How do you get a Pisces male ....

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by merge on Tuesday, November 6, 2007 and has 7 replies.

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@merge
18 Years

to open up and tell you their secrets? Well we are close friends and he says he like me but there is always something that I feel he not telling me. How do I get him enough comfortable to talk about his past.

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Well....just be you. He will feel comfortable when he feels comfortable. Sometimes I feel that others who want us(any person) to open up and we are not ready to - will back off - we as humans can sense this about another person. There must be no pressure - my thoughts? Forget about him opening up - enjoy your moments with him and let whatever happens happen naturally.

Works everytime 😉

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@Thetis
18 Years1,000+ Posts

It all depends on the secret itself. There are some things I have not and never will tell a soul. It has nothing to do with not trusting that person or not feeling close enough to tell them, it's just that some things are better left unsaid as it were.

Everyone has skeletons in their closet or secrets too private or deeply rooted to tell anyone.

My advice is don't push, he will tell you if and when he's ready. And if he doesn't want to tell you, well then you have to respect that.

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@Thetis
18 Years1,000+ Posts

"There must be no pressure - my thoughts? Forget about him opening up - enjoy your moments with him and let whatever happens happen naturally"

As always Freebird you are spot on. 🙂