Aries/Pisces love predicament

I'm a female Aries currently chasing a male Pisces. He and I met thru my work, he's a dental patient of mine. One of the girls I work with made mention of the fact that he and I had some chemistry. He eventually contacted me, and we made plans to hang out. Never did though. In the meantime, I was getting to know the guy I've been with for the past year. We recently broke up, and a week before the break up, Mr. Pisces and I finally hung out. It was purely friendly even though deep down I knew we both wanted to make moves on eachother. The next time Mr. Pisces and I hung out, I mentioned "trouble in paradise" with the Scorpio I just broke up with. Right after that is when Mr. Pisces and I opened up to eachother....through conversation and a super long, sexy make out session. He told me he has no interest in a relationship due to the fact that he's not very settled (job, apartment, etc). He's also "seeing" a girl that he has no clue where they stand, or so he says. Fair enough, I figured. I'm just ending a one year relationship, I probably don't need to be getting involved. So we hang out AGAIN. Same great chemistry and hot make out sessions. I made sure he knew that I wasnt trying to have sex. He truely seemed to appreciate the fact that I wouldnt do that. Like he gets this sweet look on his face when I tell him something good about himself. Or when we talk about how much we liked eachother when we first met....he gets so happy. This last chill session took my feelings for him to a whole other level. He told me he knows that "one day" we'll probably be together. I feel the same way, I know we're so right for eachother.

MY PROBLEM....I want him now! I'm so impatient and want to confess all of my feelings and just be with him asap. He's seriously my sanctuary, and never have I felt more "me" and proud of it than when I'm with him. And I know he feels the same, i can see it. These are the kinds of things I want to tell him, but that could scare him away. Or does he want to hear that? Does such a tender and sensitive lover such as himself WANT to hear these things? Or should I just calm my hormones and wait? AHHH help me you wonderful Pisceans

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Unfortunately, no one here can tell you if he wants to hear those things...we can only guess.

I will say from my experience, that when a man comes on strong like that with me, I am out the door. I enjoy for things to develop over time in a very natural way. I had a Pisces man profess his feelings for me very quickly...spooky. Good for him for sharing but really, how does he KNOW that quick? I have heard that those who jump into a relationship fast also end it fast.....

Calm down, learn patience and enjoy the ride 😉

This sounds like a wonderful way to begin a relationship or at worst friendship -
But for starters you should start thinking about the fact you have just broken up - after a break up its always good to get some time out to 'remember yourself' going head first into another one may cause propbelms for the both of you later on do you think? Its good to evalute the things that you may have contributed to the ending of you last relationship - ie if you had personality clashes - what were they? What positive things did you have in your last relationship that you would like to bring into any new relationship & what negative things do you want to change or leave behind? If you carry these things into your next relationship without knowing it then later on it will pop up to cause trouble.
This Pisces dude sounds like he is getting to know you which means he is not an arsehole just trying to get into your pants - thats so refreshing! Piscean guys make wonderful lovers, caring fathers & awesome friends if you go about it the right way 🙂

God luck 🙂

Thanks everyone for the advice. I need to hear what others have to say to help with being too impulsive. I wanna blurt out all of my feelings to him but I suppose its definitly smarter to just give myself some time to realize who I am. The only thing is that while i was with the boyfriend, I was doing all of that soul searching. I learned more about myself by being with the wrong guy. I feel as if I'm ready to be with someone who actually appreciates and makes me happy.

And yes Solitas, its definitly weird that I'm dating a patient. I would normally NEVER do that, but we were set up by my co-workers. Turns out it was the best thing that they've done for me. God knows I would have never met him anywhere else due to our different outside interests. When it comes to matters of the heart and mind though, we're totally on the same page. Plus he was a good patient, never bitched and moaned like most men do in the chair. Never dropped a corny pick up line like the others either. It was obvious to the rest of the staff that we should be together! haha.

He wants to hear it. The thing is that Aries is the one to initiate things and Pisces LOVES that. I'm seeing an Aries right now too and she's amazing but I give her plenty of space and allow her to initiate EVERYTHING. However, keep in mind that for BOTH of you, this little mystery is a sense of magic. Even though the Aries is impatient, appreciate the excitement of this energy. Keep dating!