Hi Gals! anyone ever date a taurus man? Ive been seeing one for 2 months and While its not exclusive Ive had all the couting...trip, resto's, the works...we waited a month and a half to get it on but suddenly im wondering if hes going to loose interest in persuing something more serioius becouse weve done it and were not commited?
also wondering when I should drop him...in other words when Its time to move on becouse hes not gonna make a move.
in my experience giving it up only makes them want to hold on more. he won't lose interest because ur having sex with no commitment. he'll lose interest for other reasons like obvious incompatibilities. if he's typical he'll want u for his own anyway. he may show some possessiveness over u. they all seem to really like consistency regardless of the agreement between u 2.
it depends on the taurus. i've noticed they'll hold off on commitment if they're really not that into u and just in it for sex. my best friend just recently jumped into a committed relationship after only a month. a week before he was hesitant because his love interest confronted him and asked him "what they were" (meaning the love interest was already asking for a title after only a few weeks). my best friend was wary but then they continued to hang out all that next week and now they're official! i was dating a taurus man that was very similar. he was really into me but he knew i only wanted a FWB set-up. he wanted me to commit to him after a month into dating as well. of course it failed cuz it wasn't reciprocated. i am currently dating another taurus man and although we too are in a FWB thing he's pretty committed to me. the option is open to have sex with others but we haven't been partaking. he even goes as far as to say i am "his".
the problem u may run into is they are NOT good about verbalizing. u have to read into their actions (with taurus males anyway; dunno about the ladies). u will be able to tell they're really digging u if they contact u regularly, possibly at least once every day, and if they want to spend time with u often. now if u've already given it up they'll of course be expecting some sex but they'll also genuinely wanna spend time in ur company. even though i have sex every time with my taurus guy he also wants to talk with me, watch movies, go out to eat... before AND after.
besides, if u want more then u need to tell him. be straight up about it. if ur direct with them they'll be direct with u. otherwise u may never hear it.
This situation has kinda made me a little moody with him the last couple days and im kinda pushing him away to see if he has staying power i think...I think he does though and Im just getting nervous becouse Im starting to really like him. Ive been doing some weird things lately and I think im going to have to stop.Otherwize im just going to confuse him...
I was married to a Taurus for 8 years. To be honest, I got bored with Taurus and felt very stifled by Taurus' controlling ways. I am a fish ...and needs lots of wiggle room ...hate feeling stifled. 😢
First guy I dated after Taurus marriage .....was another Taurus ....he scared the begezers out of me ...did not date long ...almost like he had controlling abusive tendency ....kinda weird guy.
Is a bad sign if they show no signs of jelously (does it mean they dont really care?)
I guess Im just looking for any do's and dont's based on real experiance plus any signs to look outfor of game playing...
About us:
Hes taken me on a trip introduced me to everyone he know's, takes me out to eat often, and every time Ive freaked out and told him I was having dounts he not only listens, reasures me im wrong and then teases me about it...he also becomes more attentive to my needs...Whats weird is that When I do reak out he tells me it scares him and makes him take a step back when I flip on him lol but that its good and that he likes that I have a little fire...will the sudden flairs in my normaly calm and warm nature make him not consider me as a long term partner?
And my final question... What makes a taurus man decide not to consider a woman as a long term partner? lol
Funny you should mention that... so happens that he is a millionaire LMAO I confronted him about the possibility of him doing tis with every girl but he reasured me...besides Were often out with his friends or he will talk with his friends on peaker and let them know im there to say hi and " not say anythnig stupid" I guess im just not use to guys taking so long to scoop me up! most men ive dated take one look at me and grab me the second the minute i let them never letting go...Im not ude to Not being commited and not being allowed to have any expectastions! I only "see one guy at a time but know men usually dont unless they are "commited"
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also wondering when I should drop him...in other words when Its time to move on becouse hes not gonna make a move.