Emotional Pisces

As a water sign, emotions are always taking over my mind, I literally can put myself in a bad mood by thinking negative thoughts about my last situationship with this guy. I tend to blame myself for everything even though it was not my fault at all. What is your best advice for a girl like me who is trying to get over somebody yet I see them every other weekend (mutual friends/bars) we don't speak but we do make eye contact here and there and I'm just trying to get over it completely without feeling all those emotions; it's just draining.

Posted by Nemilicious
maybe step one; watch your wording and how much power you give your words. emotions don't just take over somebody and then reign supreme.

focus and try to work on your weak spots and you??ll see you won't be spending too much time thinking of the "wrong-doings" of someone else.

maybe stop seeking out the same venues/events your mutual friens attend? could be helpful...to the overall situation unless you??re that kind of pisces who like to be victim.

You're definitely right about my wording. My next step would be to stop letting myself think negatively and stop blaming myself. Then I will need to just build a bridge and get over the fact that we're two humans that just moved on with life, although I'm accepting that I will see him around because our night life's pretty small here. But I will not play victim because that will bring me down even more, I've been reading some great books that have been helping me a lot