Pisces thing or is he a jerk?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by truecap on Friday, February 24, 2012 and has 23 replies.

Is His Behavior Due to Pisces Traits or Personal Jerkiness

His immature response likely reflects personal issues rather than zodiac traits. Pisces individuals are sensitive and compassionate, but behavior varies. Focus on his actions and communication style to understand if it aligns with zodiac stereotypes or personal character. Recognizing that astrology offers general tendencies can help clarify whether his behavior is typical or indicative of a deeper issue.

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@MeMyselfAndIntrigued
14 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

You just have a very immature male on your hands. Dude couldn't even deal with your very kind and honest explaination. Let him go off and pout and if he continues to stay gone and pout then let him. That'd be my advice on any guy that acted like that.

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Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
You just have a very immature male on your hands. Dude couldn't even deal with your very kind and honest explaination. Let him go off and pout and if he continues to stay gone and pout then let him. That'd be my advice on any guy that acted like that.

I so agree! Thus, why I moved on. lol!!!

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@XV2
14 YearsPisces

I think you just have a really immature guy on your hands. If my performance is not good then I want to know about it in order to find a way to improve, and I hate it when someone fakes it. So no, I wouldn't say it's a particular Pisces trait.-

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Posted by Nemesis
"I have since moved on. But I'm just curious as to whether its his Pisces (Aries moon) or if the guy is just a real big jerk."

oh really?

why is he the jerk btw? this comment does not speak in your favour.

pissed off, sure he is....i'd be too if i got a text like that knowing that it does not correlate with what you said in the first place.....a little bit patronizing.

"it's not your fault, it's mine, but still it was great to be with you?" sounds a bit fake imo.

you rather should have stuck to what you said; he would have accepted that.

Again, you make no sense. Why is he the jerk? Because he got mad at HER that HE didn't please HER! Why does he have a right to be pissed at that? Her text did correlate to what she told him because she already told him that he was extemely talented and she was just tired.

And don't use quotations when she never said "it's not your fault, it's mine, but still it was great to be with you". You're quoting words out of your own head that you put in her mouth. Nothing was fake about any of her actions.

Here's proper use of quotations...."you rather should have stuck to what you said; he would have accepted that". How can you speak for him and say he would have accepted that? Do you know him? He didn't accept anything she said, hence.... he is a baby and.....hold the phone......a jerk!

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@bkbella86
14 Years5,000+ PostsAries

Sounds like something that happened with a Pisces fling and I. I explained that he wasnt pleasing me and he got really upset and decided not to perform at all. He also was very selfish and wanted to sit back and I do all the work. After that he got really mean and started playing mind games and again it was just a a physical thing, so I didnt see the point in the mind games since feelings weren't supposed to be involved. I finally cursed him out at the end of Jan and told him never to contact me again. I am about to be 26 i shouldn't be faking shit, if you can't deal with the truth oh well. I think he was taken a back because most woman will fake it to protect a man's ego, eff that its about me and then u.

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Posted by Nemesis
"I have since moved on. But I'm just curious as to whether its his Pisces (Aries moon) or if the guy is just a real big jerk."

oh really?

why is he the jerk btw? this comment does not speak in your favour.

pissed off, sure he is....i'd be too if i got a text like that knowing that it does not correlate with what you said in the first place.....a little bit patronizing.

"it's not your fault, it's mine, but still it was great to be with you?" sounds a bit fake imo.

you rather should have stuck to what you said; he would have accepted that.

I didn't text him that.

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Posted by truecap
Okay. We talked. I explained I felt faking was dishonest and why fake it and risk not having a real one. I told him it was only because I was tired and that he was extremely talented at it and that I still enjoy....blah,blah,blah. You get the drift.

Me thinks it was more so a problem with your delivery. You seem pretty flippant about the whole thing even in this post. Extreme tact is required on this subject with any guy, regardless of sign.

Being a Cap, you're probably not even aware of how you may come across to people. I've had to pick my mouth up off the floor after hearing some statements from Caps. Wow!

And everyone of them was clueless regarding the responses they receive. Just couldn't understand why people had such strong negative reactions to their words.

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Posted by shellshocker

Posted by truecap
Okay. We talked. I explained I felt faking was dishonest and why fake it and risk not having a real one. I told him it was only because I was tired and that he was extremely talented at it and that I still enjoy....blah,blah,blah. You get the drift.

Me thinks it was more so a problem with your delivery. You seem pretty flippant about the whole thing even in this post. Extreme tact is required on this subject with any guy, regardless of sign.

Being a Cap, you're probably not even aware of how you may come across to people. I've had to pick my mouth up off the floor after hearing some statements from Caps. Wow!

And everyone of them was clueless regarding the responses they receive. Just couldn't understand why people had such strong negative reactions to their words.

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This is probably true.

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@MeMyselfAndIntrigued
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Yep....I still think he was being a selfish jerk and he got his attitude way before you told him your reason. Sounds like he's just not that confident and needed you to stoke his ego. It doesn't sound like it was based on connection.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Obviously, this is all bullshit ... to have a big ego about a woman cumming to him would mean she'd have to actually cum. To fake it would be what the ego doesn't want.

It is being played at both ends of the stick here ... 1) his ego is big, 2) she is suppose to fake it .. and an egotistical person would actually be insulted if the woman faked it .. which means, she is the one full of shit here.

And secondly, they only did it 3 times, and the first 2 she came .. so he wouldn't even know what her faking sounds are .. unless of course the real truth here is that she faked the first two times, and so that's what he thought was real, and when he found out she faked it everytime, that's why he got the attitude about faking it.

Fish aren't that superficial ... all of this is a fabrication of course.

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Well e to the 3rd power...I dunno exactly what but something just really sounds off about this..partly what pa said and let it be said there is another puzzle piece I can't put in place right now but something is. missing for sure

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Posted by piranhaparadiise
who cares what this Pisces or rather MAN thought when you didn't scream...some men don't feel like a man or can't get it up unless you scream..moan...chant ...whatever

A real man doesn't mind whether you scream...silent or twist your head like exorcise ...he'll enjoy *you* regardless...

Say that Again!!! Could not agree more!