Do pisces ever regret being cold/heartless ?

Do pisces ever feel regret when they mislead another and hurt them? if so, do they ever act on this?

in the context that you weren't provoked.

nemesis, i'll be here. 😉

would you act on that or just feel bad by yourself.

so the pisces whom i was interested in and whom had expressed interest and attraction towards me told me let's go for a drink next week i'll call you when i'm back in town. when i called him a week later, he responded that he's already seeing another girl and he thought it was not normal i was still contacting him.

duh... WHO is the fool?

honestly, i don't think i've ever been so disillusioned before to think a guy was interested to tell me that he's not. seemed pretty cold and heartless, idk.

Posted by TheLeo
so the pisces whom i was interested in and whom had expressed interest and attraction towards me told me let's go for a drink next week i'll call you when i'm back in town. when i called him a week later, he responded that he's already seeing another girl and he thought it was not normal i was still contacting him.

duh... WHO is the fool?

WHAT?! I could never do that to someone, but then again I am a Pisces female. I heard the guys are pretty heartless sometimes.

okay, so i was a bit enamored by this guy. Still thinking he was a nice, quality guy with many interests whom i've shared a few dates with, i ask, well, would you like to keep in communication, perhaps we could be friends? his response: no.

So, i ask: did somewhere along the line have i offended you or upset you? His response: no.

okay, so you don't wish to keep in contact? his response: no. and you already seeing another girl? his response: yes.

okay, good luck then!

And that was the short lived sage with the pisces with the very, frigid ending.


wow.

it didn't make sense why he was so cold and led me to believe he was interested.
I mean he could have handled it so much better, like i'm really sorry but i got back to together with my ex. i discovered in fact she is my soul mate or something like that.

some sign of a redeeming, quality delivered in a heartfelt way...

i guess i shouldn't hold my breath for any sign of regret then? 🙂

Posted by Sensual_Pisces

Posted by TheLeo
so the pisces whom i was interested in and whom had expressed interest and attraction towards me told me let's go for a drink next week i'll call you when i'm back in town. when i called him a week later, he responded that he's already seeing another girl and he thought it was not normal i was still contacting him.

duh... WHO is the fool?

WHAT?! I could never do that to someone, but then again I am a Pisces female. I heard the guys are pretty heartless sometimes.

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Perhaps, pisces girls are just kinder. idk.

Posted by TheLeo

Do pisces ever feel regret when they mislead another and hurt them?

Pisces don't mislead others, which obviously doesn't hurt them since it didn't happen .. so there is nothing to regret.


Here's an example .... if things aren't working out between me and you, I know it's not working out .. why don't you know it? If I decide to throw in the towel and paddle along a river that takes me away from you, why would you be hurt and think you've been misled?

Have you not been paying attention ... and actually think everything was honky dory ??

If the relationship is falling away/apart .. then I would expect you to have enough wits and common sense about you to know that the end is near ... and if you don't know that, then it's your fault for getting hurt .. your fault because you are the one responsible for your own emotional well-being .. and you are the one who chose to ignore that the relationship was falling away, and chose to cling to it.

Why would the Pisces feel regret because you are ignorant?

Pisces people don't work like everyone else .... if things aren't working out, then walk the fuck away .... because we will from you ...


We will walk straight out of the door, and never look back ..... if things are wrong.

Why won't the other person?

Are they expecting some emotional saviour to swoop down from the sky and make the Fish stay, then change to suit you?

Posted by TheLeo
so the pisces whom i was interested in and whom had expressed interest and attraction towards me told me let's go for a drink next week i'll call you when i'm back in town. when i called him a week later, he responded that he's already seeing another girl and he thought it was not normal i was still contacting him.

duh... WHO is the fool?

You are the fool.

He blew you off .... and instead of having any pride, you chose to cry about it in here, as if he owes you something.

The only person that owes you anything is you, and this debt you owe yourself is some dignity.

if the guy throws you away .. you're suppose to stand up, shake off the dust and walk away .. not lay there and whine about it ...... you fool.

Posted by TheLeo
okay, so i was a bit enamored by this guy. Still thinking he was a nice, quality guy with many interests whom i've shared a few dates with, i ask, well, would you like to keep in communication, perhaps we could be friends? his response: no.

So, i ask: did somewhere along the line have i offended you or upset you? His response: no.

okay, so you don't wish to keep in contact? his response: no. and you already seeing another girl? his response: yes.

okay, good luck then!

And that was the short lived sage with the pisces with the very, frigid ending.


wow.

whats the problem here?? sounds like a good guy honestly..because i would've at least fucked your brains out and THEN booted you to the curb..consider yourself lucky and shut up

Pisces feel guilty about almost everything they do (be it right or wrong). It's one of their negative traits. And they also regret most of their actions.. if not now, after a while. They wouldn't necessarily show it though (it always happens within). Unless, they really can't take it, and will try to win you back by showing how sorry and wrong they really are

Posted by TheLeo
Do pisces ever feel regret when they mislead another and hurt them? if so, do they ever act on this?

I think he will be back, but I'm sure you the Leo will have moved on and charmed another suitor with your feminine wiles. What will hurt the Pisces the most when you move on (cause you will move on) is your ability to still be friendly towards him but not want him.

Hello the Leo,
The only time that I'm ever cold or heartless towards someone is if it is provoked, but in terms of your question. Hmmm. . . there were times that I've been on the recieving end of crushes that I had no idea existed and when they finally revealed it to me a year or two later, it would catch me by surprise. I think I've talked about this before about being approached with the "all or nothing deal" by crushes. They expected me to respond in return with the same amount of intensity and passion that they are showing, but how can you when you never even looked at them like that or had any idea that had those kinds of feelings for you. I've had this happen to me with a Scorpio woman, Virgo man, a Pisces girl (she was already in a relationship, but wanted me too. WTF?) and a Aquarius man. They all don't speak to me today and say that I'm a cold guy, but I just think that's an unfair judgement.

TheOhSoStellarOne

Maybe I'm just reading into this too much (No comments, Taurguy). But it sounds like something happened and his feelings got hurt so he is trying to protect himself. He sounds pissed for some reason. Did you reject him somewhere / somehow? If not, then he is just being a genuine Craftsman tool.
I don't hurt people on purpose unless I've REALLY REALLY been hurt by someone. Then I'm STRICTLY out for revenge. THEN the claws come out and I try to go for the jugular (sp?). Otherwise, I think I'm pretty easy to get along with. Just don't piss me off. :-)

Regret being initially attracted to someone and wanting to date them, but then finding myself more attracted to someone else and deciding to date them instead? Regret doing the right thing and letting the first one go -- completely, no games, no fingers in TWO pies? No. What's to regret? Having feelings? Having honor and integrity and telling a person I'm moving on? Sorry, does not compute. If that's the kind of "cold and heartless" you're referring to, then no.. I don't have regrets about that.

What I WOULD regret.. is being so hung up on a guy I dated a few times.. that when he told me he is seeing someone else and not interested in any sort of continuing communication with me... I would basically beg for his crumbs (friendship, when I'm not really looking for or going to be satisfied with JUST friendship with a guy I'm attracted to!) and ask him what I did wrong or to offend him. I would regret chasing or even WANTING to chase after and throw myself on a guy who very clearly and succinctly spelled out his disinterest. I would regret not being evolved enough to understand that people date to get to know each other, and sometimes things don't click - sometimes it's me, sometimes it's the other person - and that there shouldn't be any hard feelings, especially so early on.

Hmmm. You fucked him, didn't you? 🙂

Okay, I'm going to throw something else out here, maybe food for thought -- maybe some other Leos with Water Moons (ESP Scorp!) can chime in and tell me if it's this way for them too...

I have only TWO sisters. BOTH are Leos. And BOTH have Scorp Moons. Now, in most matters, these smart and beautiful (both blondes too! haha) women are typical Lionesses.. proud, strong, admirable.. run their lives with considerable grace and dignity. HOWEVER... when their emotions get involved, the Scorp shows up very strongly, so obsessive, so FIXED, so unwilling to let go of a bad thing -- they constantly go down with the burning ships! They have different Venus signs (one Virgo, one Gemini) and different Mercs (the Cancer one is more deep, emo, and 'drowning' than the Leo one!).. but all that seems to do is keep them both on the move, looking for the next big thing (relationship-wise).. BOTH of them.. they don't WANT the nice, steady, reliable, loving guy who would give them the world, they've HAD that and were unmoved (until they left him!)... it's the dirtbags who hook them and twist them up, get under their skins.. enter the Scorp Moon, and they become FIXATED on these loo-hoo-sers. The LESS the guy wants them, the MORE they want him! His disinterest seems to prick their delicate Leo egos.. they become determined to PROVE this guy cannot possibly resist their charms, they try to figure out how to MAKE this guy fall in line, like the other guys. That's when their Leo Pride seems to falter, and they find themselves SO out of character, SO doormat-like and crumb-taking...They're driven to pursue, to chase, to find little tricks and ways to make him STOP ignoring them, to make him WANT them! But then again.. the couple times they've actually managed to turn Mr. Not Interested into Mr OMG I Do Want You... POOF.. their intense, angsty longing for this guy vanishes. They ONLY want him when he doesn't want them!

Now, I understand that it's human nature to place more abstract "value" on the things you have to work for, rather than the things that fall easily into your lap... but what makes them ONLY want what they CANNOT have (and want it BADLY!), and NOT want what they've got? Is it the Scorp Moon? I know lots of other Leo women, and they aren't like this, they don't continuously put themselves in this position.. those Leo women stay true Lioness and Keep It Moving, dust off their shoulders and move on... it's just the Water Moon ones (esp Scorp!) that do this!

Yea this is unfortunate and of course none of us know the true exact details of her situation but she asked the Pisces opinion on the last thread about him and everyone said to not contact him, that by him not contacting her means he isn't inteterested and she contacted him... Ssooo yea.. Guessing he got annoyed she wasnt getting the hint.

Posted by piranhaparadiise
...we might regret we didn't pick up that chocolate bar because now we have that chocolate craving and are too lazy to go back to the shop lol.

LOL, that is so true.

Posted by piranhaparadiise

Is this the same Pisces in your other thread *hot fever for Pisces*...where he displayed a lack of interest to meet etc — If so...then as I said...if a Pisces does not show interest they really aren't interested...or if they won't meet that's even more of a red flag of not interested...

So, it appears that this guy wasn't interested from the beginning, but, as usual, the girl chases, likely due to a lack of self esteem and confidence .... because seriously, unless you're 12 years old, you should have some pride, for christs sake.

You don't fucking chase a person who doesn't want you ... damn, isn't it obvious why it's hard to find a decent guy these days? they have to weed through all the emotionally dependent females, and they likely just think ...

.. fuck it, get a nut and leave .. she apparantly has no respect for herself, so why should he bother to care?


In this situation .. this Leo girl is the red flag, that he saw waving ... and not the other way around. It sounds like he wasn't into her from jump.

He did what I would expect a man to do .... if blowing her off doesn't work, then tell her there's someone else .. maybe then the light would go off in her head.

Seriously, the title of this thread ... she makes it sound like he's done something wrong that he should feel bad about, and the way it's worded leaves the impression in the mind that Pisces never have a conscience ...



Do Pisces ever regret being cold/heartless —



Just because you, Lion, cannot control your own self, doesn't constitute that the Pisces cannot feel what they feel as valuable to them ... and you are implying that they have no values, and therefore cannot "ever" hold themselves responsible for themselves. When all along .. it's actually you who cannot stop herself from throwing yourself at a man who doesn't "even" want you.


Pisces people are experts at reality ... and we therefore see you loud and clear ... you are fucked up in your self love department, so therefore have no clue how to respect yourself, so you are therefore attempting to say it's his fault that you're fucked up.

That's ^^^^^^^^^ the reality IF indeed this man has been trying to side step you from jump.