Are Pisces Men Needy?

Just wondering. What I mean by needy is wanting to you call, type or see you a lot. I'm a pisces and I'm okay with that at times. Other times I want to be in my dream cave and be left the hell alone. He is a pisces with a Sag moon. It seems like he would want more freedom than I, but it is the opposite.

So... are pisces men just naturally needy?

depends. To my experience, as soon as you turn around and are needier than him he could pull away.

Ah, got it. Thanks!

That reminds me of something. I think you are right. He said his ex was really needy and it drove him crazy and he had to get away. *shakes head* Us Pisces are some strange creatures. lol

Well, ever tried to catch a fish? Its like that, to the lure, away from the lure - back and forth - rinse and repeat 😉

We ARE funny little creatures 😉

Posted by scalpisces
depends. To my experience, as soon as you turn around and are needier than him he could pull away.

That changes as we get older and realize how selfish most people are.

Once this realization is complete, the only thing one will ever logically desire is the love and affection of a soul mate and the babies that naturally follow this inclination.

I believe Pisces men tend to need some type of attention all the time...well, at least my ex did. I always gave him the attention he wanted, but it seemed like he always wanted more. Then, whenever i would stop he'd go somewhere else (girls at work or from school) and try and get sympathy from them.
I know im a sag and i need my space, and i dont like when men get that way, but i was with him for 6 years so i tried to make it work, and id give and give, but it never was enough. He would text a girl from his job (i texted her and told her dont even try it), then he made out with one of his 'female friends'(he didnt tell me until 6months later), and then he cheated and decided to date the girl for 5 months until she ended up playing games with him..and he'd always come back to me sad and crying as if i was suppose to help him solve his problems..he's not very confident in himself though. He's somewhat insecure..maybe i thought i could help him.

Maybe, when hes older then he'll probably chill out with the next girl. At the end of the day, they need someone who can give them the emotional attention constantly, otherwise they may try and find it somewhere else, or from someone else. IMO

Posted by GalacticFun89


Maybe, when hes older then he'll probably chill out with the next girl. At the end of the day, they need someone who can give them the emotional attention constantly, otherwise they may try and find it somewhere else, or from someone else. IMO

i agree.. when he wants your attention give it, besides he's ur bf.. he wants to see/call u all the time thats great means you mean a lot to him, but ofcourse not to the extent of ur not getting enough space for urself and esp if he becomes so clingy thats not so cool as ur right when u said we pisces wants also our alone time.. but-- if our partner doesnt give us some type of attention we so earnestly wanted we tend to look for it somewhere and worst case scenario is we may be involve with someone else, i must admit ive done something like that before,.. make me feel secured and wanted by giving me attention otherwise i can lose interest and whatnot--- swim far far away, where when u want my attention, i wouldnt give it to u coz im done but il be nice to u though.. so i guess not just the guys are needy of some type of attention also the women, thats how we feel and know we are wanted and loved..imo..

my bad, i posted on the wrong thread...

but i will chime in....

yes, pisces men are needy but usually at the worst possible times and in weird (for lack of a better word) ways...lol

--Jack

Posted by yellow01gt
my bad, i posted on the wrong thread...

but i will chime in....

yes, pisces men are needy but usually at the worst possible times and in weird (for lack of a better word) ways ...lol

--Jack

My gosh, yes.

Posted by yellow01gt
my bad, i posted on the wrong thread...

but i will chime in....

yes, pisces men are needy but usually at the worst possible times and in weird (for lack of a better word) ways...lol

--Jack

Please elaborate on "weird". Am intrigued.

Posted by djbuck1
Pisces men are fundamentally insecure in relationships. They think too much. Way too much. Their imaginations work overtime. And for any Pisces, the line between fantasy and reality can be a very thin one.

This is why gaming a Pisces is fraught with peril. He already has multiple games going on in his own head. Go ahead and contribute to that, or reinforce it, and watch what happens. And the more insecure a Pisces male becomes, the —needier?? he gets.

Most women do not want a needy man, so when they see this, they pull away. This, in turn, makes the Pisces needier.

Relationship Death Spiral.

If you want to hold on to a Pisces male, don't do schmick to destabilize him or to destabilize the relationship. His neediness will be inversely proportionate to how secure he feels with you.

Pisces mirror. Show us calm, confidence and dependability, and odds are you will get that back. Game us, give us any reason for lack of confidence in you, or plant the seed that you are unreliable, and watch it all unravel.

i love and hate this djbuck1 lol +1

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Posted by yellow01gt
my bad, i posted on the wrong thread...

but i will chime in....

yes, pisces men are needy but usually at the worst possible times and in weird (for lack of a better word) ways...lol

--Jack

Please elaborate on "weird". Am intrigued.

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elaborate on weird...um, the best i can do is call it unconventional or out of the ordinary, bizzare, perhaps?...part of the reason i added quotation marks to it was in hopes that people would just 'get it' instead of me having to explain it...lol

this is why 😛 (not to mention this thread is like a year old)...

--Jack

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Posted by djbuck1
Pisces men are fundamentally insecure in relationships. They think too much. Way too much. Their imaginations work overtime. And for any Pisces, the line between fantasy and reality can be a very thin one.

This is why gaming a Pisces is fraught with peril. He already has multiple games going on in his own head. Go ahead and contribute to that, or reinforce it, and watch what happens. And the more insecure a Pisces male becomes, the —needier?? he gets.

Most women do not want a needy man, so when they see this, they pull away. This, in turn, makes the Pisces needier.

Relationship Death Spiral.

If you want to hold on to a Pisces male, don't do schmick to destabilize him or to destabilize the relationship. His neediness will be inversely proportionate to how secure he feels with you.

Pisces mirror. Show us calm, confidence and dependability, and odds are you will get that back. Game us, give us any reason for lack of confidence in you, or plant the seed that you are unreliable, and watch it all unravel.

That's a very sound advice for those who want to keep a balanced relationship with any Pisces men or women in general.

Be smart and don't send mixed signals. Be smart, and don't act carelessly. Because most likely your Pisces always will have a thought in the back of their mind before doing something potentially important: "How would my SO view this, maybe I should make things clear before they take it the wrong way".

^ That's called consideration on our part. And other signs should probably learn from us, because that's how adults work their relationship. Carelessness will make us second-guess your actions, and automatically assume. Which is, frankly, going to be your own fault.

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My slow cautious Venus in Taurus did not have a keen affect on my fishtail... maybe he felt insecure from my insecurity... at least, I want to say that and circumstance were to blame... whatever it was, i feel like it could've been different... good even lol maybe in a different life...

-heather