This is my very first entry here.Actually I would like to know if you guys out there got any experience like my case.
I used to date a pisces ( He was born on on 8th March) and me myself a scorpion who was born in 21st Nov.
I met him on the internet since I was 13 and we have build the relationship for almost 6 years thru internet and finally when we agreed to have a blind date in year 2009.
The love between us is just so wonderful and we feels like we live in the heaven.
But the thing is, he often tell me about how the girls out there seduce him and and he is addicted to spend his free time chatting and use all the dirty words with those ladies.
And ya..I have to admit, with me..we do it almost everyday.He like it a lot.
But then things happend when I have to left the town and go back to my hometown.He is mad even I tried to explain to him that my life is uncertainty at that time.
Few months after that, he texted me and says that he slept with another girl.He is like..hmmm...he will tell me everything that he has done with others and it's totally makes me crazy.
I'm loyal to him but after he done that thing, I choose to disappear from his life for almost 2 years and he never try to find me and I am living with heartache and it's hard for me.
After that, he tried to text me and yes, I reply...but after two years..I met a new guy.A pisces who was born on 7th March and he is 10 years older than me.hmmm...
My life become complicated.I love both of them but then I choose to live with the second pisces that I met.
But then, my ex-pisces, he often contacted me..proposed me and I have to reject his proposal since I already have someone else (actually, I still missing him.a lot)
then...the next 2 days, he will be marrying a pisces girl.Who are very religious girl (and now he choose to a religious too) and the lady was born on the same date as him..
My concern is, I want him to be happy with his life.Our path maybe cross once but when he is not made for me, we can't do nothing to change the fact.
I want the right girl to take care of him and I would like to know if he will be getting fine with his pisces wife-to-be ?
Funny...I know a couple and they are both very religious and both Pisces born on the same day. They are very happy and appear to be the best of friends.
On another note...
Your exboyfriend's happiness is not your responsibility. It appears he is very capable of addressing his own needs.
Nah..at least from the other people experience help me to feel better.Yes you are right, he has choose his own way and right now I should let it go. =)))
As you said, his happiness isn't my responsible but at least, if somebody used to make you happy in the past...that is why I always wish that happiness will be with him no matter what will happend in the future.Thanks for sharing ya.
It's not my intention to claim him back...but as a friend and used to be a lover, I wanted him to be happy.As what I am right now.If one day he got the problem, I am 100% sure that he will contacted me as what he used to do it before.
At that time, I will advise him the best but I will not put my feeling at him anymore.
My second pisces, he is the best man I ever had.
I told him my story and he gave me the best advise saying that, past is not something easy that we can forget but what we can do is we need to forgive ourselve for what we have done in the past and move on with what we have the present.
Currently I am doing fine and try not to think about it too much.I spend most of my time with my second pisces and comfort him. =))))
About the 1st pisces, he are now married to his fiancee yesterday evening.All I can do is just congratulate him as a friend. I accepted the fact that if he is not belong to me and I no longer hold the grudge.
Everything happen for a reason right—? I think God want to show me, how am I suppose to appreciate my life right now.He give me so much happiness..more than I bargain for. =))
I hope you guys live well and bless with happiness too.Thank you so much. (6-^)
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This is my very first entry here.Actually I would like to know if you guys out there got any experience like my case.
I used to date a pisces ( He was born on on 8th March) and me myself a scorpion who was born in 21st Nov.
I met him on the internet since I was 13 and we have build the relationship for almost 6 years thru internet and finally when we agreed to have a blind date in year 2009.
The love between us is just so wonderful and we feels like we live in the heaven.
But the thing is, he often tell me about how the girls out there seduce him and and he is addicted to spend his free time chatting and use all the dirty words with those ladies.
And ya..I have to admit, with me..we do it almost everyday.He like it a lot.
But then things happend when I have to left the town and go back to my hometown.He is mad even I tried to explain to him that my life is uncertainty at that time.
Few months after that, he texted me and says that he slept with another girl.He is like..hmmm...he will tell me everything that he has done with others and it's totally makes me crazy.
I'm loyal to him but after he done that thing, I choose to disappear from his life for almost 2 years and he never try to find me and I am living with heartache and it's hard for me.
After that, he tried to text me and yes, I reply...but after two years..I met a new guy.A pisces who was born on 7th March and he is 10 years older than me.hmmm...
My life become complicated.I love both of them but then I choose to live with the second pisces that I met.
But then, my ex-pisces, he often contacted me..proposed me and I have to reject his proposal since I already have someone else (actually, I still missing him.a lot)
then...the next 2 days, he will be marrying a pisces girl.Who are very religious girl (and now he choose to a religious too) and the lady was born on the same date as him..
My concern is, I want him to be happy with his life.Our path maybe cross once but when he is not made for me, we can't do nothing to change the fact.
I want the right girl to take care of him and I would like to know if he will be getting fine with his pisces wife-to-be ?
Any ideas—?
Thanks & hv a nice day!