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One I would say is more passive aggressive because she does speak with sassiness but she used people over all to set the tone of the duty work. She loves to instigate she feel more powerful with a click people and someone to puppet even people more then half her age (younger she is like 60). My other supervisor is more snotty aggressive she acts like she caring but always have snappy things to say as if it no problem. Her management style is connected more to her attitude then a professional concept. She is a perfectionist and think that managing you is turning you into her. Plus she is a heavy micro-manager. To me they both are power abuser.
I am looking for a new job the first one is a PT job so by the end of the year I will be done with that one but trying to get my agenda to stay until the end of the year but she is getting real petty. The second example is a f/t job and I am looking and have been looking but it takes time. The are both toxic environment to me but sometimes you have to endure for a moment. I really would like to start my own business I have so many ideas plus I make Jewelry. I am going to begin soon with getting my tax ID and trying to patient my name so see where I can do from their.
Posted by PV&JellayThank you I am doing that now everyone thinks that I should take the drama route but I am smart enough to know if I can not change a situation through adult conversation then I tend leave it alone because in my mind everything that get exposed is just ammunition for the azwhole in waiting. People like this loves to make create a negative environments. I know that I am trying to learn how to address situations like this but it takes time to find the best method when dealing with nasty people.
I also had a bitch Libra boss. I confronted her about her behavior and she backed way off. I eventually got moved under someone else as the position she was supervising got taken from her. I had an evil Leo boss, who couod not be reasoned with. She had that fixed sign blind spot, you know resistent to dissenting opinions and believes she knows everything. I applied for a promotion in a different department and that allowed me to get away from her. She was a bitch right up until the day I left to go to my new position even though I gave 3 weeks notice and finished up 95% of my work. Good riddance!
The best way to beat a nasty boss is to remain professional and continue to do your job well. Others will notice you good work ethic and professionalism. Trust me if your boss is an asshole , others in your company already know that. Wait tyem out and apply for other positions. Don't let them crack you.
Maybe you're a bad employee.
Here's the reality ... they are the boss, which means how they proceed is right according to their supervisors. They were made the boss, not you.
So, their right, and you're wrong. If you can't handle that, then by the typical Pisces and run away, whining .. maybe even make a thread on a forum to try and convey that you're a victim of circumstance.
If for reals, they were bad .. then they wouldn't have been promoted to their positions. So, really, this thread just amounts to you having your panties wadded up your ass, and coming here to whine about it.
P-Angel I here your advice but don't act like you really know Sh!t. I guess you came here to give your poisonous advice this is a forum where discuss are head. I can see you don't know much there are a lot of bad people in good position but whatever you have been heard and disregarded all at once.
I don't feel bad and I am not whining I see people going though this all around me two people have come to my office twice within a week to put in transfer paperwork to new offices because they feel like their under a toxic supervisor or boss. My friend just got a new job thank GOD but she was in the same situation for like 6 years. It so easy to call people names and downgrade their experiences.
I have had the worse time with other fellow water sign owners /bosses. Scorpio is the worse cunning and they try to take advantage. The last Scorpio boss would talk behind my back about how much money he was loosing when I was sick. He than accused us of stealing "his" patients. He was paying us way under what our value was. I guess I beat him at his own game because I did take one of his largest contracts. He was getting ready to loose them because of poor management anyway. If you want to keep your contracts you got to take care of them. Not my fault. Scorpio had me duped I drank the kool-aid for a couple of years than one day found out how much he was getting paid for my work and how much he was paying us. Me and the other therapist quit on him. He since has fired other therapist and people see through him. I believe he has questionable billing practices on the verge of insurance fraud.
I worked alongside with another project manager at an integrative pharmacy who was a cancer. We did fine until our director quit which left her in charge as a senior project manager. I end up quitting because she went on a power-hungry bitch trip. It really sucked because I really liked that job. Everyone hated her. I think I intimidated her because I was bringing fresh ideas to the organization for training our stores that saved the company money. I honestly had no interest in a manager job. I just wanted to be left alone to work on my projects.
Fellow water bosses...
No thank you.
I worked alongside with another project manager at an integrative pharmacy who was a cancer. We did fine until our director quit which left her in charge as a senior project manager. I end up quitting because she went on a power-hungry bitch trip. It really sucked because I really liked that job. Everyone hated her. I think I intimidated her because I was bringing fresh ideas to the organization for training our stores that saved the company money. I honestly had no interest in a manager job. I just wanted to be left alone to work on my projects.
Fellow water bosses...
No thank you.
Posted by Resurrected
It so easy to call people names and downgrade their experiences.
Yes, and you proved that. You made a whole thread to downgrade, and call your superiors names.
Oh, let me guess .... you want the right to call your supervisors names and downgrade them and their experiences .... but, because you think you're entitled, then nobody else has that right.
what a fool
If you're going to call out your supervisors on a forum, merely because you can't handle being a peon at work ... then you're a bad attitude employee and probably need to be dismissed.
Posted by ResurrectedI don't tolerate treated badly in work environments. If you are seeing a mass exit. It is with good reason. The boss has issues. Some bosses are toxic power hungry MOFO. Beat them at their own game.
I don't feel bad and I am not whining I see people going though this all around me two people have come to my office twice within a week to put in transfer paperwork to new offices because they feel like their under a toxic supervisor or boss. My friend just got a new job thank GOD but she was in the same situation for like 6 years. It so easy to call people names and downgrade their experiences.
I have always been a firm believer you have two choices in life change the situation or accept this is the way it is. For me I walk away.
1. there's the boss, who was promoted into that position because they deserved it.
2. there's you, who is a peon and has probably been there a small fraction of time in comparison, and know very little about the business in comparison
but, you're a better employee than the boss .... gotcha
Posted by P-AngelP-Angel why do you always play the Devils advocate on every possible thread? I am just curious? I noticed this about you.Posted by Resurrected
It so easy to call people names and downgrade their experiences.
Yes, and you proved that. You made a whole thread to downgrade, and call your superiors names.
Oh, let me guess .... you want the right to call your supervisors names and downgrade them and their experiences .... but, because you think you're entitled, then nobody else has that right.
what a fool
If you're going to call out your supervisors on a forum, merely because you can't handle being a peon at work ... then you're a bad attitude employee and probably need to be dismissed.click to expand
If I said I hate chocolate you would tell me I have issues because chocolate is just being chocolate. I need to get help.
Just read that....horrible example because who doesn't like chocolate. lol anyway besides the point. What is your occupation if you don't mind me asking?
Bella-fish
That is me I do better working along but I can work well with others but I find that today bosses manager through their feelings and attitudes and not through a professional concepts and principles. I do not know the signs of either of my bosses just know my goal and agendas. I believe when new doors are about to open for you the smoke gets thick. I am just going to stay professional keeping my emotions in check because this too shall pass.
That is me I do better working along but I can work well with others but I find that today bosses manager through their feelings and attitudes and not through a professional concepts and principles. I do not know the signs of either of my bosses just know my goal and agendas. I believe when new doors are about to open for you the smoke gets thick. I am just going to stay professional keeping my emotions in check because this too shall pass.
P-Angel just talking to you becomes a waste of energy because you not very pleasant and act like a power abusing supervisor and at 56 years of age you seem very childish and very critical over others. It's like you can't wait to come and in and to try to bait someone into a discussion only to give negative response and to feel that you are above others. It's your life do you but I will no longer response to the BS have a good day.
By the way I do look at myself in the situation as well but if most if the people in the office feel that same way about her mannerism then I am not so wrong.
By the way I do look at myself in the situation as well but if most if the people in the office feel that same way about her mannerism then I am not so wrong.
Posted by AjnaRePosted by ResurrectedThere was one that as soon as I entered the store I could literally feel her energy.
Can some of my fellow Pisces tell me how they dealt with bad bosses, evil spirit bosses, petty contagious bosses?
You know the kind of bosses who don't like you because they can't control you and because you don't let them pulled you into their web of games?
Although she was a small woman, her aura was massive and it engulfed the entire building.
She was very demanding and very loud as soon as I walked through the door meeting her for the first time.
I felt nervous. *this was at a pizza restaurant by the way
To me I feel it's kind of rude to have your aura out like this;
she used her energy, her anger, her intimidating personality to control the employees by fear.
1. First, I did things that made me seem less* like an enemy or an objective* to her and more like a human or a friend.
I would just slide simple questions about her when we were working together.
The more I talked to her, the less she tried to intimidate me.
2. Secondly, I looked at the bigger picture.
In my opinion, I would say most Pisces in general (especially those heavily influenced by it) have to work on the
solar plexus chakra. I'm no different. Right away I knew that this situation was definitely taking place to teach me to be more confident and stick up for my self and actions. By standing differently, more confidently and questioning her odd demands to her face helped this.
3. And last, I did things that helped calm my nerves. Her energy was very different than anything I have ever felt before.
I wasn't scared of her but my body* was reacting accordingly. I would just shake sometimes.
I expressed what I was going through by writing or drawing. I also visualized all her energy (that appeared red to me) that was near me being sliced up and brought right back to her. Every time I felt influenced by her energy, I would do this visualization and it helped. Afterword, I saw my self in a protective white light. Singing to my self helped and also meditation prior to going in.
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AjnaRe
So my comment didn't post thanks that was so very good and positive advice about trying to change the situation and negative energy around for good.
So my comment didn't post thanks that was so very good and positive advice about trying to change the situation and negative energy around for good.
the hell?
Posted by bella_fishThis analogy of yours, isn't even remotely close to what I implied. Let me explain, then. I didn't realize that people couldn't put that simple together.
If I said I hate chocolate you would tell me I have issues because chocolate is just being chocolate
Posted by ResurrectedWhen Resurrected said the above, it was a comment referring to me, since it was included in her response to me.
It so easy to call people names and downgrade their experiences.
So, the comment is her scolding me for downgrading her experiences.
Yet, this whole thread is her calling out her boss and downgrading them in their jobs and their experiences that led them to their jobs,
Posted by P-AngelSo, my response to her was addressing that she's a hypocrite, without using the word, "hypocrite", rather paint the picture of it.
You made a whole thread to downgrade, and call your superiors names
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What the fuck does chocolate really being chocolate have to do with pointing out a person is a hypocrite?
Posted by bella_fishSo, after you re-read your analogy, you realized that it was a horrible example because of people's regard for chocolate, and not because it didn't make sense?
Just read that....horrible example because who doesn't like chocolate.
Posted by bella_fishAddressing the second sentence above, "I need to get help" .... I find it very bizarre that you would say that you notice things I say, and then say something that I never tell anyone. I tell people to check themselves, and never to seek outside help.
If I said I hate chocolate you would tell me I have issues because chocolate is just being chocolate. I need to get help.
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I don't tell anyone to go find help. And if I have, it's been so rare that a person would have to hunt and peck to find an instance where I said that, or even imply it.
I'm an advocate of self accountability, which is in everything I tell people. Yet, you say that you observe me telling people to go get help.
How strange you are ... it's like people in here just float around, drifting in and out, no real awareness.
Anyone ever notice how Pisces always talk about bad bosses, or bad parents, or bad teachers .... if you venture around to the other signs, you won't find one where all of the residents with the same irrational belief.
Several other signs, like Scorpio, for example .... talk very highly of their superiors, as the Scorps moves quickly up the ladder.
Pisces grovel at the bottom, believing all of their superiors are aweful and talk about it, exerting this energy of disgruntlement ... and stay at the bottom, being overlooked or not taken seriously.
It's a common theme for Pisces ... it can be any relation.
^It's because they enforce rebelliousness and see chain of command as power tripping.
People usually get structure and hierarchy.
Also..
People usually get structure and hierarchy.
Also..
88akka
Thanks for the advice and support and I am working on my exit strategy.
P-Angel
Your response sound more like a Pisces issues then you actually have a human response no one thinks that they are perfect but that doesn't make your situation untrue to you.
Damnata
I understand all of that and I also understand when I am around rude and evil spirited people. Never had this problem before but I am experiencing it now and I have had a few positive managers who too took their sections to new heights creating good moral of their management skills, who encouraged their staff in good ways who respected their workers abilities.
Thanks for the advice and support and I am working on my exit strategy.
P-Angel
Your response sound more like a Pisces issues then you actually have a human response no one thinks that they are perfect but that doesn't make your situation untrue to you.
Damnata
I understand all of that and I also understand when I am around rude and evil spirited people. Never had this problem before but I am experiencing it now and I have had a few positive managers who too took their sections to new heights creating good moral of their management skills, who encouraged their staff in good ways who respected their workers abilities.
PiscesLilly86
I also work in HR as well which I have worked in a few different offices that was managed differently and quite effectively. I am actually responding to the issues the same just staying to myself and doing the work but because I am not giving an emotional, azz kissing, inferior, or telling all of my personal business it like they come after you more. I will continue to focus more or me then the evilness of the situation but real drama queens just want to intensify the drama. I just wanted to see who may be having the same experience as I am right now.
I also work in HR as well which I have worked in a few different offices that was managed differently and quite effectively. I am actually responding to the issues the same just staying to myself and doing the work but because I am not giving an emotional, azz kissing, inferior, or telling all of my personal business it like they come after you more. I will continue to focus more or me then the evilness of the situation but real drama queens just want to intensify the drama. I just wanted to see who may be having the same experience as I am right now.
Posted by PiscesLilly86Added to that is the Pisces belief that they do nothing wrong. They believe that they are a good, solid force ... then in the next breath, say they don't give a shit.
He gets along with no one, but my attitude towards him is totally nonchalant.
I literally don't give a fuck what this man does ....
We always have people coming into dxp to talk about how bad their Pisces can be with this attitude.
So, the reality is .... the Pisces is likely provoking being treated so badly in her workplace. If the superior is an ass to her, then it's probably her attitude.
Posted by PiscesLilly86Posted by P-AngelI would love to see you work one day in my department with a Director that barks at you like a dog for no apparent reason! Smfh Walk a mile in someone else's shoes and then comment!
So, the reality is .... the Pisces is likely provoking being treated so badly in her workplace. If the superior is an ass to her, then it's probably her attitude.
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I was talking about the OP, guess I should have clarified that I wasn't talking about you .... but, nice job at proving my point about getting the attitude that I was identifying that Pisces do, when they think they're nice.
So .... thank you for providing the evidence of my claim.
Posted by 88akkaBelieve me I do I am working at a place that when I was 17 had the intuition that I would never want to work at and here I am 20 years later still having the same conclusion your instincts are never wrong even as a teenager. I research most thing because people don't lie about their experiences.Posted by ResurrectedYou are welcome. 🙂
88akka
Thanks for the advice and support and I am working on my exit strategy.
P-Angel
Your response sound more like a Pisces issues then you actually have a human response no one thinks that they are perfect but that doesn't make your situation untrue to you.
Damnata
I understand all of that and I also understand when I am around rude and evil spirited people. Never had this problem before but I am experiencing it now and I have had a few positive managers who too took their sections to new heights creating good moral of their management skills, who encouraged their staff in good ways who respected their workers abilities.
Good luck and make sure you observe and visit the new place of work you are trying to go into, do your research and notice how people interact. Know this - Bad upper management, bad bosses, bad supervisors and bad atmosphere.click to expand
Whoa P-Angel never mind I asked. I am just noticing a trend. I am not going to hunt down and quote all your post. 1) I don't have that kind of free time. 2) I am not that interested.
I just remember another gal on here posted about being cheated on and you did something very similar as you did in this thread and played the Devils advocate. It was almost like you were on the side of the cheater. Same thing here you are making this poster feel like she is a bad employee.
Sometimes people really are victims of bad situations. To me it just seems you have no mercy or sympathy for victims or people who post something in victim mode. That is all I am noticing. I used a horrible analogy I agree.
I guess it takes all types of people to make the world go round. No worries you are just not my cup of tea. I am not a fan of harsh judgemental, self-righteous know it alls. It surprises me you are a pisces.
I just remember another gal on here posted about being cheated on and you did something very similar as you did in this thread and played the Devils advocate. It was almost like you were on the side of the cheater. Same thing here you are making this poster feel like she is a bad employee.
Sometimes people really are victims of bad situations. To me it just seems you have no mercy or sympathy for victims or people who post something in victim mode. That is all I am noticing. I used a horrible analogy I agree.
I guess it takes all types of people to make the world go round. No worries you are just not my cup of tea. I am not a fan of harsh judgemental, self-righteous know it alls. It surprises me you are a pisces.
Okay Dixie I guess I dont look like a pisces because I try to practice kindness? That is a "general trademark" of the sign pisces. Now I do understand we are all mixed of other elements in our chart and makes us all individual.
I am just not a fan of harsh people who tear others apart even if they have made bad life decisions. I don't surround myself with them. There is a sense of toxic negativity I don't want in my life.
Ah well. Have a nice day!
I am just not a fan of harsh people who tear others apart even if they have made bad life decisions. I don't surround myself with them. There is a sense of toxic negativity I don't want in my life.
Ah well. Have a nice day!
I have met a few in my life. A Pisces victim complex?
I think some people cannot handle (rightly) the power they have been given to.
I think some people cannot handle (rightly) the power they have been given to.
Posted by bella_fishBella fish I agree with you not trying to put P-Angel down but she talks to people in a very condescending way. If she wants to have an open opinion she is free to but don't down play someone else experience because you don't understand. None of us were mean or nasty just talking about this subject in general and I don't think that we act like victims or feel weak because that is an emotions that other signs try to put on us but no we are not usually mean by nature.
Whoa P-Angel never mind I asked. I am just noticing a trend. I am not going to hunt down and quote all your post. 1) I don't have that kind of free time. 2) I am not that interested.
I just remember another gal on here posted about being cheated on and you did something very similar as you did in this thread and played the Devils advocate. It was almost like you were on the side of the cheater. Same thing here you are making this poster feel like she is a bad employee.
Sometimes people really are victims of bad situations. To me it just seems you have no mercy or sympathy for victims or people who post something in victim mode. That is all I am noticing. I used a horrible analogy I agree.
I guess it takes all types of people to make the world go round. No worries you are just not my cup of tea. I am not a fan of harsh judgemental, self-righteous know it alls. It surprises me you are a pisces.
Posted by laFilleSo please explain the difference to me from a victim to a person just telling their story and when you answer keep in mind this is a blog and social interaction where we all exchange words for a connection?
I have met a few in my life. A Pisces victim complex?
I think some people cannot handle (rightly) the power they have been given to.
Posted by bella_fish
I am just noticing a trend.
You really said that, didn't you?
Which means you're pretty oblivious, when it's explained to you.
See, it's that kind of stupid that I don't tolerate well
Posted by bella_fishWell good. I'm glad it's coming off the way I intend it.
.... you are making this poster feel like she is a bad employee
I would explain to you why, but, I've come to realize that would be pointless with you.
Posted by dixieYes. Sorry for the misinterpretation. When I said "Pisces victim comlex" I included myself because I think it is very funny that we ALL have this label. I don´t like labels, so I couldn´t help myself just a make a little (misunderstood) innuendo. 🙂Posted by ResurrectedI believe she is answering your OPPosted by laFilleSo please explain the difference to me from a victim to a person just telling their story and when you answer keep in mind this is a blog and social interaction where we all exchange words for a connection?
I have met a few in my life. A Pisces victim complex?
I think some people cannot handle (rightly) the power they have been given to.click to expand
Many, many typos. Like always. Sorry.
Posted by P-AngelMy P-Angel I hope that you don't make no mistake or need mercy because you certainly don't give it which means you definitely don't need it. Since you don't know me pass this post I won't take offense to your comments, I hear your opinion but don't agree with them and hope that you don't just come here Pisces post just to be negative and anal as you seem.Posted by bella_fishWell good. I'm glad it's coming off the way I intend it.
.... you are making this poster feel like she is a bad employee
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Posted by bella_fish
..... I try to practice kindness?
So, let me get this straight ... what you practice on what you think is right, and in how you go about that ... then someone else, like me, for example, must be the same way.
so, who is the self righteous one?
can you guess?
You don't hear me telling you to act like me, do you?
when have you heard me tell another person that they have to go yell at an asshole? 'cause that's what I practice. That's what I do, that's what I think is the right thing to do.
yet, here you are complaining because I'm not adhering to your standards, I'm not allowed to have my own if you don't like it.
That's basically what that means.
You fucking people are strange beings, let me tell you.
Posted by P-AngelWho are you tolerating as if you are not an experience that takes tolerance don't get it twisted.Posted by bella_fish
I am just noticing a trend.
You really said that, didn't you?
Which means you're pretty oblivious, when it's explained to you.
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The reality here is, in which every person who is smart enough and experienced enough knows is .... you're not HR material.
You're catty, and snigger behind your supervisors back, talking about her.
Two people may get along, that is life. But, instead of being a big person and just bowing out quietly as the details of your departure are worked out, you've come here to gripe, and groan and complain about something you have no business complaining about.
If you believe that as a person you should the right to decide that you don't like her ... then as an equal individual to you, she also has that right to not like you.
As this awesome person that you think you are .... it's your duty to her as equal to not run your mouth, based on nothing being done wrong except that you can't get along with her and you don't like her.
You are the very person you accuse her of .... if you talk smack about her behind her back like a juvenile who isn't getting her way.
Again ... you're not HR material. In fact, you are the type of person that HR has to rid the company of because you're like a cancer. Everytime you go to another employee and run your company down by talking smack about it's leaders ..... well, do I need to finish? ... because weren't you saying that it's been 20 years and you're running the same game?
Posted by dixieDixie I will have to disagree with you having friends that tear me apart and who are toxic with negativity are not the best kind of friends to have ....unless I am sadistic than I could agree. The world is harsh enough. We attract what we put out.Posted by bella_fishActually that type of Pisces is the best friend you can have
Okay Dixie I guess I dont look like a pisces because I try to practice kindness? That is a "general trademark" of the sign pisces. Now I do understand we are all mixed of other elements in our chart and makes us all individual.
I am just not a fan of harsh people who tear others apart even if they have made bad life decisions. I don't surround myself with them. There is a sense of toxic negativity I don't want in my life.
Ah well. Have a nice day!
But I digress, you have a good day girlie 😉click to expand
Let's just agree to disagree on this subject alright.
P-Angel - Why is it okay for you to respond with demeaning remarks to post but when someone questions you or disagrees with you we are idiots?
My response toward you is that you are a bit harsh and it is not my cup of tea... that is all. Like you I am just stating my opinion as you did about the whining employee and victim of the cheater. I think I do get why you respond as you do and I just happen to think it is not appropriate on all subjects. I get it you have your little followers who need thier face slapped around with rough advice ....I am just not one of them and feel bad for others when you come on here to tear them apart.
It is nothing personal. I am sure you are not a fan of me and I am okay with that. We can just agree to disagree. Carry on.
My response toward you is that you are a bit harsh and it is not my cup of tea... that is all. Like you I am just stating my opinion as you did about the whining employee and victim of the cheater. I think I do get why you respond as you do and I just happen to think it is not appropriate on all subjects. I get it you have your little followers who need thier face slapped around with rough advice ....I am just not one of them and feel bad for others when you come on here to tear them apart.
It is nothing personal. I am sure you are not a fan of me and I am okay with that. We can just agree to disagree. Carry on.
Posted by P-AngelP_Angel and what kind of material are you beyond a catty bish the pot calling the kettle black? This is a blog you know a place where people come for some kind of like mindedness. I posted a question as everyone does and as you see other share the same experience so none of us feel alone is that so who bad your highness since you act like the Queen on the throne of perfect opinions. As you have shown us we all have a voice and can spit out words that seem to shoot out of your mouth like Diarrhea but that doesn't make none of us right. I didn't come on here like my post, comments or opinion was all and mighty I asked a question and yes you gave me an answered as only you can I get it, got it and still don't give a fk. You put a person in the position to only talk to you in a way that you can understand and comprehend I can't image you getting along with your boss or anyone else for that matter because you want to be the OG of the blog and I am sure in any
The reality here is, in which every person who is smart enough and experienced enough knows is .... you're not HR material.
You're catty, and snigger behind your supervisors back, talking about her.
Two people may get along, that is life. But, instead of being a big person and just bowing out quietly as the details of your departure are worked out, you've come here to gripe, and groan and complain about something you have no business complaining about.
If you believe that as a person you should the right to decide that you don't like her ... then as an equal individual to you, she also has that right to not like you.
As this awesome person that you think you are .... it's your duty to her as equal to not run your mouth, based on nothing being done wrong except that you can't get along with her and you don't like her.
You are the very person you accuse her of .... if you talk smack about her behind her back like a juvenile who isn't getting her way.
Again ... you're not HR material. In fact, you are the type of person that HR has to rid the company of because you're like a cancer. Everytime you go to another employee and run your company down by talking smack about it's leaders ..... well, do I need to finish? ... because weren't you saying that it's been 20 years and you're running the same game?
Posted by Resurrected
she used people over all to set the tone of the duty work. people more then half her age (younger she is like 60).
My other supervisor ....... always have snappy things to say as if it no problem. Her management style is connected more to her attitude then a professional concept. She is a perfectionist and think that managing you is .....
Sounds to me like they are both good managers ...
One, sets the tone of the work duty .. which is exactly what a manager is supposed to do. If you were an HR person, you would know that. lol
And then you go further, to use her age as a bashing of her ... as a boss, she is going to have to interact with all ages of people who are in her department, so people being half her age has no bearing on whether she is a good manager or not.
How ridiculous.
The second one .... as a manager, it's her job to not have a problem with snapping at you when you fuck up. She does the job she is hired to do, and you can't handle it. I guess because you think you would be a better boss? lol Sounds like you'd rather whine than be a boss.
A boss of their faculties doesn't run to a forum to whine because they are being managed by their manager. Only a failure who cannot conform to company standards does that.
What you have stated in this thread about these two managers, it sounds like they are proper managers, and aren't taking your mouthy shit, and you don't like that because want to reserve the right for yourself to talk smack about them.
I'm not surprised that you're still unable to stay in a job long enough to actually have a career.
What are you even wasting your time with P-angel, that bxtch is always going to contradict anything because she is like the joker, just creating anarchy for enjoyment. I've been ignoring her for long time, but I've been biting my tongue to long, specially lately... for her/him everybody is wrong and s/he is right...
for me just a fregging old cat lady or fat basement troll...
Anyrays going back to bad bosses is that most of them are in positions because they are con artists, they will lie, use everybody, throw people under the bus to save their head... I've been dealing with a Leo boss that just join the company, and he thought he could micromanage me and misguide me to make mistakes... but I'm a start cookie and this is not my first rodeo, I've work for a company who was a big shark tank... so he is just a little kitten compared to what I've dealt in the pass...
My suggestion never ever do or say something without witnesses, cover your ass-ets, if s/he is the kind of person who is more talk than actions and expecting you to do his/her work on top of yours, make sure you make his superiors know in a subtle way.
This cat wanted to eat fish, but this fish is bigger than him... long story short he was trying to make me change some documents, in a way I knew it were wrong but he try to use "Im your boss and I said so" and I told his boss that I was not following that command because I knew it would lead us to a lawsuit... we were called to a meeting to clear the issue, and the guy tried to use that "I'm the authority here card" and I was like "you are right you have some authority your position grand you" but I get paid to think, and I'm not going to risk my professional reputation by doing something that I know before hand is wrong and get fired for that... if you ask in writing to do such thing that is a another story... I made that bully back off... he is been trying to do thing his way just because he is in a managerial position, I'm just letting him being wrong (as a social service to the world to lower his ego). People learn in two ways by observation and asking questions, or by the hard way learning that things are done certain way because people has gone that route before...
Be aware I was too ballsy because I knew at this moment is highly unlikely they fire me because there is not much people how does what I do and I was also fed up with people that get in those positions and they don't deserve it. not over my hard work!!!
for me just a fregging old cat lady or fat basement troll...
Anyrays going back to bad bosses is that most of them are in positions because they are con artists, they will lie, use everybody, throw people under the bus to save their head... I've been dealing with a Leo boss that just join the company, and he thought he could micromanage me and misguide me to make mistakes... but I'm a start cookie and this is not my first rodeo, I've work for a company who was a big shark tank... so he is just a little kitten compared to what I've dealt in the pass...
My suggestion never ever do or say something without witnesses, cover your ass-ets, if s/he is the kind of person who is more talk than actions and expecting you to do his/her work on top of yours, make sure you make his superiors know in a subtle way.
This cat wanted to eat fish, but this fish is bigger than him... long story short he was trying to make me change some documents, in a way I knew it were wrong but he try to use "Im your boss and I said so" and I told his boss that I was not following that command because I knew it would lead us to a lawsuit... we were called to a meeting to clear the issue, and the guy tried to use that "I'm the authority here card" and I was like "you are right you have some authority your position grand you" but I get paid to think, and I'm not going to risk my professional reputation by doing something that I know before hand is wrong and get fired for that... if you ask in writing to do such thing that is a another story... I made that bully back off... he is been trying to do thing his way just because he is in a managerial position, I'm just letting him being wrong (as a social service to the world to lower his ego). People learn in two ways by observation and asking questions, or by the hard way learning that things are done certain way because people has gone that route before...
Be aware I was too ballsy because I knew at this moment is highly unlikely they fire me because there is not much people how does what I do and I was also fed up with people that get in those positions and they don't deserve it. not over my hard work!!!
Posted by GetMistedThat's nice that you have this experience to think about however, this isn't about you, and what you experienced.Posted by P-AngelI'mma have to disagree with you on this.
Maybe you're a bad employee.
Here's the reality ... they are the boss, which means how they proceed is right according to their supervisors. They were made the boss, not you.
So, their right, and you're wrong. If you can't handle that, then by the typical Pisces and run away, whining .. maybe even make a thread on a forum to try and convey that you're a victim of circumstance.
If for reals, they were bad .. then they wouldn't have been promoted to their positions. So, really, this thread just amounts to you having your panties wadded up your ass, and coming here to whine about it.
I have had supervisors that were promoted above me for the simple fact that they could be controlled and manipulated as a puppet for upper management. Because they could be controlled, they were given leeway on how they managed those below them.click to expand
Your situation has not referenced in this thread so it's not relevant.
What is being referenced is a chic who talks about many jobs, and all of them have a bad bosses. And the description of the bad boss, describes a person in control, and nothing any more nefarious than getting snappy and interacting with people half their age.
That is what this is about .. not you. So, what you experienced plays no part ... so you explained nothing about the problem with this Pisces.
When we are talking about you ... then we'll come back and tag this. Until then, comprehend please.
OMG...have been dealing with a bad boss for two years and finally responded a couple of months to a nasty text message with.
"I will not tolerate this verbal abuse. You are out of line".
He still tried to take me there as he was on travel out of state, so I simply siad, "It's 10pm here. Goodnight". He hasn't said anything to me on the previous level since.
"I will not tolerate this verbal abuse. You are out of line".
He still tried to take me there as he was on travel out of state, so I simply siad, "It's 10pm here. Goodnight". He hasn't said anything to me on the previous level since.
Posted by P-AngelSo not true. The OM where I worked stepped down from the board of directors to take a paid position when the previous OM quit. He's horrible and as a good team, we spend time convincing good new employees to stay. I was told by the board chair to please hang in there. She's trying to replace him without ruining their personal friendship. Now a days bad managers and leaders have good jobs and powerful positions due to social connections. I would say that's about 85% of yhe American workforce leadership. There are varying degrees of leadership in competency, but now a days competent leaders are extremely rare. By the way, I'm an Executive Assistant that makes and breaks careers. Leaders have succeeded with me as their assistant and failed once I left. So, I know that corporate leadership environment. I've been at this for almost 20 years and have excellent recommendations from every employer.
Maybe you're a bad employee.
Here's the reality ... they are the boss, which means how they proceed is right according to their supervisors. They were made the boss, not you.
So, their right, and you're wrong. If you can't handle that, then by the typical Pisces and run away, whining .. maybe even make a thread on a forum to try and convey that you're a victim of circumstance.
If for reals, they were bad .. then they wouldn't have been promoted to their positions. So, really, this thread just amounts to you having your panties wadded up your ass, and coming here to whine about it.
Posted by GetMisted
Actually, she asked about other's experiences and how they dealt with it
Actually, you were addressing me and what I said .. and not responding to her, at all.
Thanks for showing me your ability to act like a dumbass when you know you were wrong.
Posted by MsTeeq1974
The OM where I worked stepped down from the board of directors to take a paid position when the previous OM quit. He's horrible and as a good team, we spend time convincing good new employees to stay. I was told by the board chair to please hang in there. She's trying to replace him without ruining their personal friendship. Now a days bad managers and leaders have good jobs and powerful positions due to social connections. I would say that's about 85% of yhe American workforce leadership. There are varying degrees of leadership in competency, but now a days competent leaders are extremely rare. By the way, I'm an Executive Assistant that makes and breaks careers. Leaders have succeeded with me as their assistant and failed once I left. So, I know that corporate leadership environment. I've been at this for almost 20 years and have excellent recommendations from every employer.
That's nice that you have life experiences ... however, this thread isn't referencing what you have experienced, so what I have said in here doesn't apply to you and your situations.
I spoke to the OP about the OP .. not about you or the Scorpio.
And again, I suppose I will have to say the obvious because people aren't real bright on their own .... you were talking to me when you said that, and not the OP, so you aren't speaking because she asked you for your experiences, you were talking to me attempting to prove something to me.
What the fuck is wrong with people?
Posted by P-AngelYou obviously woke up on the wrong side of life. I'm taking the day off yo relax. My only point in commenting is to let you know that I now have you on my radar. I'm going to let this shit slide today, but don't think for ONE second that I will forget about this little convo interaction. Have a good one...but yeah, we'll interact again. Very soon.Posted by MsTeeq1974
The OM where I worked stepped down from the board of directors to take a paid position when the previous OM quit. He's horrible and as a good team, we spend time convincing good new employees to stay. I was told by the board chair to please hang in there. She's trying to replace him without ruining their personal friendship. Now a days bad managers and leaders have good jobs and powerful positions due to social connections. I would say that's about 85% of yhe American workforce leadership. There are varying degrees of leadership in competency, but now a days competent leaders are extremely rare. By the way, I'm an Executive Assistant that makes and breaks careers. Leaders have succeeded with me as their assistant and failed once I left. So, I know that corporate leadership environment. I've been at this for almost 20 years and have excellent recommendations from every employer.
That's nice that you have life experiences ... however, this thread isn't referencing what you have experienced, so what I have said in here doesn't apply to you and your situations.
I spoke to the OP about the OP .. not about you or the Scorpio.
And again, I suppose I will have to say the obvious because people aren't real bright on their own .... you were talking to me when you said that, and not the OP, so you aren't speaking because she asked you for your experiences, you were talking to me attempting to prove something to me.
What the fuck is wrong with people?click to expand
Posted by ResurrectedDuly noted...56. Thanks for that bit of info. I'm new to these boards.
P-Angel just talking to you becomes a waste of energy because you not very pleasant and act like a power abusing supervisor and at 56 years of age you seem very childish and very critical over others. It's like you can't wait to come and in and to try to bait someone into a discussion only to give negative response and to feel that you are above others. It's your life do you but I will no longer response to the BS have a good day.
By the way I do look at myself in the situation as well but if most if the people in the office feel that same way about her mannerism then I am not so wrong.
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