOL.
Purrhaps this is more of a leo vs leo issue 😆

Thank you all for the inputs (putputputputput)
I am willing to learn! but I don't think I can live with this girl any longer.

I am an Aqua Sun and Aries Mooner. I know how impatient can be. WHERE IS IT? I NEED IT RIGHT NOW!!! RIGHT AWAY!!! GET ITTTTT!!! 😄

Hope, I made it clear. 🙂

Posted by Rambunctious76
LOL @ the purrhaps.

I have a fateall attraction to terrible puns >_< heh

Posted by Rambunctious76
Op, you actually have a similar situation with one of our Aries people, curiousram (Aries sun/Cancer moon). If I'm not wrong he had a Gemini sun/Aries moon flatmate as well.

I feel like I work for the garbage department
In the figurative and literal sense lol

To top it all of, she talks shit behind my back (to gossip queens) and blames me when she forgets to move her car and gets a ticket

Phew. Can't wait for her to move out :3