
depth_scorp
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n intimate with him yet? If not, please read my reply.
Depth, you said:"We haven't had sex yet BUT I think we've been connected intimatly in ways that we don't have to do it."
Then you posted that he said:
"... well because one time we were talking about something and he said ??I don?_t do teasing games ? and that the reason ??I do no go to strip club ??; he claimed that he does not see the point of it, he would not put himself on that state....he would go with his friend just for the sake. Then I said, well teasing is good because it?_s a way of building up?: and he said he does not need that his imagination is enough?"
It sounds to me that he doesn't want to get all worked up if he is not going to be intimate with you. I don't doubt that he wants to get to know you (not just in the "biblical" sense), but if he can't control himself when he is with you -- and you amplify his sexual desire for you by saying certain things meant to turn him on -- then that could be why he stays away. He knows full well what the outcome will be and he doesn't want to continue to make a fool of himself. You, on the other hand, appear to him to be in total control and he is not -- you can see and feel literally that he is "ready" so what defense does he have? On the other hand, he doesn't know what's going on with you because you come on like you want to make love, yet you pull back seemingly without a problem.
To him, you are playing a game and if you keep it up, you will lose his respect. And "respect" covers alot of ground with a Piscean. My advice to you is this: If there will be no sex, then you need to stop hinting that there might be just to get his attention. You have to be interesting on other levels. This man is extremely intelligent and intuitive. If all you talk about is sex, then "sex" is all he thinks you are capable of.
Remember, Depth, he told you this in no uncertain terms:"I do no go to strip club ??; he claimed that he does not see the point of it, he would not put himself on that state".click to expand
"Teasing" to him is just what you are doing if you keep sending him sexual messages and don't deliver when he arrives to pick up the mail. If you want your relationship based on more than him looking at you as if you were a "piece of meat", then stop coming off that way.
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Perhaps that frightened him because suddenly I could feel him distant. He backed off. I wondered if there was an element of embarrassment about the incident even though I took it as a compliment that I turned him on so much.
But still he was v vague with me .I tried to explain that being myself with him involved the usual flirty and touchy feely stuff we were used to and I wasn't sure if that would make him feel uncomfortable. He went out of state for 3 weeks, when he came back he asked me flat out to do it with me. ANOTHER NIGHT he slept at my house NOTHING HAPPEN 😢.he went to sleep, now for a Scorpio girl THAT'S PRETTY CONFUSING: 0(Also I know he still likes me else he wouldn't have commented that he couldn't believe what I do to him physically.
I'm quite impatient and sometimes he would call/text and some day nothing. I am scare to pursue him because I want to give him space. I try to be distant stay very busy with my life so sometime so he could miss me 😢. I don't want to show as desperate. I constantly think about him. I notice lately when I text him about something flirty or sexual he would not reply. And I tend to take that as a rejection. I am beginning to feel as maybe he is not feeling the same anymore. Actually he goes Hot and cold it's pretty confusing. Because when I think about him sometimes I cry because I am thinking I should just stop talking to him but then I go back and forth with my decisions 🙂Now he won't even see me literally he won't come near me. we talked some day on the phone like 5/10min about nothing. I am thinking it just a matter of time b4 we stop talking completly
Any advice? I MAY sound confusing but i am so feeling this man and it's scarry.
I want to win back his interest and affections but would like advice as to the best way to be with a Pisces that gets him keen without scaring him off.
Thanks.