Are any other pisces females like this?

When it comes to dating and relationships I've always been pretty straight forward and honest. I don't do the game playing crap,in fact, I hate it! If I want to see you I will and if I don't I won't. I say what's on my mind and never apologize for who I am. I don't know if it's because my venus is in Aries or what, but that's me. I feel like it's a bit off putting to men though, they seem to like the whole game playing crap..the men I meet anyway. I just can't do it. A lot of my friends tell me i better learn to play the game but that really irks me. Why should I be someone I'm not or play into the bullshit just because. Thoughts?

@pvaf thank you! My point exactly! And yes we're totally innocent ::bats eyelashes:: hahaha!

@tiziani thanks for your comment. I know exactly what I want and what I'm looking for, one of reasons why game playing and the foolishness that goes with it makes no sense to me.

I'm like this as well. I refuse to play games. I'm honest when it comes to relationships and while I don't always know what I want, I can be direct and straightforward when I do know. There are plenty of guys out there mature enough to not play games and these people will probably suit you best. If they play games in the courting process, they're bound to keep doing it in other aspects of their lives.

I'm venus in aries as well.

that is so me, and my Venus is in Aries as well. I get the same critique at work because I'm straight forward no chaser so- imagine my personal relatioships. People really need to take in mind the other aspects of a person chart, since all Pisces cannot be put in a box, at least not me. All my daydreams come to reality yet, I love a man that wants to take care of his woman. Hey we're all complex but I cant stand the current stigma on Pisces being soo flighty and lost.

Haha yes, I have my Venus in Aries as well. I was just talking to a friend about this last night. I am very blunt with people. If I like you and want to spend time with you, trust me, you will know. If the other person is acting unsure or fairweather then I pretty much lose all interest and I disappear. Then they come back when the timing is right for them and tell me how much they want to see me/date me/etc and I have no desire to be with them except as friends. I'm dealing with a situation with an Aquarius I've been dating for nearly a year. We broke up but he said he "needs time to think everything through" regarding us, which is cool, but the window of time for any chance of a reconciliation is pretty short.

Thankya sweet baby Jesus there are other pisces like this! Haha! For a second there I was starting to think I was some kind of odd ball. Maybe it is a venus in Aries thing. I was reading up on it the other night and it said that females with venus in Aries take no shit when it comes to relationships. We know what we want and go for it. At the first sign of uncertainty on their part we're out of there! I'll see if I can find the link and I'll post it.

Mizzbuttafly I hear ya, that stigma really needs to go.

Kmz7036 giiirrl I know what you mean. I dated an aqua a couple years back and they are flighty and aloof as hell. Don't they always come running back though? Haha! Hope things work out.

@hsat yes!! I hope things work out, too. I love him very much and the issue that broke us up was not even my fault. He overreacted, tried to prove me wrong, realized I was right, now he "needs time to think about everything." I don't understand guys who want to play games. Either you like me and want to be with me or you don't. Seems simple to me. I'm the type of person that wants to confront and deal with an issue, figure out the solution, then move on as soon as possible to get back to being happy. My life is always surrounded by Aquas, it seems though. All my friends are Aquas but this is the first time I've dated one.

Im a double pisces and venus in aries too.. im very passive i know what i want and i dont get a thrill out of chasing, and all sort of game playing.. if i feel like someone i like is being insincere or playing games, i dont play along instead i tell him straight up whats on my mind that way id know if i mean anything to this guy if he stays or go.. like this gem guy i dated recently i like him soooo much but argh he confuses me a lot and i felt like being tested and he's playing games and i just cant deal with all that bull so i kinda pushed him away and cut my losses before i fall deep and my feelings not be reciprocated in the end.. i guess venus in aries women in general are really strong and wont take crap regardless the sign that lays in the most compassionate and caring pisition, pisces... anyways ive always believe that they will come back and yeah they do chase u after lol when they realized ur a strong woman..

Let me jump onto the bandwagon but worst yet is I beleive at 36, I'm a little older than you guys. I have my Venus in Aries too but I think my Leo Moon may have contributed to my dating life.

I recently took a long hard look at my dating life and I came to a few conclusion.
1. Our honest can feel great in the start but then the guy can feel blindsided by our intensity and willingness.

2. Bad timing. I'm trying to coin a phrase, "top of the list, bottom of the pile" Guys say we epitomize everything they would want BUT they essentially put us on the back burner. They think we will wait for infinity because our "devotion" comes off as weakness

3. We fall in "love" hard and deep with little factual information. We blame our intuition for all the good feelings and our brain for all the signs we ignored

4. Their self esteem. Some guys don't feel deserving of our kind of love, affection, and devotion. Add the fact we may be successful in our given career, this may magnify their feelings of inadequacy even though we may actually try to hide it.

Yes! It's so damn refreshing to know there's a bunch of us like this. Excuse me while I go tell my friends "in yo face!" Haha!
Still looking for that link by the way. Can't remember where the heck I saw it.

YES, I'm also a Pisces with Venus in Aries and Leo Moon as well. I agree with what's been said - I hate playing games. If someone likes me but acts indecisive or fairweather then the window of opportunity only lasts so long before I completely lose interest. I'm in a situation with an Aquarius who is all of a sudden aloof and detached and acts like he expects me to wait around for his detached phase to end. Sorry dude, you can't just check out of life or a relationship for an undetermined amount of time and expect the other person to still be there. You either want to be with me and love me or you don't. Seems pretty black and white to me.

Omg I hate game players with a passion! I am a woman in my 20's and I don't like games at all and I damn sure know exactly what I want. A Pisces woman will swim away from that ASAP! We hate that shit!

...but the point is, you are able to weed out the non-factor suitors with this strength(Venus in Aries) - I have been married for 5 years now.

so if my intensity scares you, again it works in my favor and you bounce. I know my worth as a women so I will not wait for you to decide which is the better woman. Now, if Im attracted to you sexually and you are not really interested in a relationship I will go there just for the goods- which could be the downfall of this mixture..lol since my Pisces will become attached.

My sister is Pisces and we handle relationships completly different.

Posted by hsat143
When it comes to dating and relationships I've always been pretty straight forward and honest. I don't do the game playing crap,in fact, I hate it! If I want to see you I will and if I don't I won't. I say what's on my mind and never apologize for who I am. I don't know if it's because my venus is in Aries or what, but that's me. I feel like it's a bit off putting to men though, they seem to like the whole game playing crap..the men I meet anyway. I just can't do it. A lot of my friends tell me i better learn to play the game but that really irks me. Why should I be someone I'm not or play into the bullshit just because. Thoughts?

My thoughts are as follows:

GET NEW FRIENDS!

....and keep believing in yourself. You are on the RIGHT track!