Baby Daddy Drama

But he's confusing the child and if he's putting down her husband the son's step-dad then that can cause problems because her son may never fully respect or love her husband.

Idk about mixing in astrology into this one sounds like a bitter narcissistic man

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Idk about mixing in astrology into this one sounds like a bitter narcissistic man

Wow, this sounds exactly like him. Didn't think of Narcissism before but it matches his personality completely.

Posted by Koniuchaa
Well maybe Pisces men do hold on to stuff longer, but that doesn't really matter in this case. It's no excuse to behave that way. I mean, you aren't going to say 'well he is a Pisces so it's cool'

Have you discussed this with him? I would be talk to him and be very firm that this is unacceptable.

Talking to him is like talking to an out of control angry man. Anything constructive I try to tell him he returns back with anger and insults. I have even pushed counseling but he refuses to go.

If your son likes your husband then there's probably not much to worry about. Your son is older so not as gullible at that point. He can form his own opinions. His father constantly talking shit on someone he likes likely won't end in favor for your ex. You can't legally keep him from seeing his kid unless the court says otherwise. The situation sucks, but it's not the worst. Just move on with your life and let your ex act like a child. Set a better example for your kid.

Besides, in a few years your kid will be old enough to decide who he wants to stay with and where he wants to go. He'll probably be out and about with friends more often, too. Things will probably calm down more during that time, so just keep holding out.

Posted by Scenic
If your son likes your husband then there's probably not much to worry about. Your son is older so not as gullible at that point. He can form his own opinions. His father constantly talking shit on someone he likes likely won't end in favor for your ex. You can't legally keep him from seeing his kid unless the court says otherwise. The situation sucks, but it's not the worst. Just move on with your life and let your ex act like a child. Set a better example for your kid.

Besides, in a few years your kid will be old enough to decide who he wants to stay with and where he wants to go. He'll probably be out and about with friends more often, too. Things will probably calm down more during that time, so just keep holding out.

duly noted 🙂

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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
I don't feel like you're very objective in the op.

What I'm saying is, is that your OP said nothing about how he treats your son or what his parental skills are like.. Which should be the main priority in your relationship with your Pisces ex. I find that sketchy to say the least.

It was mostly based on how the ex perceives you and that he doesn't like your husband. Why do you care that he doesn't like your husband? What does it matter? And if he's being a pos, set boundaries, minimise contact and drop your child off at your ex's family when it's time for him to have your son.

You're not a hopeless damsel, take control of your life.

Since the OP is hidden from what little I read and everyone's reaction, I can only agree with this statement. I wouldn't hold this as a Pisces man thing. Maybe an individual one. Also, knowing a couple of Pisces men who are father's, and having had seen how people act with their children after divorce, I can only see this as a one sided view point. Yes, Pisces men are narcissistic, and they can be extremely mean about their exes blaming them for everything, but if he's a good father and he takes care of his kid, then you need to learn how to compromise. Maybe(and this might be a long shot but u never know) maybe you guys should discuss counseling with you, him and your husband that is geared towards how to maintain a relationship for the sake of your son. Don't make it about you and him cause that's not going to work, but say something like I want to discuss how we can compromise with the raising of our son. Go out for dinner just the 3 of you and see if you can't talk it out with out pointing fingers.

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There's not much point discussing any of this anymore since the op is hidden now, but I'd like to say that that's maybe not the best idea.

In the OP, the pisces was portrayed to have been emotionally immature for a while. Talking shit on the husband to the son and degrading OP for being a single mother (which she has been remarried for 4 years now, meaning pisces hasn't changed his ways for a while). The father would not take counseling seriously and any compromises would likely not be committed to on his end. Although, we only know what OP has chosen to share. It's definitely not a pisces thing, it just sounds like OP had a kid with someone who never quite grew up, himself.

@SomeSortOfMermaid, incorrect. She stated in OP that the Pisces tells the son that he does not like the Taurus. I don't believe that she ever stated that it was specifically to get the kid to hate the Taurus too, but I would image that that's the case.

I'm 100% sure that this was in OP. If you look at my first response, it is heavily aimed towards that comment.

Also check out Harley's response. It also touches on that part of the OP.