Are Pisces strangely attracted to libras?

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Define "strangely"? I'm on my THIRD Libra LTR... well, I wouldn't call the first two LONG; we were younger, less evolved, and clearly less compatible for whatever reasons. But significant, yes. I don't "play" at love.. it's never superficial to me.

But I don't find the attraction strange at all.. Pisces and Libra have a lot of similarities in what they're like and what they want.. love, partnerships.. peace, serenity, closeness.. love... communication is a bitch, though. Just ask me.. I'm a Pisces woman with a fascinating and infuriating Libra man. We have enough similarities to be attracted.. and enough differences to keep it exciting.

But it's like living with an alien.. we DO speak different languages almost! We'd need an interpreter if we weren't both so committed to understanding the other's point of view, and willing to work at it until we hammer out the details and find a common ground. *smile*
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Oh peri.. those two Libra chicks sound like nutjobs. Some women can be complete psychos with little or no grasp on reality, but that's not a Sign thing, that's a HUMAN thing. Sounds like a couple young girls.. though I have noticed that with Libras, they tend to have a lot of short term relationships.. they don't stick around for things to get worse when they see that it's just not going to work with their new lover. And as for the "stalker" one.. casual sex can turn a girl's head around... she THINKS and FEELS like she's in a relationship before she really is, esp if she had sex with the guy, even if it was planned and intended beforehand to just be a bit of fun, nothing serious. Women can "catch" feelings, start (mis)interpreting a man's sexual desire for her as his emotional and romantic desire for her.. cuz for a lot of women, they go hand in hand.

The only Libra woman I've had a whole LOT of contact with is my Aunt Jayne. I call her "My Bitch Aunt Jayne" actually.. because she is, and thinks she's better than EVERYONE. She's a sloppy drunk, self-righteous, bitter, and hellbent on making everyone around her as miserable as she is. Even her kids hate her. But I certainly wouldn't conclude that Libra women are typically like this. That would be ludicrous! (And horrifying! o.o)

So don't let two bad experiences with Libra chicks sour you on Libras forever.. if I'd done that, I'd have never ended up with my Libra now... and that, good sir, would be a tragedy! Maybe the love of your life is a Libra.. you never know 😉
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Loved your post, but pressed for time right now... so I just wanted to say right quick...

erm.. peri... the fact that these older chicks were dating a youngun' (stud, playa, whatever) already tells me you attract messed up chicks. Boys generally mature slower than girls.. not to imply you were immature or anything.. just that these GIRLS were... their own immaturity and skewed perceptions had them attracting and attracted to much younger men. And hey.. to each their own.. if they just wanted to "get thar freak on" more power to 'em... but whatever reasons they had for dating such a younger guy, then that's the "mindset genre" they have.. it's not a serious and mature mindset.. it's not the stuff lasting relationships are generally made of/from. (And before anyone jumps in and quotes me some Demi and Ashton statistic.. I said generally... and a 17, 18 year old dating a 13 year old guy... or a 20 yr old w/ a 15 yr old... or a 30 year old w/ a 22 year old guy... etc etc blah blah.. peri's experiences.. he was dating women who were NOT the norm, who were NOT mature and secure.. it's no wonder the relationships were doomed!)

And if you want that kind of woman, peri... the womanly woman, the secure and open and real women of a bygone era... stop messin' with triflin' bitches lol Those good women ARE out there.. they're just a minority now, and can't find the men like you hiding amongst all the shallow players and users! 😱

A bunch of us discussed this in one of fath $ golphin's seriously deluded Cappy man threads. We totally derailed it, but the discussion about Modern Women VS Bygone Era was pure gold.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/ways-2get-a-cappy-man-to-verbally-express-feelings-2017592/
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My mother is a Libra.
Every Libra I have ever known has been a spoiled A-hole b*tch.
They DO like to argue.
Watch them, you'll see.
Say a single kind word to one and watch how any Libra will feel offended and respond defensively......
It's true.



Awww 😢

I feel sorry that you hate your mother and consequently hate ALL Libras, because your perception of them has been skewed by a very bad experience with a very important and forming figure in your life. Children are especially easy to fuck up. I *loathe* my Scorpio father, and have even met several "bad" Scorps in my life.. but I don't hold it against Scorpios in general. Same for my Cap ex-husband. I find PEOPLE to be quite amazing and wonderful, usually. If I hated a whole sign (or any group, really) based on my experiences with a few.. well, I might as well move to the mountains and start shooting my own food, because then I'd hate the entire world and everyone in it.

*pat pat* Plenty of mother haters hate everyone they perceive as even remotely like their mothers in any way, shape or form. So you aren't really all that special. Lots of serial killers have actually been trying to "kill their mother" by killing ones like her. Good luck with your psychosis.

Fortunately, narrow-mindedness and prejudice is not contagious.

...I think I'll go wash my hands now, though. Just in case.
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Posted by asdfghjkl
My mother is a Libra.
Every Libra I have ever known has been a spoiled A-hole b*tch.
They DO like to argue.
Watch them, you'll see.
Say a single kind word to one and watch how any Libra will feel offended and respond defensively......
It's true.



Awww 😢

I feel sorry that you hate your mother and consequently hate ALL Libras, because your perception of them has been skewed by a very bad experience with a very important and forming figure in your life. Children are especially easy to fuck up. I *loathe* my Scorpio father, and have even met several "bad" Scorps in my life.. but I don't hold it against Scorpios in general. Same for my Cap ex-husband. I find PEOPLE to be quite amazing and wonderful, usually. If I hated a whole sign (or any group, really) based on my experiences with a few.. well, I might as well move to the mountains and start shooting my own food, because then I'd hate the entire world and everyone in it.

*pat pat* Plenty of mother haters hate everyone they perceive as even remotely like their mothers in any way, shape or form. So you aren't really all that special. Lots of serial killers have actually been trying to "kill their mother" by killing ones like her. Good luck with your psychosis.

Fortunately, narrow-mindedness and prejudice is not contagious.

...I think I'll go wash my hands now, though. Just in case.
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It isn't a consequence, I do have eyes and ears that see and hear the rest of the world too..
And I don't really hate all Librans it's just that every one I have met so far I hate very much.
It's like steriotypes, they are only true 98% of the time.
I assure you, I am more sane than most.
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Posted by asdfghjkl
My mother is a Libra.
Every Libra I have ever known has been a spoiled A-hole b*tch.
They DO like to argue.
Watch them, you'll see.
Say a single kind word to one and watch how any Libra will feel offended and respond defensively......
It's true.



Awww 😢

I feel sorry that you hate your mother and consequently hate ALL Libras, because your perception of them has been skewed by a very bad experience with a very important and forming figure in your life. Children are especially easy to fuck up. I *loathe* my Scorpio father, and have even met several "bad" Scorps in my life.. but I don't hold it against Scorpios in general. Same for my Cap ex-husband. I find PEOPLE to be quite amazing and wonderful, usually. If I hated a whole sign (or any group, really) based on my experiences with a few.. well, I might as well move to the mountains and start shooting my own food, because then I'd hate the entire world and everyone in it.

*pat pat* Plenty of mother haters hate everyone they perceive as even remotely like their mothers in any way, shape or form. So you aren't really all that special. Lots of serial killers have actually been trying to "kill their mother" by killing ones like her. Good luck with your psychosis.

Fortunately, narrow-mindedness and prejudice is not contagious.

...I think I'll go wash my hands now, though. Just in case.
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It isn't a consequence, I do have eyes and ears that see and hear the rest of the world too..
And I don't really hate all Librans it's just that every one I have met so far I hate very much.
It's like steriotypes, they are only true 98% of the time.
I assure you, I am more sane than most.
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i'm a libra. i've probably got more experience with pisces than any other sign. many friends, many guys i've dated (i wouldn't say relationships, but i'm as weird about that as they were).

i had my heart broken by a pisces. over and over again, because we kept getting back in touch, which was insane. each time, he's had a different story for what, if anything, he felt for me, what happened, etc. at this point, i think he was pretty majorly confused himself. my emotional distance did not help a bit.

i fell for him because he was sooooooooo sweet and seemed soooooooooo into me. and we just seemed to click. he was going through some stuff, i was going through some stuff, i think initially there was just some miscommunication because of that. i freaked out, then he freaked out worse. what ended up happening was that i became a total basketcase, and people i thought were my friends kept insisting that i only wanted him because i couldn't have him, that i must like being treated like shit, etc. but it wasn't true. i liked him despite it, because i thought things could be nice again. the whole time, it was the good parts i lived for. i hated the bad parts. i actually ended up dropping every single one of those "friends", because if they were really my friends they would have known me better. i hate a challenge. but i was just so sure he still liked me.

i've had a pisces friend (birthday 2 days apart from that one) who i know is into me, and i've known. and i keep playing dumb. because i really like being friends with him. and i can't handle all that chaos, at least not now.

on a lot of levels, it seems like it should be able to work great. but we're both afraid of getting trapped. and we speak such different emotional languages.

i'll probably hop on the pisces ride a few more times before i give up completely. the good is so good. i sound like a fucking drug addict. fair comparison.
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i fell for him because he was sooooooooo sweet and seemed soooooooooo into me. and we just seemed to click. he was going through some stuff, i was going through some stuff, i think initially there was just some miscommunication because of that. i freaked out, then he freaked out worse. what ended up happening was that i became a total basketcase, and people i thought were my friends kept insisting that i only wanted him because i couldn't have him, that i must like being treated like shit, etc. but it wasn't true. i liked him despite it, because i thought things could be nice again. the whole time, it was the good parts i lived for. i hated the bad parts. i actually ended up dropping every single one of those "friends", because if they were really my friends they would have known me better. i hate a challenge. but i was just so sure he still liked me.



I can relate to this paragraph.... w/my libra....
my friends don't understand why I want him. they say I could do better.. and with the way things have been lately I know I shouldn't be treated the way I'm treated sometimes but they don't know the good either.. Its the good that I loved.
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Once I had a crush but it was crazy. You give them too much- they take it granted, you give nothing and they are hurt. You show attention and care-they pull away, you don't- they complain. You tell you want them, they are deathly afraid to step forward, Hate that. Their confusion and insecurities kills everything. Anyways I don't know, I didn't like it. We deserve lot more than that
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I have dated one Libra man, and often attract Libra moon people. But I do not feel particularly attracted to them, my weak spot are Tauruses and Aquarians 😉.

However, in ancient Astrology before Neptune was discovered Pisces was co-ruled by Jupiter and Venus. So it would seem maybe this is where the attraction could come from, once being represented by similar planetary energies. If that makes sense..