Aries & Pisces

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Sorry - Aries (woman) & Pisces (man)

I am confused one minute he is going at full speed then all of a sudden he comes out with things are moving too fast and he feels like hes in a relationship. Well duh! He the one trying to get to know each other in a months time and now he's smothered and doesnt know what he wants. Then he tells me he doesnt want it anymore but is still calling me and returning my calls to him. I really like him but he is driving me crazy! I dont understand the situation and I feel like I am putting my heart out there to get broken. This is hard for me because I feel as an Aries I am very straight to the point on how I feel. I dont play games and he is. Is it in the nature of a Pisces to play games?
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These two signs are so radically different despite being next door neighbors. What's interesting to see is a pperson with heavy doses of both. My BIL is Aries Sun/Venus with Pisces Mars/Mercury.On one hand he is active, kind and generous.On the other hand he has a hard tiome with conflict but then blows up. Sexually, I understand he is a house on fire but with edges that need to be softened (his spouse has a cancer moon/gem sun). I think Pisces are intrigued by Aries passion, fire and action but get really burnt out by them and sometimes burned..... Pisces can douse the flames but not put them out and if they do, both the Pisces and Aries may live to regret it...
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ARIES & PISCES.. In general...
Sensual Pisces is drawn to Aries's dynamic passions, and Pisces's desire to shower affection on a lover will flatter Aries. Pisces's imagination, and mysterious allure bring out a new sensitivity and romanticism in this aggressive lover. Aries will handle decisions and fight battles for Pisces, which is just what Pisces is looking for. Headstrong Aries will dominate, but that doesn't necessarily displease Pisces who likes to have someone to lean on. However Pisces can be the real protector, giving Aries a relaxing type of refuge, and a truly deep, intuitive understanding more than any other sign. What may trouble Pisces more is Aries's tendency to criticize. Tact and compromise is needed to cement this otherwise sexy partnership. You truly can fulfill one another's needs.

As well, you both can learn alot from one another ...*Pisces can teach Aries compassion, sensitivity and empathy; listening to another's feelings, and Aries can teach Pisces how to make real dreams come true, rather than only fantasizing about them.

...however, like others have posted; Sun to Sun compatibiliy is only the very tip of the iceburg between any two people, and should NEVER be used as the only guiding factor in a relationship. Your other inner planets, -Moon, Venus, Mars, & ascendant are all very important as well. Never forget Lucky Jupiter either. Even then, it's still extremely rare to have two perfectly compatible charts...i mean if you are TOO much alike, or have too many trines or sextiles together, then that can be quite boring as well.
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" I dont play games and he is. Is it in the nature of a Pisces to play games?"

most definitely!! sometimes they mean to! sometimes they are just being! which is a big puzzle even to themselves!
so yeah get the hell out of there because he is gonna rip your heart out!
if you want him to stop playing games then dont allow him he cant play if he has noone to play with!
you have to be understanding which could be bit draining -draw you boundaries and dont let him cross it is the only way you could get any happiness with this man if he cant do it now then he will never! better to say goodbye and if he figures out what he wants he will be back!
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passion fruit
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how much teasing is not too much?
teasing is ok as long as you know when to stop! and what not to tease about! if you are teasing involves sensitive issues like someone's feelings would that not be playing games?

well the pisces man i knew used to tease just to get a reaction - as sson as he gets a reaction he would then back off -get scared, start doubting himself or whatever the reason was- and would make a cheap escape by saying that was all my interpretation! leaving me all confused!

I say if you are not going to back it up by your actions and if you dont know how 'healthy teasing' is done dont tease because it could be doing someones head in!
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I tease people as much as I want:

BECAUSE!

I always make them sure that it's TEASING, not anything special. I can understand their correct reaction from their face. If there is anything wrong I say it's teasing, if they do not understand it, I stop teasing. Therefore there is no limit.

" if you are teasing involves sensitive issues like someone's feelings would that not be playing games?"

If a person takes my teasing as rubbing them wrongly, I just stop. There are people who feel comfortable with teasing even on topics that could be very sensitive for others. There is no point in generalisation.

"well the pisces man i knew used to tease just to get a reaction - as sson as he gets a reaction he would then back off -get scared, start doubting himself or whatever the reason was- and would make a cheap escape by saying that was all my interpretation! leaving me all confused!"

Well that's not me. I do not tease people to get their genuine reaction. This sort of behaviour is nothing more than emotional blackmail on which I definetly not trying to master. However, one genuine reaction that I expect from people...is FUN.
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Freebird

spot on! that is why he in the history!

haffo

"Well that's not me. I do not tease people to get their genuine reaction. This sort of behaviour is nothing more than emotional blackmail on which I definetly not trying to master."

what i am saying is some men (happens to be pisces sometimes with their sweet, gentle nature) do tease without realising that it may become potential mind games! i guess it all depends on the lvel of maturity and morals too
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Characters that remind me of the Aries-Pisces bond are Scarlett O Hara(obviously the aries here) and Melanie Wilkes of Gone With The Wind. Scarlett's character comes on strong but its Melanie's passive , gentle and all pleasing nature thats wins out in the end, when Scarlett realises at her(melanie's) death that Melanie was her supoort, her pillar of strength durating her privations in her own quiet way. Mellanie is never more Pisces as when she declares even in her dying moment what she has upheld all her life that it was only Scarlett she owed everything to. And Scarlett is so Aries like, like her few Aries realise or appreciate what wonderful friends Pisces are to them.

And Rhett Butler (im already week in my knees just thinking about him🙂) was certainly a Scorpio Man, there are no two ways about that.
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Actually, come to think of it, *Wuthering Heights* reminds me of the Pisces/Aries bond. Seen it many times. In the orignal b&w (1939) version, the actress Merle Oberon was a Pisces. Actor Sir Laurence OLIVIER, although born a Taurus, did have his all important Venus in Aries, and showed many of the qualities of Aries..

'In the movie, the long-suppressed passionate feelings that they had for each other continued to torment them as haunted, star-crossed lovers.' She was the epitome of all that was feminine and beautiful, she could truly speak with only her eyes, and he was all that was male; the brave strong-willed, romantic Knight who could never in the end deny what was always in his heart, even to the very bitter end. Heathcliff was an untamed spirit, and fought for Cathy like an Aries would..'

This truly can be a match made in heaven. Both have so much to give one another. Even astrologers have called it the 'The Knight & The Princess' pairing. Both giving freely what the other needs and longs for; both giving of their own special strengths to the other...'both passions running very deep; both truly kindred souls.' -so basically when you know what you want it, and you know it's for real, then who can ever argue...