falling for a Pisces guy

I'm falling for this Pisces sun, Pisces moon, Aries Mercury, Aqua Venus and Mars guy.
he's artistic, sarcastic, interesting, and he listens and makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the room when he talks to me. he tries to act like he's not emotional or caring but I think it's just a front.

I'm a cap sun, Aries moon, sag Mercury, Aqua Venus, cancer Mars, libra rising, and cancer midheaven. I normally hate affection and emotions but he brings it out of me, he offers this kind of security I guess because I feel like he genuinely likes the real me, and not just want I look like or what I have to offer.

anyone have any advice?

Pisces male or female like to see the real person, he obviously feels you are genuine and a nice lady, your basic chart info looks ok to me, though I'm not an expert on the more complicated aspects of deeper chart Compatibility, I hope it all goes ok for you, how long have you been seeing each other ?

You hate emotions, but you want to date a merman? You sure about that?

We are all emotions all the time. We soak up other people's emotions like a sponge. Emotions hits us in waves... those waves can be fast or slow.

You hate affection? Dude, we can be wrapped up in our lover's arms forever and not have an issue with that.

"he's artistic, sarcastic, interesting, and he listens and makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the room when he talks to me" This is a Pisces period.

"he offers this kind of security I guess because I feel like he genuinely likes the real me" How long have you known each other? He may have a sense of how you are, but the way you make it seem... he brings out stuff you don't like. I'm thinking, if things continue...how he normally acts (emotionally and affectionate) this will bother the hell out of you in time... especially when all the warm and fuzzies go away. You will go back to how you normally are.

"not just want I look like" This is Pisces. Don't get me wrong...we see everything, not just the outerself.

"or what I have to offer" Eh.... I don't know about this. Now Pisces are drawn to broken people... Not saying that you are broken, but lets face it we are. We do look at that in time. Perhaps once he breaks out of the "rose-colored phase" and takes a close look at you. You may start to see some changes. He could very well break away and think about things.

I can't explain how many times, I looked at a guy I liked and talk to for months and then it hits me... I'm looking at him for who he is. All his flaws are glaring. It's like you woke up from a fog. Then you start to see, actually SEE, who/what that person is.

You want advice... battle down the hatches. Pisces, in general, will disappear at some point of time without warning. You may or may not see it coming. But we do this.

So, yeah.

Good luck with everything. If this is very new... try to be a "cautious" I guess this is the Taurus coming out of me. Things can get hot and heavy very quickly and we can run cold, just as quick.

Posted by chhhachhhing

I normally hate affection and emotions

It's typical for the modern human to embrace their hatred.

You could have made a thread to talk about how much you really like this guy, and you could have mentioned the positive attributes ... but, you didn't.

Instead ... you came to talk about hate.

Eh... but you probably would bash her for the reasons why she likes the guy or that she is clingy or something like that.

I once heard the Capricorn/Pisces relationship being described as "water filling the cracks of the parched desert ground".

In simpler human terms, any relationship takes two. You both have to make the effort. Sometimes we focus too much on the astrology side of things that we forget we're all human beings.

If the whole "I hate emotions and affection" really is you, then you need to rethink your strategy if you want him in your life as a partner. I speak from experience here. I'm the youngest of 4 siblings and the only boy. My oldest sister is a Capricorn and my nickname for her is "ice queen". I do not recall a single affectionate or loving gesture from her to me, ever.

When things were good, we got along fine. I could always make her laugh for the most part, and whenever she needed personal help, I was always there. That's just how I am. But when I was the one who needed help, she was invisible. Now granted, I'm not normally one to ask for help because I don't like to burden people, but she knew when I was struggling.

Her ice-queen persona, however, always shone through during those times, to the point where I don't want to see her again. I haven't seen her in 18 months and I don't think I'll see her again for longer than that.

Point is, if he really matters to you, you need to get over the whole ice-queen thing and reciprocate. He's not gonna bite you, it's not going to physically hurt. Cuddling is good and feels good. Don't leave all the effort to him, because he's human and he has his limits.

Don't worry...just enjoy.

I am Pisces Sun/Moon, Pisces Merc/Venus, Cap Mars

Like him for him...allow him to like you for you...I think honest is key going forward...for both of you...take things as they come naturally...listen to each other...talk to each other.

You two could bring out the best in each other...you sound scared but also excited about coming out of your shell so to speak...talking and dealing with emotions... ...it takes strength to put yourself out there...to show vulnerability (vs. neediness)... ...it takes strength to be there for someone too...

He'll probably have less of a guard up in terms of showing his emotions the more comfortable he becomes with you...as will you.

Try not to worry about him swimming away... ....Pisces get married... ...Pisces are loyal too... ...not all Pisces...not all signs are loyal...

...if he's a good man...he'll be loyal to you...if things are right...he won't swim away.

Good luck

@picis_hominis yeah it's more of an exciting nervous feeling of me becoming vulnerable!

thank you all for the advice, we've been dating for a month and it's just moving really fast and I'm learning to be more sensitive and less logical when making decisions about us.

Not always, you may know and kudos for you, but not everyone is like that. I'm not trying to be rude at all.

Women, and well men too, can read way too much between the lines or interpret things that just isn't there. This is why we have so many love related threads. Nothing wrong with them, but yeah. Not everything is black and white for everyone.

I have great intution, but even I am blind sighted by reading too much into things.

You may start to see some changes. He could very well break away and think about things.

for months and then it hits me... I'm looking at him for who he is. All his flaws are glaring. It's like you woke up from a fog. Then you start to see, actually SEE, who/what that person is.

You want advice... battle down the hatches. Pisces, in general, will disappear at some point of time without warning. You may or may not see it coming. But we do this.

So, yeah.

Good luck with everything. If this is very new... try to be a "cautious" I guess this is the Taurus coming out of me. Things can get hot and heavy very quickly and we can run cold, just as quick.

Yep, that's a TYPICAL Piscean for ya! I looked back at my ex bf (Saggy) and I saw him in the silhouette of my LG big screen while doggy style and he was FAT! I was disgusted at myself. He was 48 years old, living in an 1980s trailer with his ex-gf (yes! ex gf), his mother co-signed for his car, a veteran that didn't take care of his health, and when he chastised my 9 yr old son I finally SNAPPED! What the treetrunk am I doing still associating myself with this man?! Well, I swam away! I use to date tall/big men. Not anymore! I'm going to bring my standards high now! I'm not conceited, but damn! it's time that I DON'T SETTLE FOR 2ND BEST!

🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

Posted by tbird
Eh... but you probably would bash her for the reasons why she likes the guy or that she is clingy or something like that.

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Posted by tbird
Eh... but you probably would bash her for the reasons why she likes the guy or that she is clingy or something like that.

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