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As a Scorpio Moon: How are your responses towards extreme clinginess?
Understanding Scorpio Moon Reactions to Clinginess
Scorpio Moons tend to respond intensely to clinginess, often feeling betrayed or threatened. They value emotional depth and trust, and may become secretive or guarded if they sense manipulation or jealousy. Recognizing these responses helps in understanding their emotional dynamics and boundaries.
I don't like it.
Maybe he told you because he wanted to tell someone. Sometimes people want to vent
Posted by RumiL
I don't like it.Maybe he told you because he wanted to tell someone. Sometimes people want to vent
Arent scorpio moons very guarded about their relationships?
I mean, if he valued her, why would he tell me that?
Especially when he used to flirt with me a lot
depends on mars sign and how that influences things and the trust level , If I trust someone I spill some info but not all Just so they can share their info and trust me in time.
my male cousin also has Scorpio moon like I do , but his mars is in Leo and he likes to vent too everyone he considers close and who he trust like friends etc or he just ask opinions of complete strangers , hes sun in Gemini.
I'm a Virgo sun moon Scorpio mars cancer so I'm private the only person I vent to is My Mother sometimes I question if I can even trust her because shes has a lot of Libra aqua in her chart .
I tend to complain to my family members about my clingy friends ,and how they drive me insane but when they don't 24 hour text , call me for 2 weeks It is peaceful but I tend to worry ( my mars in cancer may cause this feeling of guilt ) and then u end up texting them , and then It starts all over , I love my friends but sometimes I want to be left alone to myself for a few days , and I'm feel like I so busy school , and family can be clingy too then the friends etc.
Posted by Notebook910
depends on mars sign and how that influences things and the trust level , If I trust someone I spill some info but not all Just so they can share their info and trust me in time.
my male cousin also has Scorpio moon like I do , but his mars is in Leo and he likes to vent too everyone he considers close and who he trust like friends etc or he just ask opinions of complete strangers , hes sun in Gemini.I'm a Virgo sun moon Scorpio mars cancer so I'm private the only person I vent to is My Mother sometimes I question if I can even trust her because shes has a lot of Libra aqua in her chart .
I tend to complain to my family members about my clingy friends ,and how they drive me insane but when they don't 24 hour text , call me for 2 weeks It is peaceful but I tend to worry ( my mars in cancer may cause this feeling of guilt ) and then u end up texting them , and then It starts all over , I love my friends but sometimes I want to be left alone to myself for a few days , and I'm feel like I so busy school , and family can be clingy too then the friends etc.
Are you a guy or a girl?
Posted by RumiL
I don't like it.Maybe he told you because he wanted to tell someone. Sometimes people want to vent
Arent scorpio moons very guarded about their relationships?
I mean, if he valued her, why would he tell me that?
Especially when he used to flirt with me a lot
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Maybe he doesn't value her.. Or maybe he's just a different! :p
He flirts with you while in a relationship?
If so, he's a different kind of scorpio moon... :p
i love clingyness!!!!!!!!!!! BUT only from the object of my affection.
he can call me and recite the alphabet for all i care.
shyt, play by play of the weather outside.
idc.
cause while youre clinging to me, you cant cling to no one else.
@ OP - Yeah, being clingy is nice, that way, both can cling together : D
But manipulation, stalking, jealousy....no. who would like it. Jealousy is understandable too.
Posted by DMV
i love clingyness!!!!!!!!!!! BUT only from the object of my affection.he can call me and recite the alphabet for all i care.
shyt, play by play of the weather outside.
idc.
cause while youre clinging to me, you cant cling to no one else.
Me too!!!
Posted by RumiL
I don't like it.Maybe he told you because he wanted to tell someone. Sometimes people want to vent
Arent scorpio moons very guarded about their relationships?
I mean, if he valued her, why would he tell me that?
Especially when he used to flirt with me a lot
Maybe he doesn't value her.. Or maybe he's just a different! :p
He flirts with you while in a relationship?
If so, he's a different kind of scorpio moon... :p
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He flirts with a lot other women. I think he is a VIG
Posted by Impulsv
As a Scorpio I never badmouth my ex-spouse the front of anyone until I got divorced LOL. In 8 years nobody knew about our problems. It could be a Taurus trait
I hear them often complain about clingyness
I don't mind clingy
Taurus complain about clinginess?
And what sun sign are you?
Posted by DMV
i love clingyness!!!!!!!!!!! BUT only from the object of my affection.he can call me and recite the alphabet for all i care.
shyt, play by play of the weather outside.
idc.
cause while youre clinging to me, you cant cling to no one else.
Yes, but he is complaining. He doesnt seem to be happy about it you know
Posted by RumiL
@ OP - Yeah, being clingy is nice, that way, both can cling together : DBut manipulation, stalking, jealousy....no. who would like it. Jealousy is understandable too.
He said she stalks his Facebook and whatsapp. She even blocked some of his old friends from the 1990's
Posted by DMV
i love clingyness!!!!!!!!!!! BUT only from the object of my affection.he can call me and recite the alphabet for all i care.
shyt, play by play of the weather outside.
idc.
cause while youre clinging to me, you cant cling to no one else.
Lol! This is so eye-opening. I never saw things this way.
Posted by trollbait
I don't mind cling-ons.But once it goes into stalking territory, I start to dislike it.
I do share personal, relationship stuff with certain people. People whom I think won't blab to the world. Unfortunately I've only been accurate 70% of the time with this.
She stalks his FB and blocks his best female friends (he is a VIG)
Posted by Shashka
You are only hearing what he tells you.
Actually she blocked me too. But he re-added me and old her not to block his friends.
Infact, when I got a friend request from him (we were already friends on Fb for quite a while), thats when I got to know I was blocked by his girlfriend in his account.
I asked him how and he told me that his girlfiend had blocked me.
Posted by BullShit
I like it, but i also like trust. Clinginess is fine with me as long as the insecurities aren't coming to a point where there is no trust in the relationship.
Well. For one she was in his Facebook so he must trust her. Second, she blocked girls including me, without his knowledge, so she mustn't trust him.
And he sounded so fed up when he explained me why I was being re-added.
I am a robot right now. So I don't like overly clingy right in the middle.
Posted by BullShit
I like it, but i also like trust. Clinginess is fine with me as long as the insecurities aren't coming to a point where there is no trust in the relationship.Well. For one she was in his Facebook so he must trust her. Second, she blocked girls including me, without his knowledge, so she mustn't trust him.
And he sounded so fed up when he explained me why I was being re-added.
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Lol I don't get why people tolerate this kind of behavior. If they're at a point where they're openly ranting to their subordinates, why don't they dump them. It seems like they enjoy that kind of misery. After all we allow what we believe we deserve.
Posted by BullShit
I like it, but i also like trust. Clinginess is fine with me as long as the insecurities aren't coming to a point where there is no trust in the relationship.Well. For one she was in his Facebook so he must trust her. Second, she blocked girls including me, without his knowledge, so she mustn't trust him.
And he sounded so fed up when he explained me why I was being re-added.
Lol I don't get why people tolerate this kind of behavior. If they're at a point where they're openly ranting to their subordinates, why don't they dump them. It seems like they enjoy that kind of misery. After all we allow what we believe we deserve.
I wanted to point that out too to dump like that.. but wasn't sure about that since it was "just" a FB (& that was my stupid though about that). But should be dumped throughout her behavioral.
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Imo I wouldn't be attracted to a weak guy like the boss. He'd rather badmouth about his girlfriend at work instead of keep things private just between him and her to either work it out or break it off. If he really cared about her, he wouldn't have exposed her mess like that, it's a reflection on him. He should've dealt with it maturely. I've actually never been fond of Taurus men. They've frequently fared less loyal than the women. They're like the geminis of fixed signs lol.
Posted by BullShit
I like it, but i also like trust. Clinginess is fine with me as long as the insecurities aren't coming to a point where there is no trust in the relationship.Well. For one she was in his Facebook so he must trust her. Second, she blocked girls including me, without his knowledge, so she mustn't trust him.
And he sounded so fed up when he explained me why I was being re-added.
Lol I don't get why people tolerate this kind of behavior. If they're at a point where they're openly ranting to their subordinates, why don't they dump them. It seems like they enjoy that kind of misery. After all we allow what we believe we deserve.
I wanted to point that out too to dump like that.. but wasn't sure about that since it was "just" a FB (& that was my stupid though about that). But should be dumped throughout her behavioral.
Imo I wouldn't be attracted to a weak guy like the boss. He'd rather badmouth about his girlfriend at work instead of keep things private just between him and her to either work it out or break it off. If he really cared about her, he wouldn't have exposed her mess like that, it's a reflection on him. He should've dealt with it maturely. I've actually never been fond of Taurus men. They've frequently fared less loyal than the women. They're like the geminis of fixed signs lol.
They should've both dealt with maturely to each other.
Plus, it's not only Taurus men I've known when they pulled their shits too. It's actually men in general.. reminds me of this thread though:
And this threat recently too though:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/the-man-cave/do-men-secretly-love-crazy-women-6347678/
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We don't know how his girlfriend's dealing with this. We only know she's immature and clingy according to the boss.
Yeah. I don't like my generation. I can't stand guys my age. It's infuriating. And then older guys act like horny 15 year olds. I hate men lol. I'm going to die alone.
Posted by Nevermore
That's actually more insecurity with control issues from her. Dang. 😐
That will pissed off Taurus with Scorpio moon a lot when she did that, not only breaking into his fb account to read, but to delete his female friends as well.How old is she for real?
He is 30. Idk her age.
He gave her his password. As per what he says, she got into the "angry" mode when he didnt give it to her at first.
But then, thats what he says. He could be happy with her for all we know.
Posted by BullShit
I like it, but i also like trust. Clinginess is fine with me as long as the insecurities aren't coming to a point where there is no trust in the relationship.Well. For one she was in his Facebook so he must trust her. Second, she blocked girls including me, without his knowledge, so she mustn't trust him.
And he sounded so fed up when he explained me why I was being re-added.
Lol I don't get why people tolerate this kind of behavior. If they're at a point where they're openly ranting to their subordinates, why don't they dump them. It seems like they enjoy that kind of misery. After all we allow what we believe we deserve.
I wanted to point that out too to dump like that.. but wasn't sure about that since it was "just" a FB (& that was my stupid though about that). But should be dumped throughout her behavioral.
Imo I wouldn't be attracted to a weak guy like the boss. He'd rather badmouth about his girlfriend at work instead of keep things private just between him and her to either work it out or break it off. If he really cared about her, he wouldn't have exposed her mess like that, it's a reflection on him. He should've dealt with it maturely. I've actually never been fond of Taurus men. They've frequently fared less loyal than the women. They're like the geminis of fixed signs lol.
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Exactly.
Thats the question in my head too.
I think his scorpio moon senses my interest in him. But is he a nice guy or not im confused..
Posted by BullShit
I like it, but i also like trust. Clinginess is fine with me as long as the insecurities aren't coming to a point where there is no trust in the relationship.Well. For one she was in his Facebook so he must trust her. Second, she blocked girls including me, without his knowledge, so she mustn't trust him.
And he sounded so fed up when he explained me why I was being re-added.
Lol I don't get why people tolerate this kind of behavior. If they're at a point where they're openly ranting to their subordinates, why don't they dump them. It seems like they enjoy that kind of misery. After all we allow what we believe we deserve.
I wanted to point that out too to dump like that.. but wasn't sure about that since it was "just" a FB (& that was my stupid though about that). But should be dumped throughout her behavioral.
Imo I wouldn't be attracted to a weak guy like the boss. He'd rather badmouth about his girlfriend at work instead of keep things private just between him and her to either work it out or break it off. If he really cared about her, he wouldn't have exposed her mess like that, it's a reflection on him. He should've dealt with it maturely. I've actually never been fond of Taurus men. They've frequently fared less loyal than the women. They're like the geminis of fixed signs lol.
They should've both dealt with maturely to each other.
Plus, it's not only Taurus men I've known when they pulled their shits too. It's actually men in general.. reminds me of this thread though:
And this threat recently too though:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/the-man-cave/do-men-secretly-love-crazy-women-6347678/
click to expandWe don't know how his girlfriend's dealing with this. We only know she's immature and clingy according to the boss.
Yeah. I don't like my generation. I can't stand guys my age. It's infuriating. And then older guys act like horny 15 year olds. I hate men lol. I'm going to die alone.
I fucking hateeeeee it! It reads as a weakness to me, especially a clingy man. I am Mars Aries dominant though
Posted by DMV
i love clingyness!!!!!!!!!!! BUT only from the object of my affection.he can call me and recite the alphabet for all i care.
shyt, play by play of the weather outside.
idc.
cause while youre clinging to me, you cant cling to no one else.
Yes, but he is complaining. He doesnt seem to be happy about it you know
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He may not be into her.
When my obsession wants to cling, i make myself very available. I text back immediately. He wont ever get my voicemail.
Shyt lets time our bathroom breaks. Our bladders need to be insync. We need to be one dammit.
Suffocate me please.
Posted by DMV
i love clingyness!!!!!!!!!!! BUT only from the object of my affection.he can call me and recite the alphabet for all i care.
shyt, play by play of the weather outside.
idc.
cause while youre clinging to me, you cant cling to no one else.
Lol! This is so eye-opening. I never saw things this way.
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Its true.
Posted by DMV
i love clingyness!!!!!!!!!!! BUT only from the object of my affection.he can call me and recite the alphabet for all i care.
shyt, play by play of the weather outside.
idc.
cause while youre clinging to me, you cant cling to no one else.
Yes, but he is complaining. He doesnt seem to be happy about it you know
He may not be into her.
When my obsession wants to cling, i make myself very available. I text back immediately. He wont ever get my voicemail.
Shyt lets time our bathroom breaks. Our bladders need to be insync. We need to be one dammit.
Suffocate me please.
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Haha, so supposedly he is not into her (in voicemail context) and is only into her (in the text context) because she is clingy, why doesnt he just breakup with her?
Posted by Impulsv
Next time he bad mouths her I'd say then why are u with her?
More of a reflection on u don't you think
I actually asked him the same yesterday, he was like "She is my girlfriend, loves me' etc. etc.
Posted by DMV
i love clingyness!!!!!!!!!!! BUT only from the object of my affection.he can call me and recite the alphabet for all i care.
shyt, play by play of the weather outside.
idc.
cause while youre clinging to me, you cant cling to no one else.
Yes, but he is complaining. He doesnt seem to be happy about it you know
He may not be into her.
When my obsession wants to cling, i make myself very available. I text back immediately. He wont ever get my voicemail.
Shyt lets time our bathroom breaks. Our bladders need to be insync. We need to be one dammit.
Suffocate me please.
Haha, so supposedly he is not into her (in voicemail context) and is only into her (in the text context) because she is clingy, why doesnt he just breakup with her?
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Hes selfish. Something is keepin him around
But its not his love for her
Posted by DMV
But its not his love for her
Well, she is pretty and rich (goes on monthly trips to exotic locations).
And he is a Sun and Venus in Taurus.
We all know how those are attracted to the "pretty n rich" types dont we 😛
Posted by DMV
But its not his love for her
Or maybe its the "emotional security" she gives him. Like you said, you cant cling to someone else while you are clinging to me.
Well you said that he used to flirt with you and a lot of other women so maybe that's why she's "clingy, jealous & manipulative"
He sounds like one of those guys who complain about their SO being crazy but don't mention their shitty behavior.
Plus he willingly gave up his FB password so how is she stalking his social media when he gave her access to it which allowed her to delete people?
He likes the drama.
I dated, casually, a guy with a Scorpio Moon and he called me clingy for texting him ONE time lol I guess he just wasn't into me. Although he wouldn't leave me alone completely. He just wanted to talk to me when HE wanted to talk to me & anything beyond that was "clingy" on my part. I stopped initiating contact completely and then he'd tell me to contact him...... Sooo basically he was a head case lol Confusing creatures.
Posted by RiverLee
Well you said that he used to flirt with you and a lot of other women so maybe that's why she's "clingy, jealous & manipulative"
He sounds like one of those guys who complain about their SO being crazy but don't mention their shitty behavior.
Plus he willingly gave up his FB password so how is she stalking his social media when he gave her access to it which allowed her to delete people?
He likes the drama.I dated, casually, a guy with a Scorpio Moon and he called me clingy for texting him ONE time lol I guess he just wasn't into me. Although he wouldn't leave me alone completely. He just wanted to talk to me when HE wanted to talk to me & anything beyond that was "clingy" on my part. I stopped initiating contact completely and then he'd tell me to contact him...... Sooo basically he was a head case lol Confusing creatures.
Haha..then what became of him?
He ended up with someone?
Posted by DMV
i love clingyness!!!!!!!!!!! BUT only from the object of my affection.he can call me and recite the alphabet for all i care.
shyt, play by play of the weather outside.
idc.
cause while youre clinging to me, you cant cling to no one else.
Yes, but he is complaining. He doesnt seem to be happy about it you know
He may not be into her.
When my obsession wants to cling, i make myself very available. I text back immediately. He wont ever get my voicemail.
Shyt lets time our bathroom breaks. Our bladders need to be insync. We need to be one dammit.
Suffocate me please.
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😆
I'm the same way.
Nope. Well not that I'm aware of anyway, I don't check up on him. Most women think he's a pig from what I've seen on social media. He's not polite in his rejection & that doesn't sit well with the ladies, even when they aren't the ones being rejected.
He's playing to poor me guy so he can't start up the cheating
U know the skit
My wife/gf is horrible blah blah
So makes it ok to make moves on u
^^^^This is what I was about to post..
He is baiting to get sympathy or something.. Never trust a man that badmouths his wife/gf or even exes, there are always two sides. If he were a good man, he wouldn't be discussing his gf in a negative way with you.
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My Scorp moon (Taurus Sun) boss who I have a slight crush on, says that his girlfriend is crazy, jealous and manipulative.
As per him she stalks his social media
Why was he telling me this?