Any Fish here had dated a Sag—?? opinions please

I've recently broken up with a Crab guy whom I loved very much.
The situation was unsustainable and I opted out...anyway I was and still am hurt and heartbroken by the situation, going thru some emotional disbalance and stuff like that.
The thing is that I got to know a Sag guy int he middle of the post breakup turmoil and he kind of stuck around even though I bullied him, I treated him very badly and I tried to push him away many times.
We dated..I was not interested.
In the middle, to test him, after coming home in a drunken night, I kind of made it clear if he picked me up we could end up in the sack..he declined saying he was responsible...I retorted he was repressed . Ha! So I deduce he wasn't interested in just f*****g.
SEcond date, we kissed...
Truth is , I don't know what will happen but it is just a start. He keeps me interested and he is witty and street wise. We both have Mars in Gemini so that is so interestign, the verbal thing is wonderful.
Any anecdotes, any out there who have dated Sags?
I know it is not the best combo but well.....

Just wondering.

he has Scorp rising and Scorp moon- Venus in Libra

Me Fish rising- Sag moon- Venus in Aqua

Sags are ok .. their inability to see themselves would drive me crazy after time, though.


This is a settlement on your part, and not really any sincere attraction ... and he doesn't understand that, I would assume.


That ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is what I mean about the Sag's inability to see themselves. Every time you give him attention, he probably thinks you're attracted to him.



And yet, it is innocent on their part .. they are naive, and likely wouldn't fair well emotionally with a Pisces, who tends to manipulate feelings.

My first on only bf was a sag and it was a horrible relationship. He wasn't emotionally supportive at all. I found myself crying a lot because of the way he didn't seem to care.

mMMM Maybe.
But I get this guy , as a Scorp rising and Scorp moon, digs emotions.
I get offended a lot cos he is so blunt and direct, and Im in a bad mood and intolerant myself.
But I like these limits . It makes me respect him, I dont like doormats.
he is very witty and acid , the type of humor I like.
I still haven't seen the tender part of him, he says he will show it if I also show some kindness.
Time will tell. Thanks for the inputs

Yep.
They flirt to much, I dont trust em.

Thier inability to care on the right level isn't intented, though .... they just aren't made the way that's needed.


I think their naivity is cute.


I do hope that you make sure he realizes that you're only attracted to him because of being on rebound because he likely wouldn't have any clue to that unless you told him.

thanks everybody for your ideas and opinions.

I'm getting more interested in him by the day.
He is witty and good humoured.
P-Angel, he knows about my break up. Ive been honest with him.
Lena, yes, the fire Saggy moon helps 🙂
So far, he has been around and seems intersted without being flirty.
At this moment he lightens me up a lot. I find myself thinking more about him than my Ex!!!
which is great!!!

Posted by EmotionalMoon
They dont relise what they have until its gone...

bad experience..huh??

Posted by EmotionalMoon
They dont relise what they have until its gone...

How very true. It was when my ex-husband (Sag) realized that I truly was not coming back did he come around and admit this to me and make promises of how he was going to change. He still wants me back, but he hasn't changed. Truthfully, we made each other miserable and we both are happier now.

Third eye...I agree completely.
Kiddie gloves, are you kidding— He is completely blunt and to the point.

The other day we were texting, I was away at the beach and I had twisted my ankle. I told him I had hurt myself and that I needed some nice massage ..he asnswered...better go to a doctor! hahahaha.
Zero tenderness. I answered, hey , you could be tender sometime. He replied "tenderness is earned " .
I kind of like his blunt responses because he can see through my manipulation and bshitting..but I dont know in the long run if this will be the case. Right now, we have just dated a couple of times and kissed, but he contacts me daily and constantly. I prefer honesty to bshitting and guys who would pour sugar in your ear and then cheat on you. This guy strikes me as direct, blunt and mature.
But Fish are so sensitive, don't know if that bluntness will be our doom!!!

Wow!!!!
I'll be definitely be looking forward to that hahaha!!!! He seems quite hot...firey!!!! 😉

My not-gf is a Sag, although we haven't seen much of each other since she moved back to Florida last year. The sex has always been phenomenal, but other aspects... not so much. We both care deeply for each other, but she has a lot of very unattractive qualities that I'm not sure if they're Sag things or just specific to her. For example, one of the first things we connected on was our shared experiences of being abused (her by her ex-husband, me by my mother's boyfriend when I was a teenager), yet she expected me to tolerate her baggage while having a "oh, just man up" attitude towards mine.

She's also a bit of a diva which is a huge turnoff for me at times (and by "at times" I mean "whenever we're not sweaty, naked and on top of each other). She's constantly calling people around her "fake" while blissfully unaware of how that could apply to her since she readily admits to becoming a different person when she goes out. She also still talks about her "haters" on facebook despite being almost 40-years old. She also has a reputation for dating married men in the past... but she loves Jesus. The thing is, she's actually a very deep and intelligent person when she wants to be, which really confounds me to as to why she acts so shallow and spoiled in public.

One thing I can say about Sag women is that much of their "love of freedom" is actually a fear of attachment (or at least the responsibility that comes with it) which isn't such an easy thing for us fish to overcome since, at least to us, it appears dishonest and immature. But despite all the negativity that gets written about Pisces and Sags, I can't deny that there's something magic, or perhaps metaphysical, about our connection.