Scorpio moon obsession

I know Scorpio moons don't hesitate to drop people if they feel it brings negative energy in their lives, but have you ever been unable to drop someone knowing you really need them out of your life? I'm talking thinking of them constantly even when you don't mean to, like they're still important in your life.

In context, I've blocked a Cancer sun/moon out of my life because I needed to move on, but it's been months and he still feels like a part of my life and little things reminds me of him.
It feels more like obsession than remnants of feelings, I don't like thinking about the past but even 1000 miles away with no way to contact each other and new friends and relationships for us both I feel like I'm still his. We've spent so much time growing together, I forgot what it was to not have each other, especially since our professional fields are so tightly related. I don't know anything about his life now and don't want to have anything to do with him for the moment.

How do Scorpio moons move away from obsessing about past intense relationships?

Lmao!!

Yes it's called dxp

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what do you mean, dxpnet is the cause of all my inner turmoil? that'd make sense actually, haha

I can actually relate to the the topic though. Tbh I don't think we ever do move on from those type of people. We just focus on somthing else. As a fixed moon our emotions tend to never change unless a devastating force manipulates them. This could explain why we tend to see and feel in black and white. Even then though for a chosen few nothing ever changes how we truly feel about them. The connection we develop for certain people I feel is everlasting, which at that point we can only find things to distract us from how we truly see and feel.

Posted by liya-b
I know Scorpio moons don't hesitate to drop people if they feel it brings negative energy in their lives, but have you ever been unable to drop someone knowing you really need them out of your life? I'm talking thinking of them constantly even when you don't mean to, like they're still important in your life.

In context, I've blocked a Cancer sun/moon out of my life because I needed to move on, but it's been months and he still feels like a part of my life and little things reminds me of him.
It feels more like obsession than remnants of feelings, I don't like thinking about the past but even 1000 miles away with no way to contact each other and new friends and relationships for us both I feel like I'm still his. We've spent so much time growing together, I forgot what it was to not have each other, especially since our professional fields are so tightly related. I don't know anything about his life now and don't want to have anything to do with him for the moment.

How do Scorpio moons move away from obsessing about past intense relationships?

interesting, i also let go of a cancer moon recently. It does hurt me because there is LOVE and MEANING with this man but i need to move on to better things.

for me, i just drown myself into something, anything and i try not to think of the other person. if i do, i imagine that they are living a great life and i just bow out.

Posted by Soul
I can actually relate to the the topic though. Tbh I don't think we ever do move on from those type of people. We just focus on somthing else. As a fixed moon our emotions tend to never change unless a devastating force manipulates them. This could explain why we tend to see and feel in black and white. Even then though for a chosen few nothing ever changes how we truly feel about them. The connection we develop for certain people I feel is everlasting, which at that point we can only find things to distract us from how we truly see and feel.

word. imma always love my cancer moon. he healed me.

Posted by Soul
I can actually relate to the the topic though. Tbh I don't think we ever do move on from those type of people. We just focus on somthing else. As a fixed moon our emotions tend to never change unless a devastating force manipulates them. This could explain why we tend to see and feel in black and white. Even then though for a chosen few nothing ever changes how we truly feel about them. The connection we develop for certain people I feel is everlasting, which at that point we can only find things to distract us from how we truly see and feel.

Yeah, it's weirdly annoying. It would be lying to say I don't feel anything for him at all. It is actually black and white, some days I hate and resent him some days I still love him and am thankful for what he did.

It scares me how I sometimes realise I won't find someone like him again and I'm not sure it's just Scorpio obsession or a true assessment of our relationship. We go so deep into our own emotions it's hard to know if we ever have our head out of the water.

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Posted by liya-b
I know Scorpio moons don't hesitate to drop people if they feel it brings negative energy in their lives, but have you ever been unable to drop someone knowing you really need them out of your life? I'm talking thinking of them constantly even when you don't mean to, like they're still important in your life.

In context, I've blocked a Cancer sun/moon out of my life because I needed to move on, but it's been months and he still feels like a part of my life and little things reminds me of him.
It feels more like obsession than remnants of feelings, I don't like thinking about the past but even 1000 miles away with no way to contact each other and new friends and relationships for us both I feel like I'm still his. We've spent so much time growing together, I forgot what it was to not have each other, especially since our professional fields are so tightly related. I don't know anything about his life now and don't want to have anything to do with him for the moment.

How do Scorpio moons move away from obsessing about past intense relationships?

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interesting, i also let go of a cancer moon recently.

I know people say that obsession isn't love but i beg to differ.

If im not obsessed, i dont even lik u a lil bit

lol I didn't realise my comment got cut off at the end, sorry.
I don't remember exactly what I was saying but basically I've been starting off a whole new life so it's getting a big chunk of my mind off him but we used to work together so my entire harddrive and portfolio is work we've done together and some of the best stuff I've made so I still have to speak about him every so often.

I love Cancer energy but the sun/moon and my Scorpio moon/pluto was just too much emotional manipulation and feelings hurt so I left when I broke before I could break him. I know I'm the stronger one emotionally and he wouldn't have been able to recover if I truly wanted to make him feel like shit.

I don't think our brand of obsession is necessarily love, I get obsessed over infatuations and handsome men but I don't love them. But when we do love them, shit's too real, we're melting into one.

I met only one cancer sun/moon in my life. He is so annoying. I know I can't get rid of him but I know I can't live without him. So I married him. 😄

Posted by VirgoDragirl
I met only one cancer sun/moon in my life. He is so annoying. I know I can't get rid of him but I know I can't live without him. So I married him. 😄

hahaha! that's so cute!

i'd just force myself to think negatively of them... like whatever they did wrong to me.. (even if its totally trivial) .. but that doesnt last so long cos at the back of my mind i know what is true.. but u can call it a temporary relief until i isolate myself emotionally from them n get on with my life.. then later if i thknk sbout them, it wont be that intense.. it becomes more like oh that was in the past!

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I met only one cancer sun/moon in my life. He is so annoying. I know I can't get rid of him but I know I can't live without him. So I married him. 😄

Word lol

what is his mars?

Posted by TxOgal
i'd just force myself to think negatively of them... like whatever they did wrong to me.. (even if its totally trivial) .. but that doesnt last so long cos at the back of my mind i know what is true.. but u can call it a temporary relief until i isolate myself emotionally from them n get on with my life.. then later if i thknk sbout them, it wont be that intense.. it becomes more like oh that was in the past!

Pulling from the filing cabinet and replaying the reasons you need to let the person go is the best way. However, I've let two go and I still get upset wanting to reconnect. I've literally laid in bed at times not thinking of the person and my soul aches to feel close to their soul. So I constantly block all thoughts and feelings out to avoid doing something that is only going to hurt me in the end.

I adore the Cancer moon people that are in my life today. However, I will never stop caring nor missing the ones I let go.

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Posted by March19
This makes me mad I know it's none of my business but my sister Taurus(Scorpio moon) is married to a Virgo(Cancer moon) Who doesn't love her. He tells everyone how she smothers him to death so, he disappears and she chases him like an idiot and leaves her kids out on me.

I love my sister to death but I can't keep watching her kids. Her kids are something else. Kids both are Scorpio moons too, one's a Virgo other Libra. I just don't get it, how do obsessed over someone who doesn't love you?

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can u tell whats her venus? .. cos im a taurus with scorpio moon n i would never be this way, actually i would run away : /

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Posted by VirgoDragirl

I met only one cancer sun/moon in my life. He is so annoying. I know I can't get rid of him but I know I can't live without him. So I married him. 😄

hahaha! that's so cute!

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But isn't the fact that you're thinking about him a good thing? The growth you've both experienced from what you're saying. It's oftentimes difficult to find someone you connect with so well. Why wouldn't you want to be with them?

Posted by Soul

I can actually relate to the the topic though. Tbh I don't think we ever do move on from those type of people. We just focus on somthing else. As a fixed moon our emotions tend to never change unless a devastating force manipulates them. This could explain why we tend to see and feel in black and white. Even then though for a chosen few nothing ever changes how we truly feel about them. The connection we develop for certain people I feel is everlasting, which at that point we can only find things to distract us from how we truly see and feel.

Sorry, I just gotta ask..why would you want to move on if there's a connection? Did growth opportunities stop? Were your goals in life different?

1) pretend they are dead

2) mourn their death

3) drink lots of alcohol

4) stalk them

All in that order