He likes me...=)

I have the feeling that my pisces co-worker/crush likes me. =)

No, he didn't directly say so to me. But I just knew. And I think he knows that I like him too. He does'nt have to be a pisces to know I like him. It's pretty obvious signs. When we are alone a couple of times, I'm NERVOUS...wanting to converse with him but can't string proper sentence. haha!

You know what's funny. The first couple of times we talked. He was the more nervous one...but now he's more calm and composed...and I'm the more nervous one. hee...

So I went back home and tell myself, I need to calm myself down and just listen to what he's saying and get soak in the moment. And today we talked again alone, I love it. How I wish talking to him doesn't end so fast.

I'm trying to bump into him more often in the office...and likewise for him. We never talk when we are around others, but we talk when we are alone.

I just don't know how to write this anymore. haha! I feel giddy. Never in my life, I feel so positive. Just want to enjoy this moment forever.

By the way, I asked him for his contact and I got it. Yuppee...time to plan for a date some time soon. =)

Oh ya, if anyone can suggest ideas or ways to ask someone out on a date? Please share ok.

I'm quite new at this.

lol, your patience in waiting is finally paying off .... the tenacity of the Bull is amazing, and something especially admired by the Fish. 🙂


Fix him a nice meal at your place, and invite him over ... find out what he likes to drink, have candles available for lighting in specific locations should it become obvious that the night is leading ... you know where. 😉


You two having the opportunity to "talk" privately seems to be what is cherished at this time ... so a private meal together over a glass of wine seems appropriate.

P-Angel, thanks for your recommendation.

I wish I can invite him to my home, but there's no privacy at my home. haha...

Candlelight setting is romantic...but probably too romantic for a first date. But I like the idea of haivng a private meal. It would be good if we can talk privately and get to know each other better. It's so difficult to talk in the office setting.

Last night, I'm half sleeping and half exploding with happiness. haha! =)

Try something like an art museum or something out of the norm . . . try something that's different and like an escape whether it's an art museum or lunch/dinner at a non-American food joint (Indian, Thai, Japanese, etc). I only have a teeny bit of Pisces in my chart but I love the feeling of an escape from reality. Maybe he would too lol =) Good luck, you sound so giddy and I love it.

I found this also - not sure how accurate it is but hope it helps.


" Sharpen up your imagination. A date with a Pisces should feel like an escape. This flowy water sign loves to be swept away for an evening of spontaneous romance. Got work to do? Prior commitments? You'll forget about it all when you swim into this fishie's alluring waters. Meet at a dimly lit restaurant or wine bar and gaze into Pisces eyes while talking about your day, your feelings, a great new band you heard. Soon enough, you'll hit on a subject that sparks you both and bam! Plan B has arrived. Don't be surprised if you find yourself sneaking to the rooftop of a building for a killer view of the moon or dancing the night away at Pisces' favorite jazz club. These night owls also love dressing up, so whether you're going to a costume ball or a posh charity event, you're sure to have an eye-catching date on your arm. They adore the arts, so a daytime date could include a walk through a museum.

This sign rules photography, so bring cameras in case inspiration strikes. You're sure to get some great shots, whether you're snapping pix of old architecture, random people on the streets or portraits of each other. Underground or indie arts are also a favorite of theirs. As long as you give them room to talk about feelings and express their unusual opinions without judgment, they're sure to warm up to you. Friends are everything to Pisces, and they often assume a caretaker role. Flip the script and pamper your Fish on a date. Go to a spa and get massages or pedicures (Pisces rules the feet). Getting Pisces to relax will score you big time points. They love quirky things and don't require anything super-fancy to be entertained.



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Get your palms read by a psychic; this sign loves anything mystical and outrageous
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Creative Pisces will appreciate anything arsty, from a museum exhibit to a student show
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Compassionate Pisces love all creatures great and small. Visit a petting zoo or volunteer for a day at an animal shelter.
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Dance the night away at an intimate, dimly-lit club
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Wine-tasting is a favorite escape for Pisces, but watch out--they can drink like fish!
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Take Pisces to a costume party. They'll relish any chance to dress up!
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Cook dinner together. Food=sensuality for this sign
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Pisces loves to play hooky. Skip work and go for a road trip to a quaint town wit

Well, the candles I only meant to have ready in case the night gets turned on ... you know what I mean 😉 .... but, it wouldn't work anyway, since you can't bring him home.


You know what you should do? Be spontaneous ... I know, I know, you're a Bull ... but, do it anyway ..... you can make the plans, that's ok to do so you can have a structure in place to give you courage ... but, at the last minute, throw the plans out the window and surprise both of you.


Make a lunch date at a restaurant or summat ..... and then just before you leave to meet him at this place, call the establishment and tell them it's a to go order .... grab him there waiting for you and the food and go somewhere completely unexpected to eat lunch, like on a rooftop somewhere with a great view, or on a park bench, or under umbrellas in the pouring rain.


Mix it up .... your lunch experience will then be full of giggles and quite memorable ... and this is what you ultimately want to accomplish with P-man ..... to equal unforgettable, and this unforgettable experience was with you.

From that point forward, everytime he thinks of you .... a smile will wash across his face, and heart.

P-Angel, good idea u have. I now have a "spontaneous plan". hahaha...the oxymoron. Being a Taurean, I cannot have no plan. But did try to think a few options and depending what is more suitable on that day (rain or shine, mood etc)...I'll use it. hee...

Haven't gotten a chance to ask him out yet. He's rather busy at the moment.

But just ate dinner with him today with some other colleague. We haven't been talking to each other in front of the others. In fact, we are refraining from talking to each other. At least that's what I'm doing. Not intentionally, but just naturally don't know what to say. I'm very quiet in groups.

Anyway, I took a slightly longer look at him today at dinner....he has a very beautiful pair of eyes and gentle voice. Not that I didn't realise that from the start, but...=)

In other words, I feel blessed.

I got rejected by him indirectly. 😢

It's either:
(a) I misinterpretated his friendliness as interest towards me, or
(b) He's not comfortable with me alone

Oh well, at least, I've tried and I can move on without any regrets.

I got rejected by two pisces. Wonder if the next person I like will be a pisces again. They are nice people, but hope not. haha! =p

Actually, come to think of it. Was it a rejection?

You see I call him in the morning. He didn't pick up the phone. So I message him in the afternoon to go out for lunch sometimes later in the week. He didn't actually say no...but he says I can join him and another co-worker for lunch earlier in the week.

So is it a rejection or is he's just shy to go out alone with me?

Unfortunately, I had to turn down the offer because I'm not free.

I'm really very bad about reading in between the lines. haha. Can someone help me decipher what he means? I'm quite a silly taurean. haha...

I would change plans to go to this lunch-in .... it's possible that he's just a tad nervous and needs to have people around.


Is he a shy man?

P-Angel, he is a shy person and so am I. =)

I don't mind being friends with him if he likes it this way. In fact, I would rather be friends first before anything else. But we don't talk to each other in group setting. If we don't talk to each other, are we still considered friends? haha...

That's something weird I can't describe clearly. It's a feeling...a gut.

I always sense him standing behind me looking at me one tiny seconds more than a person normally would. When we are in a group walking, I was standing beside him. I feel that he wanted to talk to me but he talk to the person on his left instead. And that was one time, I sense he deliberately walk slower, hoping that I'll also walk slower so that I can talk with him. However, I didn't because I saw his friend walk slower to talk to him first.

Among these, there are many other things. Maybe my gut is playing a trick on me. Maybe I'm wrong. But I have a feeling that he wants to talk to me but he couldn't. I also feel that I want to talk to him but I couldn't.

To be honest, when he reject my date. I was actually happy at first because he did invite me to join him and his friend. But later I realise.."oh...it's a reject". haha.

Should I just tell him that I'm shy...but I want to know him better? I hope it's not that I like him so much...that creates a false gut feelings that delude myself.