Being an Aries sun and mercury I find myself very impatient at times. I can be patient sometime maybe due to Capricorn dominance in chart. But still sometimes i become so impatient that I want something very badly and I lose my self control. Impatience is one of the most common Aries trait so how do you people overcome this thing. Serious suggestions are appreciated 🙂
Aries how do you overcome impatience ?
Being an Aries sun and mercury I find myself very impatient at times. I can be patient sometimes maybe due to Capricorn dominance in chart. But still sometimes i become so impatient that I want something very badly and I almost lose my self control. Impatience is one of the most common Aries trait so how do you people overcome this thing. Serious suggestions are appreciated 🙂
I'm 36 (today _—) I sometimes am still impatient at times but it is definitely something that comes with age.
Posted by beautifuldiaster
Repeat, "this too shall pass" and practice meditation and self control.
Best of luck
yes I agree meditation helps alot to keep the person grounded, selfsufficient and relaxed.
Posted by champrangerPosted by anna1
Being an Aries sun and mercury I find myself very impatient at times. I can be patient sometimes maybe due to Capricorn dominance in chart. But still sometimes i become so impatient that I want something very badly and I almost lose my self control. Impatience is one of the most common Aries trait so how do you people overcome this thing. Serious suggestions are appreciated 🙂
I have Taurus Merc. Years ago, I discovered that if I could logically rationalize a behaviour or situation or a person and it makes sense to me, then I can be patient. So since then, I have always been trying to understand, no matter the situation or the person. I also try to keep in mind as many possibilities as I can that I think may be relevant to the person or situation.click to expand
Thanks champranger and yes being a Capricorn moon I can understand that rationalization part. I can be patient when I feel its worth it. Its just sometime I loose my self control. Plus I think we (Aries) should slow down a bit and again meditation can help.
Yes at that time when I need something badly I almost lose my self control. It feels like all of sudden my mind has been shutdown and I am just unable to rationalize that need and so I act immediately to get what I want.
Aries Ox here.
Recently started to lay siege to a virgo girls heart. I get feelings that I want her NOW! And sometimes get impatience and it drives me crazy.
However, I take a step back and tell myself. This is a siege to win her heart, she is a virgo and moves slow of all slow. And sieging with my battering RAM takes time depending on how thick r her walls. If u move too fast it may cost u the war. Take time and strategies.
There r times in which Aries need 2 move fast and decisive. Specially in the business world, but needs to master when too hold back and see the whole picture.
Once a Aries Ram masters the art of when to charge and when to hold back, becomes a person on unlimited power.
Recently started to lay siege to a virgo girls heart. I get feelings that I want her NOW! And sometimes get impatience and it drives me crazy.
However, I take a step back and tell myself. This is a siege to win her heart, she is a virgo and moves slow of all slow. And sieging with my battering RAM takes time depending on how thick r her walls. If u move too fast it may cost u the war. Take time and strategies.
There r times in which Aries need 2 move fast and decisive. Specially in the business world, but needs to master when too hold back and see the whole picture.
Once a Aries Ram masters the art of when to charge and when to hold back, becomes a person on unlimited power.
When you find out, let me know
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