Scorpio Moon in love?

How does a Scorpio moon behave in love and how do they move on from a break up?

sweetplum,

Here is an existing thread about something similar: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/moon-signs/scorpio-moon-5087507/

Took me five and a half years to get over my very first crush, he was a pisces... and all I did was admire him from afar. It didn't ever go anywhere and I guess I was okay with that after a while. Barely even talked.

To me, moving on is a fuckin challenge. It is true, it is like an addiction, although you cannot physically take yourself off, it is all mental, which is why it is such a challenge.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/moon-signs/scorpio-moon-5087507/

My first love and only boyfriend, took bout 2 years to get over him. I still think about him but only about what could have been. Doesnt mean i want a relationship out of him. i just think alot. For a sign that feels so much, i think ALOT. I wish i could stop thinking sometimes.

I generally think about a person until a new person comes around for me to obsess over.

Posted by Rambunctious76

Posted by cheekyfaerie
a. like an addict.
b. slowly.

^This.

Took me 2 years to get over my last relationship.First 1.5 years was horrible. Add on the fact that I'm Venus in Aries as well...yeah.

But we get over it eventually. Just need to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

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i hate brooding. it feels like i could do it forever, but i dont want to. I REALLY want that person just to profess their unwavering love and we ride off into the sunset together.

it also took me 2 years to get over my first bf .. I too have venus in aries like Rambunctious76

Thank you everyone for your responses! 🙂

My partner exhibits most of the things you've said... he is a Lunar Scorpio! He has transformed me for the better but he also brought out my demons which I'm not fully aware... It seems like he knows me better than I know myself.

I love him to death though people say our Moons are so incompatible! I am a Lunar Leo, btw. 🙂

They are both fixed moons so it works. My mom has Moon in Scorpio and my dad has Moon in Leo. They have been married for 36yrs. : )

Posted by IllaLupus
For me when I truly love that person it's as if I want a merging of souls to partake. However I'm very cautious.. And it's hard to not have paranoid thoughts. Love for me is like drinking eachother after we've merged as one into a pit of acid haha.. Very intense, powerful, emotions wild and deep, but I can be too much. The love I want reciprocated can be too much for a lot of people, that's why I find relationships difficult. One must match my passion in strength and power, and if they can't it won't last. If a relationship gets sour for me it will be hard to leave at first even if I find the person awful. It's hard to leave because I feel like I have given a part of me away and I need to get it back before I burn my bridge. Once I leave I don't even look back and I can let go as if they were nothing. My heart has no room for the hurtful memories of someone who didn't appreciate me.

I tend to think I was meant to be alone in life, at least I don't scare myself away. I'm stuck with me.

THIS. I also have my Venus in Scorpio.

Posted by WateryGem
They are both fixed moons so it works. My mom has Moon in Scorpio and my dad has Moon in Leo. They have been married for 36yrs. : )

That's very comforting to know WateryGem! The struggles between those moons are real! Given that they are both fixed signs, each of them has the need to control! 🙂

Going in to year two of getting over heartbreak with Pisces. I know it will take awhile. Glad to know I'm not abnormal.

Posted by GeorgiaPeach
Going in to year two of getting over heartbreak with Pisces. I know it will take awhile. Glad to know I'm not abnormal.

Aww, my hugs to you GeorgiaPeach.

It will, and you will come out stronger than ever. 🙂

Deeply committed to ones we love. Observing people's behavior and never acting at first. Deeply emotional attached. But do not make fun of us, you'll get hurt.

Scorpions are so obsessed sometimes.. but what killed me the most is that after two relationships with Scorpio men, they seem as if they are In need of a female mom-like Rolemodel. They want alot of attention and with me being a cancer I never minded that part.. on the other hand though it was extremely difficult to invlove myself with just about anyone else.. both of these guys had a huge dad figure they looked up to for the most part.. I never knew either one of my parents I was like a Lonewolf. But coming from my life style of changing places and shifted aquantances made things difficult when I had to realize I would catch alot of heat whenever I decided to have my own time Where I wanted to let my hair down.. one down side before We broke up out of both these relationships I found that they kinda lost their ambition towards the important things including our relationship or even work and money and mainly their attitude changed in the process. If you're in love with a Scorpio and are a cancer, it might be hard to get your concerns inside of their heads... I found myself having to leave for these reasons.

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Posted by GeorgiaPeach
Going in to year two of getting over heartbreak with Pisces. I know it will take awhile. Glad to know I'm not abnormal.

I'm also on year two. I haven't been heartbroken since high school, but my last gf was an Aries. A fucking insane one at that. I made the mistake of giving her the right amount of pleasure and till this day she still tries to fix something that didn't really exist. I only dated her for 1 month, and when she said she loved me the first time we had sex on the 2nd day of even knowing eachother I knew it was fucked...

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I can't follow you. What was fucked up? Is a fire sign here condomning another fire sign?

Posted by DarkFire

Posted by GeorgiaPeach
Going in to year two of getting over heartbreak with Pisces. I know it will take awhile. Glad to know I'm not abnormal.

I'm also on year two. I haven't been heartbroken since high school, but my last gf was an Aries. A fucking insane one at that. I made the mistake of giving her the right amount of pleasure and till this day she still tries to fix something that didn't really exist. I only dated her for 1 month, and when she said she loved me the first time we had sex on the 2nd day of even knowing eachother I knew it was fucked.

Then the Cap I dated in high school is still trying to date me and fix somthing long gone. She will randomly text me and say "So you ready to grow up, marry me, and make babies yet?" When those texts come that's when I know she and her bf broke up, and it's time to hide.

I wish someone would get these girls preg already so they gtf out of my life and let me move on.

Lately however I've been talking to a Cancer girl. It's long distance for she lives one state below me. The catch is she has been actively talking to me through online and phone for a whole year, which makes me feel she may actually be interested. I should probably make a trip and meet her. Fuck I should take my 10g I've saved and just leave for good and see where the spider web take me.

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magic stick?

Posted by DarkFire

Posted by DwellingOnMove
I can't follow you. What was fucked up? Is a fire sign here condomning another fire sign?

...The woman I chose for life won't be willing to have sex until after we are married, and not a second before...

So you could ask them in order to find out what type of women they are. But you sleep with them. Your values are confusing me.

Posted by DarkFire

Posted by DwellingOnMove
I can't follow you. What was fucked up? Is a fire sign here condomning another fire sign?

...Scorpio, Cancer, and Capricorn/Taurus rule my chart... So yes, I guess a fire sun is condemning another fire sun...

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If a Cancer girl needs one year to know they can trust a Leo Sun while the Aries girl knows it at the first date, the latter gets punished?

PS: my Impression is that you don't want to come to a good end so soon. You want to take your time. In the 70ies they stayed together and gave it a try. The Internet/mobility generation invents all kinds of excuses to be still unpaired.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
a. like an addict.
b. slowly.

My Venus keeps me pretty balanced. Sometimes detached, even. If my moon ran the show all the time, I'd be paranoid and smothering. It's all consuming, ride or die, jealous... Don't get me wrong! It's not all bad, but it's kind of a big deal. Gotta keep it in check.

We take love very seriously. It's why getting over certain people can take a mini eternity. Once I get addicted to somebody, trying to get over them's like tryin to kick a bad habit.

this is so real. Even with a Venus in goat, it take an unbelievable amount of strength to slow down the desire to merge. To bond.

Ugh...dated a Scorpio moon guy...Vindictive...always have to get back at you in one passive aggressive or aggressive way or another. They're always tallying the hurts you caused even if you didnt try to hurt them. I'm libra moon so I have low sympathy for that shit.

Posted by Roam
Ugh...dated a Scorpio moon guy...Vindictive...always have to get back at you in one passive aggressive or aggressive way or another. They're always tallying the hurts you caused even if you didnt try to hurt them. I'm libra moon so I have low sympathy for that shit.

I dated a libra moon and almost lost my mind.

@Darkfire, do you tell the women you date about your values? Especially the no sex b4 marriage?

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Posted by Roam
Ugh...dated a Scorpio moon guy...Vindictive...always have to get back at you in one passive aggressive or aggressive way or another. They're always tallying the hurts you caused even if you didnt try to hurt them. I'm libra moon so I have low sympathy for that shit.

I dated a libra moon and almost lost my mind.

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I have several guy friends that have Libra moon, NO!! I dated one, the other one wanted to date me. NO, just NO. I can't do it.

Posted by DarkFire

Posted by DMV
@Darkfire, do you tell the women you date about your values? Especially the no sex b4 marriage?

Did I say sex? I'm not that impossible 😆 I mean children, and no I don't tell them. I don't want people to change for what they may see in me, I want to change for what I actually see in them. The closer someone gets and the more they try to figure out the more it hurts once they realize I'm a hurricane over the ocean in disguise. Truth be told no one has yet to change me for better or worse. I've come to learn I only change myself, and change depending on what I surround myself with. Luckily for such a confusing person such as myself my life goal at this point is stay away from women and continue saving my money. That way by 30 I've saved enough to take care of a family and house. Right now when I let a women get to close they get trapped inside a whirlpool that they cant escape, and it never completely sucks them in. It's just spinning indefinitely.

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hahaha. i agree with you 100% . Im judgemental in a sense that i dont believe in kids b4 marriage. my parents didnt do that shit and neither am i 🙂

The closer someone gets and the more they try to figure out the more it hurts once they realize I'm a hurricane over the ocean in disguise.

A sag found me and rehabilitated me. even though we parted ways, he was the best i had. friend/lover ever. he has a mars in scorpio, moon in cancer. he knew where to heal me.

i would like for myself to one day completely open up and show who i really am without being told im crazy. i just want to be understood and supported.

Posted by Rambunctious76

The closer someone gets and the more they try to figure out the more it hurts once they realize I'm a hurricane over the ocean in disguise. Truth be told no one has yet to change me for better or worse. I've come to learn I only change myself, and change depending on what I surround myself with.

You've hit the nail on the head for me right there.

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i hate it when he hides his posts. he really says good things.

Posted by WateryGem

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Posted by Roam
Ugh...dated a Scorpio moon guy...Vindictive...always have to get back at you in one passive aggressive or aggressive way or another. They're always tallying the hurts you caused even if you didnt try to hurt them. I'm libra moon so I have low sympathy for that shit.

I dated a libra moon and almost lost my mind.

I have several guy friends that have Libra moon, NO!! I dated one, the other one wanted to date me. NO, just NO. I can't do it.

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i kid you not. id run the next time some air moon tries to roll up on me. id rather date 10 aries and a virgo.

sorry to say, but an air moon will be counterproductive to a scorpio moons quest for emotional stability.

Right now when I let a women get to close they get trapped inside a whirlpool that they cant escape, and it never completely sucks them in. It's just spinning indefinitely.

aint this the truth. the only people who navigate their way is a water moon. i was just thinking about this the other day. its not that i mean to leave a a trail of men behind me. its that they see something i do not. my distance is taken for confusion or insecurity when really, im just not into you.

Accidental Femne Fatal

Crazy romantic when in love
Takes forever to get over the break up