Aries with Venus in Taurus

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Understanding Aries with Venus in Taurus in Relationships

Aries with Venus in Taurus combines fiery passion with a stable, sensual approach to love. They seek excitement but also value consistency and loyalty. This placement can create a balance between impulsive actions and deep emotional attachment, making relationships intense yet grounded. Patience and clear communication help navigate their dynamic nature effectively.

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

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I'm an Aries with Taurus Venus. Can you really feel her Venus after 5 dates?

What is her moon sign?

Cancer.

She's still a little bit stubborn with certain things but, I'd expect nothing less

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I'm can get very stubborn. More stubborn than a Taurus. An ex Taurus I dated would tell me this but I already knew. My stubbornness is rooted sometimes in pride and other times in conviction

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I'm an Aries with Taurus Venus. Can you really feel her Venus after 5 dates?

What is her moon sign?

Cancer.

She's still a little bit stubborn with certain things but, I'd expect nothing less

I'm can get very stubborn. More stubborn than a Taurus. An ex Taurus I dated would tell me this but I already knew. My stubbornness is rooted sometimes in pride and other times in conviction

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I'm also very stubborn. I won't move until I'm good and ready.

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

it will even out - she's just full steam ahead cause it's still a new thing and she's focused - but way to go !

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

it will even out - she's just full steam ahead cause it's still a new thing and she's focused - but way to go !

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She's a keeper so far

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

it will even out - she's just full steam ahead cause it's still a new thing and she's focused - but way to go !

She's a keeper so far

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a good Aries/Taurus woman will be a keeper for a good man - I am Taurus with Venus in Aries - I think they can be a lot alike -

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

it will even out - she's just full steam ahead cause it's still a new thing and she's focused - but way to go !

She's a keeper so far

a good Aries/Taurus woman will be a keeper for a good man - I am Taurus with Venus in Aries - I think they can be a lot alike -

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Main thing is that she's strong as can be. She don't budge for nothing! I like that and can respect it.

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

it will even out - she's just full steam ahead cause it's still a new thing and she's focused - but way to go !

She's a keeper so far

a good Aries/Taurus woman will be a keeper for a good man - I am Taurus with Venus in Aries - I think they can be a lot alike -

Main thing is that she's strong as can be. She don't budge for nothing! I like that and can respect it.

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well that's a good thing then - what sign are you ? can't recall

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

it will even out - she's just full steam ahead cause it's still a new thing and she's focused - but way to go !

She's a keeper so far

a good Aries/Taurus woman will be a keeper for a good man - I am Taurus with Venus in Aries - I think they can be a lot alike -

Main thing is that she's strong as can be. She don't budge for nothing! I like that and can respect it.

well that's a good thing then - what sign are you ? can't recall

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Leo

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

it will even out - she's just full steam ahead cause it's still a new thing and she's focused - but way to go !

She's a keeper so far

a good Aries/Taurus woman will be a keeper for a good man - I am Taurus with Venus in Aries - I think they can be a lot alike -

Main thing is that she's strong as can be. She don't budge for nothing! I like that and can respect it.

well that's a good thing then - what sign are you ? can't recall

Leo

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oh wow, well that would explain you needing to be the king of the castle - we do like it that way ... I have to be the one taking good care of the "king" and the castle - except for the bedroom - then it's his turn to take care of moi~

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

it will even out - she's just full steam ahead cause it's still a new thing and she's focused - but way to go !

She's a keeper so far

a good Aries/Taurus woman will be a keeper for a good man - I am Taurus with Venus in Aries - I think they can be a lot alike -

Main thing is that she's strong as can be. She don't budge for nothing! I like that and can respect it.

well that's a good thing then - what sign are you ? can't recall

Leo

oh wow, well that would explain you needing to be the king of the castle - we do like it that way ... I have to be the one taking good care of the "king" and the castle - except for the bedroom - then it's his turn to take care of moi~

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Eh, I pull my weight around the house. I agree with the bedroom part! That's MY area. ?

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

it will even out - she's just full steam ahead cause it's still a new thing and she's focused - but way to go !

She's a keeper so far

a good Aries/Taurus woman will be a keeper for a good man - I am Taurus with Venus in Aries - I think they can be a lot alike -

Main thing is that she's strong as can be. She don't budge for nothing! I like that and can respect it.

well that's a good thing then - what sign are you ? can't recall

Leo

oh wow, well that would explain you needing to be the king of the castle - we do like it that way ... I have to be the one taking good care of the "king" and the castle - except for the bedroom - then it's his turn to take care of moi~

Eh, I pull my weight around the house. I agree with the bedroom part! That's MY area. ?

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sounds like it works all around lol !

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Aries Sun, Cancer Moon, Venus in Taurus. You are dating me ?

Glad it is going ok!

We are strong, that's true. But don't neglect her just because she is strong. Deep down we dream of a men that will take the lead and will give us a break from our daily battles. We Rams are always fighting (for) something.

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

Cancer moon has so much to do with this as well. When a cancer moon feels safe... it's like a whole different person. Which is suggestive of trust issues

Anyways

Btw, she really likes you πŸ™‚

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

Cancer moon has so much to do with this as well. When a cancer moon feels safe... it's like a whole different person. Which is suggestive of trust issues

Anyways

Btw, she really likes you πŸ™‚

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I think so too! ?

She has a little property with a little house on it about 3 hours from here. She's invited me up for the weekend. We leave in the morning. I'm excited!

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Aries Sun, Cancer Moon, Venus in Taurus. You are dating me ?

Glad it is going ok!

We are strong, that's true. But don't neglect her just because she is strong. Deep down we dream of a men that will take the lead and will give us a break from our daily battles. We Rams are always fighting (for) something.

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I think so too! ?

She has a little property with a little house on it about 3 hours from here. She's invited me up for the weekend. We leave in the morning. I'm excited!

that sounds awesome - can't wait to hear all about it when you return !

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I just finished dating Aries Male with Venus in Taurus and he totally did the 5th gear/brakes thing with me. Only thing is, he blamed it on ME being too hot and cold.

Aries Women are feisty but I'd imagine that the Taurus Venus would give her a little more caution. Makes sense - her Aries tells her to go into 5th gear and her Taurus tells her to step on the brakes.

My guess is that, despite what she said about it being either one or the other, she's gonna give you both...alternating between the two indefinitely. Not a bad thing, just be ready for it!

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So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!

She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.

Cancer moon has so much to do with this as well. When a cancer moon feels safe... it's like a whole different person. Which is suggestive of trust issues

Anyways

Btw, she really likes you πŸ™‚

I think so too! ?

She has a little property with a little house on it about 3 hours from here. She's invited me up for the weekend. We leave in the morning. I'm excited!

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Aww! πŸ™‚ Have a good time!

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Posted by ashley1734
I just finished dating Aries Male with Venus in Taurus and he totally did the 5th gear/brakes thing with me. Only thing is, he blamed it on ME being too hot and cold.

Aries Women are feisty but I'd imagine that the Taurus Venus would give her a little more caution. Makes sense - her Aries tells her to go into 5th gear and her Taurus tells her to step on the brakes.

My guess is that, despite what she said about it being either one or the other, she's gonna give you both...alternating between the two indefinitely. Not a bad thing, just be ready for it!

that's a good way of putting it - I'm Taurus with Venus in Aries and I do that but not so drastically - at least no one has ever said I was hot/cold ...

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Posted by ashley1734
I just finished dating Aries Male with Venus in Taurus and he totally did the 5th gear/brakes thing with me. Only thing is, he blamed it on ME being too hot and cold.

Aries Women are feisty but I'd imagine that the Taurus Venus would give her a little more caution. Makes sense - her Aries tells her to go into 5th gear and her Taurus tells her to step on the brakes.

My guess is that, despite what she said about it being either one or the other, she's gonna give you both...alternating between the two indefinitely. Not a bad thing, just be ready for it!

She hasn't slammed on the brakes or pulled back in a few weeks now. It's all 5th gear lately. As long as I give her some space when she's stressed, she's good

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"It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate."

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Careful, she'll dump your ass once she realizes this is your fucked up mentality about another human being. No wonder you've got dating issues, dude. Women pick up on that gross shit. It's not 1950 and you need to get your stupid ego in check.

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is the hot, cold, hot, cold thing something taurus venus do?

'cause if so i'm more fucked than i thought lol

Not this one. "Hot/cold" regardless of individual shows lack of complete interest or something about the situation is making one hesitate. Gut instinct and all.

In her case, given his attitude toward her that he's shown us, I wouldn't be surprised if she picked up on that ish and was being more cautious than anything. She wants to go into it, but something is telling her to slow down because something isn't sitting right.

I've been there and done the same thing. I had interest, but the dude was moving way too fast (something the OP has shown he tends to do over and over again, btw) and it was making me hold off because I knew it was a little much.

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"It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate."

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Careful, she'll dump your ass once she realizes this is your fucked up mentality about another human being. No wonder you've got dating issues, dude. Women pick up on that gross shit. It's not 1950 and you need to get your stupid ego in check.

I don't have dating issues. What's wrong with what I've said? What's wrong about not being able to dominate something? I figured you'd appreciate the fact she's strong, like I do. At least I'm not some POS out there preying on broken women with insecurity issues.

I get excited when I find a good woman since there are very few of them out there. I express it here and as usual, someone looks at it negative.

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I don't have dating issues. What's wrong with what I've said? What's wrong about not being able to dominate something? I figured you'd appreciate the fact she's strong, like I do. At least I'm not some POS out there preying on broken women with insecurity issues.

Contradicting yourself here.

I also find it disturbing you're referring to another human being as an "it."

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I don't have dating issues. What's wrong with what I've said? What's wrong about not being able to dominate something? I figured you'd appreciate the fact she's strong, like I do. At least I'm not some POS out there preying on broken women with insecurity issues.

Contradicting yourself here.

I also find it disturbing you're referring to another human being as an "it."

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Not one bit am I contradicting myself. You're try to pick a fight and it's not working.

C-Ya

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I'm glad that everything is going well! Your patience with her slower pace in the beginning I'm sure helped her to feel more secure. I hope that the weekend is great. πŸ™‚