question can someone help me understand so my ex Pisces of four years broke up with me a month before our wedding. (over something that still make no sense but whatever im a Libra so everything has to have some logic) after three month of no contact we talk and he said he "needs" me in his life Im like OK fine. no hard feelings right? we do movies, we do mall, we chill and just talk, and yea there some pillow talk sometimes to. fast forward as you know us Libra girls have a tendency to heal rather fast over a broken heart i loved him he was my first love and always will have love for him. anyway it has been well-over six month.the new guy is a Pisces as well it like dating my ex only different. but both have the same phase "pretty much"now my ex is still around we got dinner plans tomorrow. why is he still holding on i gave him admirable time to work things out he chose not to. I did not push. The new Pisces is very sweet but im starting to wonder will this be a repeat. I hate to single people out because of a sign. Now iv always just love Pisces all though school the girls and guys were my best friends. I never saw anything bad in them but i see somethings in my ex i really don't like he like a nicer version of his brother who is yep you guessed it a Virgo lol and everything is on his time wont listen to anything over passionate about things that don't need any focus. Im going to be honest i know we were together for four years but the whole thing felt like a dream it was perfect and then bam! my dad the aqua said it was my first love and i was just in a weird spell. he right cause i don't think i will every love as deep as i did with that boy and yes i understand im a idealist lover and trust me i have outgrown that. either way i just want to cut ties. every time i get the voice to he does that guilty thing he has apparently got good at or maybe he always was and i never payed attention he always mentioning we are joined spiritual in my mind i'm like how can he not know my heart has changed.im truly done plus i really don't feel the same anymore i want to do a disappearing act. yes we been though alot including losing a baby together but i see it as water under the bridge with the new Pisces im sitting on the fence with him. my gut says walk away. I normally just slip away from people but lately i developed a "soft" heart lol so now my normal ways would seem to "unfair" or would it been fine to fade away so he can keep his "dream"
