Capricorn and Pisces - Need Answers/Advice!

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Megiche
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My ex-husband (Taurus, who was my husband at the time) introduced me to his best friend, (Pisces) 2 years ago. There was immediate attraction and I felt this strange energy pull towards him. However, we never acted on anything until after me and my husband separated due to infidelity. So me and Pisces started talking and he confessed his feelings for me quite quickly, told me for 2 years he has always wanted me to be his and that Taurus did not deserve me. Pisces has 4 businesses and so he is busy a lot. We started seeing each other and spending time with each other, but not that much due to him being super busy, and it was only for about 2 months. Our video chats were always an hour or more. We have lots in common. He was very romantic and super affectionate towards me, always complimenting me, and we just understood each other. Each time we were physically intimate, he always maintained eye contact with me the whole time and kept complimenting me and telling me how much he loved me, etc. during it (something I was just not used to at all!) One time we spent 5 hours together, being intimate, talking, holding each other. It was awesome. Best emotional and physical connection I have ever experienced. I believe this man may be my twin flame or at least my soulmate. Well, Taurus had NO IDEA that me and Pisces were seeing each other. We kept it secret because we knew there could be a huge fight between him and Pisces, even though me and Taurus were separated, but Pisces did tell me he could not wait for the secret to come out so then he could beat Taurus' for cheating on me". Well, on June 4th, my ex-husband came to visit his kids and I was not in my bedroom where my phone was charging. He got into it, even though I had a passcode, and that is when he found out about me and Pisces, and read how Pisces asked me to marry him and how much he loved me, etc. Taurus was livid and began hitting me. That is when he called Pisces on my phone and shouted at him "So you are messing around with my wife I see? What gives you the right to do that?" He called him 2x and I was screaming and crying in the background because I was in so much pain from Taurus hitting me. Pisces denied the whole thing and told my ex "Hey man, I do not have time for your BS" and hung up. I contacted Pisces that night with one text "A sad emoji" and the words "I thought you were my protector" (Pisces always told me that he would protect me if Taurus came after me) and "Taurus beat the shit out of me. No one has ever done that to me before." He saw the messages, but never responded. So, I added him on a new FB and he made it so I could not friend request him again. Then, I got the courage to voice message him on WhatsApp. I told him the truth about what happened, that I never told Taurus about me and him, and I also apologized for those text messages about him being my protector, and I confessed my feelings to him (as Pisces always would say "Are you sure about it?" whenever I told him I loved him and so I wanted to make it clear to him). He listened to my voice text and then messaged me hours later saying "The police know everything." So, he went to the police on behalf of me, which I appreciate so much and I guess that shows he cares....? But I have not heard anything else from him since that time and I am really confused why he is ignoring me. Do I reach out to him again? Give him space considering all that has happened? Maybe he is thinking about my voice text of the confession of my feelings for him? I do know that he is in a different area right now with his sister doing some important paperwork for his businesses, so maybe he will contact me when he returns....But I am so confused and would love advice/suggestions.
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Timone
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Your ex is a douchebag. I'm sorry to hear about the abuse. I can understand that he might have felt betrayed by his friend but you don't owe him anything. Especially after him cheating on you he has the audacity to be angry at you. I would have called the cops on him myself. The pisces is weak. Going after your friend's ex and then not being honest about it and then denying it? Wtf.
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It must be that season where Taurus men are shit threads pop up en masse. I try to always warn people about them. Pisces are pretty crappy too. Who would’ve thought it’s never a good idea to date your ex-spouse’s best friend… I know your shit ex-husband cheated but you kinda dug your own grave here too in trusting someone who’d go after their best friend’s ex-wife. Like damn no loyalty on multiple levels.

My advice is to press charges on your ex-husband, get alimony, child support, dry him up financially, and focus on self-healing before you get in another relationship (which should be with someone completely new and not from your past married life).
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I'm so sorry that happened to you and yes Taurus will get violent. Please don't take it that your husband is still in love with you because he probably isn't. My brother who's a Taurus and my Taurus nephew both told me "we don't share pussy no matter how long ago it belonged to us, it's still ours." Basically they're crazy. My brother and his ex wife have been divorced for 16 years and he would never want her back. An old acquaintance of his from college found out he divorced his ex and asked him if it was okay if he contacted her. My brother told him to never ask him about his ex wife again or he would kick his ass. This was after not being with her for over 16 years.

Why didn't YOU call the police on your ex husband?

Forget about the Pisces because he won't mess with you now and I really wonder if he actually informed the police or just told you that to save face. Did the police show up at your house?
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You did nothing wrong other then not letting ex know you have moved on and with whom. You love each other and choose each other then that is all there is to it. This is on your ex and his actions.

I can tell you right now what you said to pieces hurt very very deeply. As a man that would nearly kill me, I wouldn't help but internalize it even though it really isn't my fault. It will take him time to get past that hurt. The fault lays on the situation. State your feelings and give him time.

Yourself time as well. That kind of experience isn't fun.

Work on accepting what happened.
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I hope you are well, Megiche. If you ever come back to this site, please provide an update. Don't take it personally if nobody replied for almost a month...it's because new users are invisible to begin with. Their stories could only be found later on, by a minority who happens to click on the respective forum.

To speculate, best outcome would be if Pisces went to the police as a witness of domestic abuse. Perhaps police told him to stop contacting you for now, since it could put you in danger. Perhaps you even got a retraining order against your wife beating ex, or are about to do so!
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A restraining order is not the measure of protection people think it is. Someone whose already been violent towards you will think nothing of breaking a restraining order. In fact it may trigger them to target you further.

I’m with the Pisces on this one. Breaking ties with you is safest for his well-being and yours. Continuing to fuck his ‘best friends’ wife is risky for his well being and yours. People murder for less. It’s giving very, if I can’t have you no one else will vibes.

To clarify, your husband or ex husband (it wasn’t clear if your separated or divorced) is a pathetic excuse for a human being for his violent assault towards you. Take this seriously. Don’t cry about the Pisces fling, make a plan for your safety.

Move. Get a work transfer to a different location or look for a new job. Change your cell number.

And if you can’t move or are finalizing the divorce, at least change your locks! Have a friend stay with you temporarily. Have some security cameras installed.

And for the love of self preservation please stop fucking your husbands friends. This psycho already feels he’s loosing his ownership over you. Add in betrayal from a friend fucking his wife and you have the makings of a very angry volatile unstable individual who has already been physically violent towards you. This is gonna get worse before it gets better.

Statistically speaking you are the most vulnerable to physical abuse and being murdered during the period of time when you leave the abuser. Your ending the marriage AND getting romantically involved with his friend. 2 for 1.
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Posted by LadyNeptune

A restraining order is not the measure of protection people think it is. Someone whose already been violent towards you will think nothing of breaking a restraining order. In fact it may trigger them to target you further.

I’m with the Pisces on this one. Breaking ties with you is safest for his well-being and yours. Continuing to fuck his ‘best friends’ wife is risky for his well being and yours. People murder for less. It’s giving very, if I can’t have you no one else will vibes.

To clarify, your husband or ex husband (it wasn’t clear if your separated or divorced) is a pathetic excuse for a human being for his violent assault towards you. Take this seriously. Don’t cry about the Pisces fling, make a plan for your safety.

Move. Get a work transfer to a different location or look for a new job. Change your cell number.

And if you can’t move or are finalizing the divorce, at least change your locks! Have a friend stay with you temporarily. Have some security cameras installed.

And for the love of self preservation please stop fucking your husbands friends. This psycho already feels he’s loosing his ownership over you. Add in betrayal from a friend fucking his wife and you have the makings of a very angry volatile unstable individual who has already been physically violent towards you. This is gonna get worse before it gets better.

Statistically speaking you are the most vulnerable to physical abuse and being murdered during the period of time when you leave the abuser. Your ending the marriage AND getting romantically involved with his friend. 2 for 1.


Why do men lose their marbles if the wife fucked his friend? I thought marriage already ended due to infidelity.

Furthermore, fucking your friend’s wife is a popular porn category in more mature age-group. But I guess it’s just a fantasy. In reality, people murder for this stuff.
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Posted by LadyNeptune

A restraining order is not the measure of protection people think it is. Someone whose already been violent towards you will think nothing of breaking a restraining order. In fact it may trigger them to target you further.

I’m with the Pisces on this one. Breaking ties with you is safest for his well-being and yours. Continuing to fuck his ‘best friends’ wife is risky for his well being and yours. People murder for less. It’s giving very, if I can’t have you no one else will vibes.

To clarify, your husband or ex husband (it wasn’t clear if your separated or divorced) is a pathetic excuse for a human being for his violent assault towards you. Take this seriously. Don’t cry about the Pisces fling, make a plan for your safety.

Move. Get a work transfer to a different location or look for a new job. Change your cell number.

And if you can’t move or are finalizing the divorce, at least change your locks! Have a friend stay with you temporarily. Have some security cameras installed.

And for the love of self preservation please stop fucking your husbands friends. This psycho already feels he’s loosing his ownership over you. Add in betrayal from a friend fucking his wife and you have the makings of a very angry volatile unstable individual who has already been physically violent towards you. This is gonna get worse before it gets better.

Statistically speaking you are the most vulnerable to physical abuse and being murdered during the period of time when you leave the abuser. Your ending the marriage AND getting romantically involved with his friend. 2 for 1.

Why do men lose their marbles if the wife fucked his friend? I thought marriage already ended due to infidelity.

Furthermore, fucking your friend’s wife is a popular porn category in more mature age-group. But I guess it’s just a fantasy. In reality, people murder for this stuff.
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Because society conditions men to believe that women are just possessions for their ownership and losing your wife, especially to a best friend, reduces your man hood or whatever. Idk, I don't speak insecure loser.