Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Bluezaold
...She laughed and said that was the first time someone told her that, and she said thank you. And I impulsively replied;
"That was the first time? Really? Cuz I think you're cute."
And SHE AVOIDED RESPONDING TO THAT ONE. Yeah, stupid me and Aries's impulsiveness.
She even ignored my chat for hours before finally replied again, and this time only talks about other topics like what she studies on art school or about the horror manga that she loves... I honestly regretting that one but I don't know what I should say. If I apologized for calling her cute wouldn't that turns her off even more?
Do you guys think I still have chance? Was she probably mistaking me for trying to flirt with her? What should I do?? It was really hard for me not to coming on too strong for her but I'm really trying my best to hold myself back. I respect her privacies. I really adore her and genuinely wants to be her friend.
I wouldn't sweat it. She either 1) doesn't take compliments well. 2) was a bit taken back and didn't want to lead the convo in that direction, so changed the subject. Just carry on as you were. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by nikkistar
I don't get it, if you want to just be friends with her and that is your intent, then why are you doing so many neurotic things that aren't friend like?
Here's the thing, we know when someone just wants to be friends, and when someone is doing things under the guise of friendship. Your post, screams ulterior motives. A friend doesn't sit here and worry about the things you do. It comes off as very calculated in a facade of just "being friends".
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by DMV
Scorpio moon female here.
I read your post and it sounds like you want to make a romantic connection with her and...youre pushy about it.
Friendships are organic.
As a pluto person, I would definitely put you on ice for a while until I felt like you were over some kinda crush.
New friendships or whatever I am apprehensive about them. Especially interesting rhe Arts world. Shes probably been burned in the past and proceeds lightly.
I agree with @DMV.
Not all ppl are that open to flattery and Scorpio women specifically aren't.
I feel that you are intrigued by this lady as she's giving you attention but on her terms and perhaps you aren't liking it
Friendships of whatever relationships in Scorpio terms are always assessed as "Why is someone doing that I.e. what's the motive" probably that's what a going through her mind.
Also if she's a proper Scorpio I think you are too available to her and not a challenge to go after. Sorry but you need to give her space if she's bothered she'll get in touch if she's not then on to next one, pal
Also just because you are getting replies from her don't mean she's into you, she just is polite maybe due to you both being same field I.e. art
PS I'm a Scorpio click to expandclick to expand
Posted by DMVPosted by Smidge
This happens to me a lot, I see somebody and I'm like.... We could be really good friends. Then it feels like I'm tryna chat them up, laugh at all their jokes etc... Then I'm like, am I being creepy? Then I get paranoid and wonder if I should explain that I'm not a lesbian... 🤔
So yeah, I've no advice for you, sorry.
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Posted by OCJack
Bruh, you are completely dense. The fact that she continued responding means she's essentially giving you the chance to let it be what it was. To let it blow over. So yeah, don't do ANYTHING, and don't do things that can be construed as flirting from now on.
If you have those feelings, and you're just trying to cover it up by acting like you just want to be friends. Then you need to take things REAL slow. Human relationships don't happen at the snap of a finger, stop blaming the fact that you are an aries. It's still very much so, a treetrunkboyish/stalker kind of energy.
So either way, just... chill. I cannot stress that enough.
Posted by diamonddgemm
Ok good. But doesn’t that kinda crash with aries wanting to be the 1st always? I mean wouldn’t they feel inferior if the women had a career, a high income, and successful when they’re older and don’t even have a college degree or barely make any money? That’s what I’m refering to.
Posted by diamonddgemm
What if that person had a career, uni degree, an awesome job and everything else? You would still be there if you made less or barely had a degree?Posted by Scarface
well, to me ambition is not related to romance.
I would be happy if my SO have high goals, instead of being intimidated.
but maybe I'm not the right person to answer because I have a very active mars in capricorn lolclick to expand
Posted by AriesJo
Completely, we are the knights, we want to save the princess and have the romance like from a movie. We believe in the best, within people, we never judge or discriminate, but in relationships we are punished for it. We open are heart too easily. But better to have an open heart and get hurt than a closed one which never takes chances.
With time it will be different, I get so frigin excited when I’m meeting my love, but then so frigin upset and almost suicidal when she says she already has plans. And you won’t be able to commit till you are older anyway. I feel like it’s who Aries are at the core, live it, true to yourself, our greatest weakness is also our greatest strength. Our passion, our determination, our decisiveness, and when we find a partner receptive of these things, it all makes sense and they appreciate us. But I’m not gonna lie, it will be difficult with most people.
Posted by Explicit
I show my love by doing things for people. I can be super touchy and affectionate too. I'm always there for the person if I'm in love with them. But you will never get mushy butter like an "I love you" out of me. Never. I don't say it but I'll make it felt.
Posted by misslissa
Normally, as a gem, I will show it with the lil things. I won't say it a lot, but I'll show it. How a gem shows it is different per person. BUT, there will be no mistaking it and no questioning it, either.click to expand
Posted by LiveAndLove
I do love deeply. Possibly too deeply How to define it..hmm. I am completely devoted and faithful. I don't even really "see" other men because I could care less about them. I only see him. If he needed me to bring him toilet paper at 4 am or I would do it no questions asked. Lol, ok maybe I'd make a joke about it but I'd still do it. Any thing he needs I'd do my best to do it for him because he does the same if not more for me. He's a Cap so I think it makes him happy to do things like that for me. I include him in my whole life because he's a big part of it and it's all or nothing for me once you know you're in love.
I do think a lot of times in relationships one person has stronger feelings than the other. It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love you, or isn't in love with you, but you two love differently to some extent since you're not the same person. So there's no exact equal amount because you both probably show it in different ways (hopefully that makes sense)
Posted by misslissa
We love deeply, just as much as anyone else. How we show it is different.
Now, with that said... I'm not sure I fully understand. You talk about a situation that really has nothing to do with the questions asked... this sounds more like a validation thread, which is something you might not get from a gem... I could be wrong about that, but I don't think so.
So, my question to you is... what exactly do you want validation for??
Posted by leo500Posted by sixshadesofhell
Sorry... NOT one of those leos
Glad? what do you mean? It sounds that a leo broke your heart.... Just tell me one sign stronger than the leo male and show me proofs about it. Taurus, scorpio and gemini are good ones.. but they aren??t as much as the leo male. Taurus is implacable during the day, even more than the leo male.. but at night, even a cancer woman has more testicles than the taurus man lol Gemini guy, yep, they have brains, but they only prevent danger, that??s why.. because if they face some real deal they run like a girl. Yes, i see power when i face danger, but not only. Scorpio, these ones i thought they were really strong for many years, but the fact is that they are too attached, and they need people around them or they simply cry.click to expand