this taurus guy kinda blew me away...

i only met him in the past month but have really only spent any time with him a couple of times. he's not much of a talker, is somewhat aloof, and acts very reserved. the only way he's ever shown interest in me is by staring directly at me, unflinchingly. i had to do most of the contact initiation but i was very warm and friendly towards him. we've only exchanged a few emails and each one was short and to-the-point.

i received a text tonight from him telling me about the show he's playing tonight (he's a musician). he said it starts at 9. he ended it with "love you".

i might be reading too much into it, but i'm shocked that he went that far with his words. he's typically a man of few words and when he does speak it is with intention.

do tauruses go full blown affectionate/lovey-dovey when they warm up to u?

it's weird because i actually have a lotta experience with the taurus person (my best friend of 8 years is one but he's gay) but we're always just friends. i don't know about their flirting style s or how they are when they're interested. i just wanna find out if this is typical of them. my best friend was warm and friendly from the get-go but he has leo moon so...

Girls,be sure to note,if a guy tells you he likes to see his girl
naked all the time & he has no girl yet,you know he's very
insecure because guys can see naked girls anywhere &
women can see naked me anywhere,so it's not about being
naked,it's about being naked with the right kinda man &
cooking naked is fine,just don't fry bacon or chicken,lol...

Oooop's I meant,naked men anyway,lol.... just look it up
on the internet,male strip clubs or boyfriends,lol....
But seriously,the only guys that talk about sex & nudity
"all" the time just aren't happy & aren't very secure.
SEX & Nudity are Everywhere!!! It's Getting Old too.
It's alot better to be naked doing anything together with
the person you enjoy & want to be with.
If you think getting a man to love you is all about getting
naked & sex,think again!
There would be alot of happy couples in the world if
SEX & Nudity cured all their problems. So true!

Taurus & Virgo can be a hot match by the way
so can Taurus & Capricorn.

Posted by Ike
Naked ofcourse 😛

As long as I'm not frying any chicken (grease splatters & it's fattening, so don't eat that too much anyway) then I'm alright with this naked cooking 😉 Well...not completely naked - high heels & an apron. Not saying I've done that...just sounds like a plan! LOL

Now back to the topic of the thread! I think out of most of the signs - the Taurus males & females are very similar; moreso than a lot of the other signs and their male/female counterparts. Taureans do tend to take things in and look at the entire situation and read people. There are other signs who jump into love/relationships very quickly; only to fall out of love/relationships, just as quickly. In my experience, male or female Taurus folks typically like to take their time to make sure it's right for them, and then once they let their guard down, they love really hard - which is a good and bad thing (well for me anyway).

update on this guy...

we spent an evening together and it was subdued but awesome! he picked me up and i made the decisions all night and we talked all night long. we had a drink then went down to the beach and spent most of our night there. i taught him kung fu moves in the water, we climbed some rocks, but mostly we just laid down at the top of the rocks talking and staring at stars til 4 am.

i couldn't believe how he went with the flow. he would have done anything i suggested. i was about to go for a swim, and even though he's not much of one and the water was cold, he would have done it if i wanted him to. i had him down to his boxers and undershirt! i didn't ask him to do it or anything but it was better than getting his jeans wet i guess.

i'm not sure how i feel about our connection. it feels deep, comfortable, and familiar. no passion whatsoever. nothing fiery about this guy but i was ok with it. i already know that i do not want to pursue a romantic relationship with him yet i don't see him like a brother. there truly is no sexual tension between us. i feel like we could be close friends who are touchy-feely with each other but nothing beyond that. besides, he needs to get his life in order before i feel like i could see him in a different light. he seems to be on the lazier side too. not very motivated or ambitious. he might just be in a rut too. he's also very respectful and has this chivalrous side to him. he was trying to open doors for me which i'm not used to. he's also on the passive side and has owned up to it. i feel like i could lead the whole relationship and he would do whatever i commanded of him. eventually i'd lose respect because this. i'm starting to feel more like his mentor in life, which is awesome, but i want to share my love with my equal. not saying that he is below me but he sort of places himself there and me on a proverbial pedastal. sure, i want to be treated like a queen but i don't want someone who feels inferior to me. he was even walking behind me a lot instead of alongside me!

all i know is that i can love this guy.