Aqua/Pisces cusp man

I'm an aqua sun / pisces moon (don't think I fall right on the cusp? feb 15th here...) Anyways, I feel that I am actually very straight forward with my interest, I demonstrate eye contact, smiling etc if physical attraction from across the room, and will engage in conversation and such if they give me an equal amount of attention back. Which is rare as hell, females don't seem to like to put out there that they are legitimately interested and instead have to do teasing games or such. If the latter occurs I'll only try for so long before I say whatever and move on. If you have anything in specific you'd like me to chime in on let me know.

My Ex is 2/18..And yes there was alot of push and pull with him. It took a long time before he told me he loved me and before he even showed it. He had alot of inner issues. We are over now finally but still good friends and I like that we are friends now. And in all fairness they make way better friends then Bf's..

One of my good friends is an aqua/pisces cusper. He became most interested in his (now) gf because the rest of us disapproved.

He's flighty but he talked to her a lot and would actually stick around instead of floating off to another person. He's not the type to delve into sex. He needs the friendship level to be established first. If she can offer him new perspective in ways to enrich his life, and is a good person, she will win him over. Then she can't get rid of him.

That posted three times. Crazy!

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Okay, Internexus -

I've known him for about a year. Friend of a friend. Took a while to get to know. He used to tease a lot, say things to try to embarrass me, pick on me, etc. We had one lunch together a few months ago. Now, we are texting for hours a couple days a week and he calls about once a week. Makes comments about things we will or might do. However, doesn't make definite plans. I have come right out and suggested happy hour one day (his birthday, my treat), but he had a reason not to and said I should do it when I could hang out longer. I told him, okay then, the ball is in your court pick a day and place. Well, he has made some efforts to make a point to show up where I was and still calls/texts and makes hints. Very flirty context sometimes. I am not going to suggest anything else, just go about my business and see if he will follow through on making plans.

So, is he not sure? Am I reading too much into it? Taking his time?

You mentioning his comments of things you will/might do is definitely something I do as well. However, like him I have a HARD time setting plans in stone, in fact I hate it. I am so spur of the moment more than anything that if I have a friend that's saying "On this date we will go this place okay?" I automatically have zero desire for wanting to do it and even if the plans were cancelled come that day I wouldn't want to go by myself or with anyone else either. On the other hand if someone gets in contact with me and mentions maybe hanging out on that night and I say "Yes" then mentioning a place the day before or even the day of I am likely to be much more interested in doing it. I am STRANGE like that and I have zero explanation to it! I agree with you that the ball is in his court if he cancelled on you. Overall I think he has 'some' interest in you, but I don't think it's anything real sincere. It maybe something along the lines of 'I wonder what a relationship would be like with her' more than him feeling it's a definite great relationship.

Does that help?

Yes it does. Thank you!

I'm back in the dating game after an 18 year marriage. Things are different now than they were 20 years ago. Bleh!

I've got lots to learn!!

Yeah, dating is a pain in the BUTT. I only had one relationship myself from highschool on for 10 years including marriage and such and when that ended.... Well it's still annoying figuring out things I should've apparently known already. Just keep your head up and doing your thing! 🙂