Sag moon and anger management ?

Hey everyone I'm a Taurus sun and sag moon girl. Also my mars is in Aries Venus in Taurus just in case you want to know.

Basically my question here is for sag mooners out there do people tell you your crazy angry? Or perhaps you snap and lose control of what your saying while your mad? Do you think we require anger management and self control? Is it that bad?

My friend a sag sun, cap moon guy says I need to learn to control what I say while I'm angry and perhaps not speak much while I'm angry and that I have to cool down first. My sister thinks i speak too much while I'm angry.

The thing is I don't think I need anger management and I'm not a crazy crazy out of control freak. Usually people think I'm calm and cool. But when someone attacks me or argues with me I like to argue my case hard and firmly. If I'm impatient yes but I'm not an angry freak.

So what do yall have to say about that?

Another Sag Moon-Aries Mars here!

I've never been told I need anger management. I may say things that I don't think through at times, but I'm not gonna let people walk all over me so if I need to say what's on my mind, I'm going to. I apologize when needed.

Like @lovecraftian said...boundaries and learning how to assert yourself before they get crossed is something that would probably help. I'm still learning when to speak up and when to keep it zipped.

Posted by CuddleBug88
Another Sag Moon-Aries Mars here!

I've never been told I need anger management. I may say things that I don't think through at times, but I'm not gonna let people walk all over me so if I need to say what's on my mind, I'm going to. I apologize when needed.

Like @lovecraftian said...boundaries and learning how to assert yourself before they get crossed is something that would probably help. I'm still learning when to speak up and when to keep it zipped.

tell me about it *sigh* I think I need to keep it zipped more often...I cant stop arguing with someone starts arguing with me...but walking away is a wiser option usually. especially when its something not that worth arguing about.

I think Cap moon people are really good at controlling their anger,...they hold it in and sort of let it out when they are by themselves...they isolate themselves from the source of annoyance...we need to learn that from them.

Posted by Nouran20

Posted by CuddleBug88
Another Sag Moon-Aries Mars here!

I've never been told I need anger management. I may say things that I don't think through at times, but I'm not gonna let people walk all over me so if I need to say what's on my mind, I'm going to. I apologize when needed.

Like @lovecraftian said...boundaries and learning how to assert yourself before they get crossed is something that would probably help. I'm still learning when to speak up and when to keep it zipped.

tell me about it *sigh* I think I need to keep it zipped more often...I cant stop arguing with someone starts arguing with me...but walking away is a wiser option usually. especially when its something not that worth arguing about.

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The older I get, the easier it's becoming for me to say what I need to and then be done. It's something I have to consciously do and watch out for. As much as I may want to argue my point, can't change everyone's mind all the time.

@Ssuperman, yes? no? maybe?

I get triggered over petty shit like parking spaces, shopping lines, etc. I wish I could do something about it, but I usually just sit back and let people be blissfully ignorant.

I'm generally hard to provoke unless there is some sort of unfair treatment involved.

I'm pretty easy going but once I'm pushed to that edge watch out. I have no filter, thankkkkkkks a billzullon sag placements, so sometimes I will just snap and pour it all out.. then it's over and I move on.

Cap merc too so I can cut with what I say.

Posted by DwellingOnMove
@Ssuperman, yes? no? maybe?

Back in my younger days I was a serious hothead. I didn't take shit from anyone.

Nowadays I'm pretty mellow unless someone I love or care about is getting hurt. Then I step in. My word can cut like a knife and I can hulk rage if the above happens.

My Aries' ex husband is a prime example of that. He started disrespecting her in the parking lot at their own sons baseball game (he's special needs). I bounced his head off the hood of my truck. I don't tolerate bullying

Hi.

I'm a Virgo Sun, Sag Moon. My GF like you is a Taurus Sun, Sag Moon. We've lived together for over a year and it's never boring (lol). We both enjoy being at home together. I really think having the same moon plays well for us . We're both introverts. I'm typically calm and laid back in stressful situations and she is as well. Alone time is also critical for us.

I can only judge my GFs anger management in the context of our relationship. If there's a miscommunication or the few times that I act like a passive a**h*** she has been prone to break and throw things. Her tantrums are unreal and very destructive. After letting things simmer down a bit we're both pretty forgiving. She definitely acknowledges her crazy tendencies. I'd say its a more "organized anger". She'll break things that were already defective in some way. I'm not condoning any of this, but that's how she releases anger.

I'm sag moon as well. I express anger by avoidance. I've had blow ups before where I reached a boiling point and I can get pretty verbal if heated. More times than not, I tend to distance or remove myself completely. When angry I tend to ignore someone's existence or be purposely inconsiderate.

Posted by HermesVirgo
Hi.

I'm a Virgo Sun, Sag Moon.

I'm sag moon as well. I express anger by avoidance. I've had blow ups before where I reached a boiling point and I can get pretty verbal if heated. More times than not, I tend to distance or remove myself completely. When angry I tend to ignore someone's existence or be purposely inconsiderate.

You Virgos are good at ignoring a person, being petty, and passive aggressive. Not really a very mature, adult way of being now, is it? And you don't take it so well when it's done to you, huh? At least that's been my experience.

One of my ex Virgo friends also had a sagg moon. He was just like you describe. That's why he's all alone. That's why he's been divorced, and has had numerous relationships. And thats why he'll probably stay alone the rest of his life. Just what he deserves.

When he's angry, he doesn't know any fucking better. And in the years that I knew him, he never strove to be better than what he was. He also loved being right and arguing about it all the time. Could not own up to his mistakes. Couldn't say sorry and mean it. Are those virgo or Sagg traits?

Oh yeah, I've know other sagg suns and mooners. They're ability to be so butt stupid when it came to holding their tongues was absolutely amazing. And not in a good way.

Posted by HermesVirgo
Hi.

I'm a Virgo Sun, Sag Moon. My GF like you is a Taurus Sun, Sag Moon. We've lived together for over a year and it's never boring (lol). We both enjoy being at home together. I really think having the same moon plays well for us . We're both introverts. I'm typically calm and laid back in stressful situations and she is as well. Alone time is also critical for us.

I can only judge my GFs anger management in the context of our relationship. If there's a miscommunication or the few times that I act like a passive a**h*** she has been prone to break and throw things. Her tantrums are unreal and very destructive. After letting things simmer down a bit we're both pretty forgiving. She definitely acknowledges her crazy tendencies. I'd say its a more "organized anger". She'll break things that were already defective in some way. I'm not condoning any of this, but that's how she releases anger.

I'm sag moon as well. I express anger by avoidance. I've had blow ups before where I reached a boiling point and I can get pretty verbal if heated. More times than not, I tend to distance or remove myself completely. When angry I tend to ignore someone's existence or be purposely inconsiderate.

That actually sounds like my Taurus friend and her Virgo fiancée...but they have Scorpio moons.

Posted by Nouran20
Hey everyone I'm a Taurus sun and sag moon girl. Also my mars is in Aries Venus in Taurus just in case you want to know.

Basically my question here is for sag mooners out there do people tell you your crazy angry? Or perhaps you snap and lose control of what your saying while your mad? Do you think we require anger management and self control? Is it that bad?

My friend a sag sun, cap moon guy says I need to learn to control what I say while I'm angry and perhaps not speak much while I'm angry and that I have to cool down first. My sister thinks i speak too much while I'm angry.

The thing is I don't think I need anger management and I'm not a crazy crazy out of control freak. Usually people think I'm calm and cool. But when someone attacks me or argues with me I like to argue my case hard and firmly. If I'm impatient yes but I'm not an angry freak.

So what do yall have to say about that?

Hi there. I don't have a sagg moon, but I'll share with you some info on a couple of people I know who do. And what I think about when a person says "People say have a problem with XYZ, but I don't. What do you think?"

Two of my old friends have sagg moons. One is a Virgo and one is a Taurus. Both were very unpredictable at times. Their moods seemed to border on being extreme when they were angry, with the Virgo being the worse of the two. From both of them, lots of harsh words and tears shed by everyone on the receiving end. External factors played a role, yes. Nevertheless, both of these individuals could do well to get some therapy and learn how to keep their mouth shut. No one wants to be mistreated by an asshole, you know.

I have a student who's a Virgo with a sagg moon and he's a fucking nut! I've worked with special ed. kids for YEARS now. This one is the most erratic I've ever had the displeasure of teaching. He's on three different meds to help stabilize his behaviors, yet he remains the same shit head he's always been. He knows full well what he's doing when he's doing it. Yes, his brain is messed up, but I've had plenty of other kids with messed up brains and all kinds of physical, mental, cognitive disabilities. This kid is the worst I've had yet. Must be that sagg moon. He only learns (for a little while) when another kid gets the best of him.

Finally, as for whether or not you need anger management... I will tell you that my dealings with people who had anger, addiction, or mental health issues all went like this...

"You're a damn drunk and you need to go to AA." (said to another Virgo with sagg moon.) "No I don't. I didn't drink that much. I'm fine!"

A relative who ceased their psycho therapy much too early did so because they were "fine."

"You do need anger management. Look at the way you treat your kids!" Their answer? "No I don't need anger management! They just need to listen to me!"

My dad who has a significant hearing loss.... "I don't think I have a hearing problem. I just think they need to repeat things."

In closing, yeah... everyone out there with a problem is "fine." It's everyone else that's the problem...

"I wouldn't get angry if you didn't make me angry!"

Get some help. You could learn a thing or two about managing your anger in a more productive way.

I'm a virgo with sag moon and I'm pretty calm even when I get angry I usually keep it all inside because I don't like confrontations and I know I will work with it by myself until I'm good again. But I have to admit when I'm with closer people and I am streseed, I can snap a bit and tell some harh things but then I feel so sorry and I apologise