Scorpio moon, clingy girlfriend of flirty boss scenario : Seems like I figured out : Here it goes

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So we had a conversation about her again at lunch yesterday and I did a little research (Oh hell, you cant resist falling when a Scorp moon gives you the signals now).


So here is the deal: As per this article (Scorp moon is the Second paragraph)

http://www.grreporter.info/en/venus_and_moon_define_our_intimate_and_sexual_life/3907?page=2


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This type of people rarely hurry, they rarely worry that they are alone without a partner. Throughout most of their life they build walls around themselves by which to keep everyone away. And they wait – they wait for their special partner who will be able to come into their heart will be able to pass through these walls, even to do so by breaking an entry. Of course not, I do not mean that they will not have partners until they find the special one. On the contrary, they will try here and there, but with the attitude - "Well, let’s try it, but I doubt that something will come out of it".

They have very a fine and delicate position, like Achilles' heel. And that is exactly where they must be touched to accept the other. And this is a difficult task.
Sexual behavior of this type of people while waiting for their special partner is unobtrusive. They take a position of neutrality: "Yes, I'm with you, because you want it." But at the moment when appears whomsoever they will accept fully, the become unstoppable and no trace is left of their neutral behavior. They can live for years as pure consumers of love and intimacy, without being able to respond with anything just because the other person has not been accepted. But there is also the opposite option - to find the man to accept fully. And whether they will be with him or not, he remains forever in their hearts and nothing can replace him.
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It seems, that with her, he is the "consumer of love" because his hear hasnt accepted her and he is still looking for "the special one". The "Well, let's try but I doubt something will come out of it". The "I am with you, because you want it" syndrome.
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"These are people who are most difficult to relate intimately. Because intimacy with them when they allow it, is in every cell of their body. These are the people who we feel that if they allow us in their lives, they will do so with their whole being, absolutely. If they love us, this will be the deepest possible love."

This part is 100% accurate.
His Venus is either Gemini or Taurus. I dont remember.

Point is, if these guys allow someone into their lives with "every cell of their body" and "rarely hurry" and aren't worried about being "alone", why the big F is he still with her (and hitting on me big time with inviting me to a dinner )
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Posted by Bloop

This type of people rarely hurry, they rarely worry that they are alone without a partner. Throughout most of their life they build walls around themselves by which to keep everyone away. And they wait – they wait for their special partner who will be able to come into their heart will be able to pass through these walls, even to do so by breaking an entry. Of course not, I do not mean that they will not have partners until they find the special one. On the contrary, they will try here and there, but with the attitude - "Well, let’s try it, but I doubt that something will come out of it".

They can live for years as pure consumers of love and intimacy, without being able to respond with anything just because the other person has not been accepted. But there is also the opposite option - to find the man to accept fully. And whether they will be with him or not, he remains forever in their hearts and nothing can replace him.
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I like this quote , My moon is in Scorpio
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Sorry I didn't get notification 😕

I'm still in the *rarely/NO hurry* stage soo, I cannot offer much insight... :p

But I will tell you, Bloop, astrologically speaking, a Scorpio moon will never talk about personal things even if they are extremely unhappy that is is eating them alive - no. We have strong principles, and we bluntly draw the line where we have to(personal life).. Even if he may be liking you, I doubt he'd speak about his GF like that if he was matured/serious. This moon is called secretive for a reason - because no matter what problem we have - we don't appear to have one.

And what kind of a person is he to badmouth his GF? Even if she isn't a special one? It is about respecting another human here, who is in intimate relationship with you.

How long has he known you??
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Posted by Bloop

This type of people rarely hurry, they rarely worry that they are alone without a partner. Throughout most of their life they build walls around themselves by which to keep everyone away. And they wait – they wait for their special partner who will be able to come into their heart will be able to pass through these walls, even to do so by breaking an entry. Of course not, I do not mean that they will not have partners until they find the special one. On the contrary, they will try here and there, but with the attitude - "Well, let’s try it, but I doubt that something will come out of it".

They can live for years as pure consumers of love and intimacy, without being able to respond with anything just because the other person has not been accepted. But there is also the opposite option - to find the man to accept fully. And whether they will be with him or not, he remains forever in their hearts and nothing can replace him.
"





I like this quote , My moon is in Scorpio
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Would you do something like this?
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Maleficent
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Posted by RumiL
Sorry I didn't get notification 😕

I'm still in the *rarely/NO hurry* stage soo, I cannot offer much insight... :p

But I will tell you, Bloop, astrologically speaking, a Scorpio moon will never talk about personal things even if they are extremely unhappy that is is eating them alive - no. We have strong principles, and we bluntly draw the line where we have to(personal life).. Even if he may be liking you, I doubt he'd speak about his GF like that if he was matured/serious. This moon is called secretive for a reason - because no matter what problem we have - we don't appear to have one.

And what kind of a person is he to badmouth his GF? Even if she isn't a special one? It is about respecting another human here, who is in intimate relationship with you.

How long has he known you??
Well, I was a Freelancer with him for a while but he invited me to his birthday party (he invited me saying he cooks really nice food), I met him and his co-founder and are now working close together in a team of just 4 people. Its an early bootstrap startup. We are making steady increase in profits
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I know it says man - but this exactly like me - I'm a Scorpio moon with a Venus in Taurus - I would say as I have aged though, I have found that life is no lived with those walls, you have to be vulnerable in order to find the one - that's the catch. its a hard catch for someone that spent their life building those walls, but necessary and its a very painful catch. So, I should say - this was me - now I try very hard to be authentic and open with ppl, not just lovers, but friends and family. Life is better that way.

The second type - the man who wants something very special. Astrologically it refers to the Moon and Venus in the signs Taurus and Scorpio. It refers also to the aspects of Venus to the Moon and of Pluto to the two planets.
These are people who are most difficult to relate intimately. Because intimacy with them when they allow it, is in every cell of their body. These are the people who we feel that if they allow us in their lives, they will do so with their whole being, absolutely. If they love us, this will be the deepest possible love. Like in the movies. But this ability to literally merge with the other person is not for anyone who would ask for it. This type of people rarely hurry, they rarely worry that they are alone without a partner. Throughout most of their life they build walls around themselves by which to keep everyone away. And they wait – they wait for their special partner who will be able to come into their heart will be able to pass through these walls, even to do so by breaking an entry. Of course not, I do not mean that they will not have partners until they find the special one. On the contrary, they will try here and there, but with the attitude - "Well, let’s try it, but I doubt that something will come out of it".
They have very a fine and delicate position, like Achilles' heel. And that is exactly where they must be touched to accept the other. And this is a difficult task.
Sexual behavior of this type of people while waiting for their special partner is unobtrusive. They take a position of neutrality: "Yes, I'm with you, because you want it." But at the moment when appears whomsoever they will accept fully and become unstoppable and no trace is left of their neutral behavior. They can live for years as pure consumers of love and intimacy, without being able to respond with anything just because the other person has not been accepted. But there is also the opposite option - to find the man to accept fully. And whether they will be with him or not, he remains forever in their hearts and nothing can replace him. - See more at: http://www.grreporter.info/en/venus_and_moon_define_our_intimate_and_sexual_life/3907?page=2#sthash.zoCgsSHw.dpuf
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Posted by Bloop
Posted by missrose
Posted by Bloop

This type of people rarely hurry, they rarely worry that they are alone without a partner. Throughout most of their life they build walls around themselves by which to keep everyone away. And they wait – they wait for their special partner who will be able to come into their heart will be able to pass through these walls, even to do so by breaking an entry. Of course not, I do not mean that they will not have partners until they find the special one. On the contrary, they will try here and there, but with the attitude - "Well, let’s try it, but I doubt that something will come out of it".

They can live for years as pure consumers of love and intimacy, without being able to respond with anything just because the other person has not been accepted. But there is also the opposite option - to find the man to accept fully. And whether they will be with him or not, he remains forever in their hearts and nothing can replace him.
"





I like this quote , My moon is in Scorpio
Would you do something like this?
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Yes I will wait forever, and there will be many tests before I give and open my heart completely.
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Posted by TaurusinTexas
I know it says man - but this exactly like me - I'm a Scorpio moon with a Venus in Taurus - I would say as I have aged though, I have found that life is no lived with those walls, you have to be vulnerable in order to find the one - that's the catch. its a hard catch for someone that spent their life building those walls, but necessary and its a very painful catch. So, I should say - this was me - now I try very hard to be authentic and open with ppl, not just lovers, but friends and family. Life is better that way.

The second type - the man who wants something very special. Astrologically it refers to the Moon and Venus in the signs Taurus and Scorpio. It refers also to the aspects of Venus to the Moon and of Pluto to the two planets.
These are people who are most difficult to relate intimately. Because intimacy with them when they allow it, is in every cell of their body. These are the people who we feel that if they allow us in their lives, they will do so with their whole being, absolutely. If they love us, this will be the deepest possible love. Like in the movies. But this ability to literally merge with the other person is not for anyone who would ask for it. This type of people rarely hurry, they rarely worry that they are alone without a partner. Throughout most of their life they build walls around themselves by which to keep everyone away. And they wait – they wait for their special partner who will be able to come into their heart will be able to pass through these walls, even to do so by breaking an entry. Of course not, I do not mean that they will not have partners until they find the special one. On the contrary, they will try here and there, but with the attitude - "Well, let’s try it, but I doubt that something will come out of it".
They have very a fine and delicate position, like Achilles' heel. And that is exactly where they must be touched to accept the other. And this is a difficult task.
Sexual behavior of this type of people while waiting for their special partner is unobtrusive. They take a position of neutrality: "Yes, I'm with you, because you want it." But at the moment when appears whomsoever they will accept fully and become unstoppable and no trace is left of their neutral behavior. They can live for years as pure consumers of love and intimacy, without being able to respond with anything just because the other person has not been accepted. But there is also the opposite option - to find the man to accept fully. And whether they will be with him or not, he remains forever in their hearts and nothing can replace him. - See more at: http://www.grreporter.info/en/venus_and_moon_define_our_intimate_and_sexual_life/3907?page=2#sthash.zoCgsSHw.dpuf
Whts that you are holding in your hands? Is it a black jacket?
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Posted by TaurusinTexas
I know it says man - but this exactly like me - I'm a Scorpio moon with a Venus in Taurus - I would say as I have aged though, I have found that life is no lived with those walls, you have to be vulnerable in order to find the one - that's the catch. its a hard catch for someone that spent their life building those walls, but necessary and its a very painful catch. So, I should say - this was me - now I try very hard to be authentic and open with ppl, not just lovers, but friends and family. Life is better that way.

The second type - the man who wants something very special. Astrologically it refers to the Moon and Venus in the signs Taurus and Scorpio. It refers also to the aspects of Venus to the Moon and of Pluto to the two planets.
These are people who are most difficult to relate intimately. Because intimacy with them when they allow it, is in every cell of their body. These are the people who we feel that if they allow us in their lives, they will do so with their whole being, absolutely. If they love us, this will be the deepest possible love. Like in the movies. But this ability to literally merge with the other person is not for anyone who would ask for it. This type of people rarely hurry, they rarely worry that they are alone without a partner. Throughout most of their life they build walls around themselves by which to keep everyone away. And they wait – they wait for their special partner who will be able to come into their heart will be able to pass through these walls, even to do so by breaking an entry. Of course not, I do not mean that they will not have partners until they find the special one. On the contrary, they will try here and there, but with the attitude - "Well, let’s try it, but I doubt that something will come out of it".
They have very a fine and delicate position, like Achilles' heel. And that is exactly where they must be touched to accept the other. And this is a difficult task.
Sexual behavior of this type of people while waiting for their special partner is unobtrusive. They take a position of neutrality: "Yes, I'm with you, because you want it." But at the moment when appears whomsoever they will accept fully and become unstoppable and no trace is left of their neutral behavior. They can live for years as pure consumers of love and intimacy, without being able to respond with anything just because the other person has not been accepted. But there is also the opposite option - to find the man to accept fully. And whether they will be with him or not, he remains forever in their hearts and nothing can replace him. - See more at: http://www.grreporter.info/en/venus_and_moon_define_our_intimate_and_sexual_life/3907?page=2#sthash.zoCgsSHw.dpuf<div class="bqfade">click to expand



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Posted by Bloop
So we had a conversation about her again at lunch yesterday and I did a little research (Oh hell, you cant resist falling when a Scorp moon gives you the signals now).


So here is the deal: As per this article (Scorp moon is the Second paragraph)

http://www.grreporter.info/en/venus_and_moon_define_our_intimate_and_sexual_life/3907?page=2


"
This type of people rarely hurry, they rarely worry that they are alone without a partner. Throughout most of their life they build walls around themselves by which to keep everyone away. And they wait – they wait for their special partner who will be able to come into their heart will be able to pass through these walls, even to do so by breaking an entry. Of course not, I do not mean that they will not have partners until they find the special one. On the contrary, they will try here and there, but with the attitude - "Well, let’s try it, but I doubt that something will come out of it".

They have very a fine and delicate position, like Achilles' heel. And that is exactly where they must be touched to accept the other. And this is a difficult task.
Sexual behavior of this type of people while waiting for their special partner is unobtrusive. They take a position of neutrality: "Yes, I'm with you, because you want it." But at the moment when appears whomsoever they will accept fully, the become unstoppable and no trace is left of their neutral behavior. They can live for years as pure consumers of love and intimacy, without being able to respond with anything just because the other person has not been accepted. But there is also the opposite option - to find the man to accept fully. And whether they will be with him or not, he remains forever in their hearts and nothing can replace him.
"

It seems, that with her, he is the "consumer of love" because his hear hasnt accepted her and he is still looking for "the special one". The "Well, let's try but I doubt something will come out of it". The "I am with you, because you want it" syndrome.
Description is very accurate.
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Are you a Scorp moon as well?
would you do something like that? (being with someone as a consumer of love untill the right person comes along)