HELP ME TO UNDERSTAND MY PISCES

Here it is folks: need advice,opinions,experiences etc.
My former boss and i started a "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS" relationship since mid-january. We've had our share of up's and down's. Im 10 years older than he, so that plays in some scenerios ( i think) anyways, he'll do the world for me when i've wanted to cut it off, he'll bounce back and will not let me go. He invites me everywhere, meanwhile, was seeing other females, he'll spend more time with me than with them. if he was on a date, he'll call after words, not telling , but i'll know..than eventually, he'd say things to allude to my conclusion. He wants me in every aspect of his life, introduced me to all of his best friends and takes care of me , when we're not at eachothers throats lol. My dear lad has a rovering eye, in which, we r not in a committed relationship, but it does bother me ( just being honest). When he chats or meets someone he acts a little like a butthead, but than i'll put him in his place and he'll comeback to his old self , when he feels like it...my question is if he doesnt want a relationship with me, than why he can't let me go? why be there for me 110% and wants me to go everywhere with him? just curious...serious inquiries please

BTW: Not long ago , i ended things with him and 5 days later he came banging on my door, packed my night bag and we went to his place. he made passionate love to me that night...he asked me to quit my job and he offered to pay my rent for a month so i can look for another job. One thing is for sure: he becomes paranoid if we dont talk..he doesnt like when i jokingly say ( im not talking to you or im leaving) anything, that'd suggest i didnt want anything to do with him..he goes nuts! completely nuts!

Hi Bibiana...I've known my pisces for over 4 years and he's exactly the way your describing your pisces. It boggles my mind that he can't let go of me and I cant either, well I tried but he came back 6 months of not talking to each other. when we both know we cant go forward with our "friendship". He's a March 9th pisces too. I care for him too much to never talk to him, so now i keep it a friendship level even though he tries to keep it hot between us. When we talk on the phone I'll keep it on a friend level but then he wants to know what im wearing or if im wearing panties. I tell him I dont like him talking to me that way and I'll ignore his calls for awhile. Anyways I hope we can get some answers from the pisces on here.

Posted by bibiana

My former boss and i started a "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS" relationship since mid-january.

Won't read past that ^^^^^^ nothing you have to say matters in the least bit, considering you are so low that you would put yourself in a situation to be disrespected.

Whatever this is about (which is obviously hurting you, since the thread exists) .... you deserve for having such zero pride and honor in yourself.

You made your own bed ......

FWB isn't disrespecting anyone. It's a mutual decision to delve into a biological setting. It's human. It would be disrespectful (to the others) if they were in committed relationships with other people.

If you really want to get rid of him, disappear. Change your number, don't answer your door. Send him an email or something explaining that you don't want to do this with him, anymore. Pisces have a hard time letting go of people, even if they're being selfish. You just need to show him that you're not going to take that from him and put him in his place. He doesn't own you, even if he acts like he does.

Nemesis is right. I also think the same can be said for dating but having sex too soon. Its so important to have a foundation of friendship. If sexual intimacy is the highest level of physical expression you can offer a person, it makes sense to offer it when its well deserved.

I agree with scenic....cut off communication. A pisces ignored will = him swimming away. Which sounds like it would be for the best. The guy is everywhere...he may have Taurus in him.

U guys have been so kind and wonderful! I am happy to say: that i am over and done with him...I allowed him to treat me poorly!( i've had enough) In one hand he'd help me and in the other hand he'd treat me like crap! I suspect he's found himself a shiny new toy ( a girl) and now he's acting very cold and distant towards me! Thats cool ..b/c i just blocked his number from my cell phone ...if he treats me like crap, im sure he'll treat others the same way..it's only a matter of time....Now i dont blame him entirely b/c i've allowed him to treat me this way ! But atleast, i've realized how much i didnt value myself enough to stand up and now i got my confidence back! no stopping me!