Posted by sdfgwer
Ahhh. I see. You only want an online thing. Sorry. Pisces go for the real thing. Move on.
Posted by Stinger Baby
it's hard for scorpios that want to love naturally drama free to play games with the heart. if we love you, we dont want to be cruel to you. it hurts us inside to see you hurt, especially when it's us that did made you that way. we dont want that back and forth. we want someone that is going to mirror our love and return it.
i personally wouldnt want to sit around, having to scheme and plot to be mean to someone, just to get them interested in me and chase me. i wouldnt even want a person attracted to such drama in my life. if i cant be my best self to you and love you in kindness, you're a waste of my time. i dont need ppl around me whom i have to go to war with to get them to act right. go get a person that's going to make you feel like you dont deserve love until you've been hurt inside enough to earn it. i dont like pain mixed with love. it's unnatural to me. hard times are going to come naturally without us having to play games with each other. let her go. you said she doesnt chase you. only once she asked why you didnt call, and even then she acted as if she didnt care. let her go and get a woman with sustenance.
Posted by freddy42
I have tried to ignore her and not answer all her calls or texts and maybe it kind of worked a little but also felt like it was backfiring...she would get mad at me for not answering her and then ignore me herself. I really hate playing these games. Y does it have to be like this?
Posted by Piscescorp
There are also women who want a Mr. Nice guy and appreciate him from the start.
they even like men who show emotions and tell them they love them every single minute. And show a tear or two. LOL
Posted by P-AngelPosted by freddy42
I have tried to ignore her and not answer all her calls or texts and maybe it kind of worked a little but also felt like it was backfiring...she would get mad at me for not answering her and then ignore me herself. I really hate playing these games. Y does it have to be like this? Well contrary to what you believe or know about scorpions not all of us are the same. I can tell you that when I love someone I love with all my heart and I don't give up easily on them. Yes I messed up by ignoring her calls and texts but I was doing it because I was listening to everyone here in this forum telling me I had to be like this and like that when I knew all along I am not that type of guy. Never have been and for that I take responsibility...From now on I am going to be me and if she likes/loves me it's because of me. I am not going to try to be something I am not. Scorpions are very loving and very sensitive and people mistake that for being weak which is furthest from the truth. I am very protective of the person I love and will not let anyone harm them...
You say that she's playing games with you, yet, you are the one doing the gaming.
I know Scorpios well enough to know that this has nothing to do with her, and everything to do with the fact that a Scorpio will not tolerate being broken up with. They will create situations such as you have described, playing the victim, and will stoop very low to get the person back .... just to break up with them.
You are the typical Scorpio not taking responsibility for yourself, and laying all blame on her ... when in reality, you are the one in charge of yourself. For example: you say, "Y does it have to be like this?" .. which means you have rendered yourself completely faultless of your own misery, as if someone is doing something to you, against you to ruin your mood, yet, you are the one who ignored her calls and texts to the point of pissing her off.
::: shakes head :::
I have no pity on a manipulator who is crying because he lostclick to expand
Posted by freddy42
I have tried to ignore her and not answer all her calls or texts and maybe it kind of worked a little but also felt like it was backfiring...she would get mad at me for not answering her and then ignore me herself. I really hate playing these games. Y does it have to be like this?
Posted by ianthepisces
dangling out of p's ass?
give me a break tiki..
i only agree with this bitch about once a year..
you just happened to catch the short end of the stick...
as for contributing something positive to this thread...
heres something..
dump this bitch or quit your bitching and stfu...
Posted by Undine
LOL Tiki, don't lose your cool.
Life is a succession of strategical games and some of us are not even aware they are playing them.
Take the "nice guy" game. This is usually played by insecure men and the target are needy women looking for a provider or a baby daddy. When the right players met each other, there is a win win situation. A boring, dependent and clingy man with a suffocantly amount of love to give, increases the chances to produce similarly complacent brood. Moreover, he is most likely to stick around and provide till the offspring flees the nest.
The problem is, Freddy's woman is past her breeding season and most likely financially independent. She is 44 years old. The "nice guy" game is irrelevant to her and so is most of the advice given to Freddy on this site. What she most likely needs is companionship and entertaining.
Freddy played the companionship game, therefore she was interested initially. Unfortunately, it was not the right type of companionship. Seeing Freddy in his pants, sweating next to her everyday at the gym, WITHOUT any of them becoming aroused, would kill any passion with time. Moreover, feeding animals in the park is something better left to pensioners and those with young children. It doesn't matter is that is what they both like. It's such an emasculating activity.
I am not sure that Freddy played the entertaining game. She's probably bored to death and ended up considering him for the title of Best Female Friend.
Posted by Undine
LOL Tiki, don't lose your cool.
Life is a succession of strategical games and some of us are not even aware they are playing them.
Take the "nice guy" game. This is usually played by insecure men and the target are needy women looking for a provider or a baby daddy. When the right players met each other, there is a win win situation. A boring, dependent and clingy man with a suffocantly amount of love to give, increases the chances to produce similarly complacent brood. Moreover, he is most likely to stick around and provide till the offspring flees the nest.
The problem is, Freddy's woman is past her breeding season and most likely financially independent. She is 44 years old. The "nice guy" game is irrelevant to her and so is most of the advice given to Freddy on this site. What she most likely needs is companionship and entertaining.
Freddy played the companionship game, therefore she was interested initially. Unfortunately, it was not the right type of companionship. Seeing Freddy in his pants, sweating next to her everyday at the gym, WITHOUT any of them becoming aroused, would kill any passion with time. Moreover, feeding animals in the park is something better left to pensioners and those with young children. It doesn't matter is that is what they both like. It's such an emasculating activity.
I am not sure that Freddy played the entertaining game. She's probably bored to death and ended up considering him for the title of Best Female Friend.
Posted by ianthepisces
I really hit a sensitive nerve on your relationships huh tiki?
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