
aquarius21
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Posted by aquarius21
O n another thing that confuses me: y do pisces act different w/ different people? i mean of course you'd act more professional at work -- that's a given. but socializing with diff groups of friends. ive seen a lot of pisces change the way they act and talk (even w/ diff accents!) w/ diff groups of people. and my question is WHY? To me that just seems fake b/c wuts up w/ the diff acts? if you were keepin it real, u'd act the same way w/ everyone else no matter who it is, right? like what's ur guys' take on that?? i kno pisces is a mutable sign but is it b/c of tht? help me understand 😛

Posted by aquarius21
so a LOT of pisces i know who r friends and acquaintances i swear ALL act this way. they're always:
2) PLAYING THE VICTIM CARD.
i feel like they love being the victim. n when they tell stories they always omit things that show their @ fault so everything looks like their the innocent victim

Posted by aquarius21
O n another thing that confuses me: y do pisces act different w/ different people? i mean of course you'd act more professional at work -- that's a given. but socializing with diff groups of friends. ive seen a lot of pisces change the way they act and talk (even w/ diff accents!) w/ diff groups of people. and my question is WHY? To me that just seems fake b/c wuts up w/ the diff acts? if you were keepin it real, u'd act the same way w/ everyone else no matter who it is, right? like what's ur guys' take on that?? i kno pisces is a mutable sign but is it b/c of tht? help me understand 😛







Posted by nimbuePosted by aquarius21
O n another thing that confuses me: y do pisces act different w/ different people? i mean of course you'd act more professional at work -- that's a given. but socializing with diff groups of friends. ive seen a lot of pisces change the way they act and talk (even w/ diff accents!) w/ diff groups of people. and my question is WHY? To me that just seems fake b/c wuts up w/ the diff acts? if you were keepin it real, u'd act the same way w/ everyone else no matter who it is, right? like what's ur guys' take on that?? i kno pisces is a mutable sign but is it b/c of tht? help me understand 😛
pisces are emotional sponges so we soak up other people's emotions. we elso mirror people, to build a rapport, and make people feel at ease. it's very subconscious behaviour so i wouldn't quite call it fake
i used to do this alot and never noticed it, esp as a kid. its that whole empathy/giving people what they want thingclick to expand

Posted by nimbuePosted by aquarius21
so a LOT of pisces i know who r friends and acquaintances i swear ALL act this way. they're always:
2) PLAYING THE VICTIM CARD.
i feel like they love being the victim. n when they tell stories they always omit things that show their @ fault so everything looks like their the innocent victim
neptune ruled, remember...in some cases it's blatant manipulation, used to gain favour and 'get people on their side'. in another sense, it's a detachment from reality. you've got to remember pisces are ruled by the planet of illusion, secrecy and mysticism. so lying by ommission is done to create a better version of events. one that is more acceptable to the pisces.
victim card-some pisces can't understand why they feel so strongly about some things whilst others don't seem similarly affected, so they will exaggerate to gain sympathy, or to get people to see where they're coming from. its just over dramaticclick to expand

Posted by XV2
"1) COMPLAINING.
it seems like they're always in a negative mood w/ a gray cloud over the head 24/7. something's always wrong! n it seems like they feed off it & enjoy being miserable b/c thats the state they're always ."
Hahaha, I think this has to do with how we idealize X, and since X never lives up to our idealized version of it, we are always complaning about it. The rougher the going goes, the harder we are likely to complain, but I wouldn't say that excludes us from going through it anyway, it's just... we will complain every step of the way. It's just a way of ventilating your discontent with the state of things but it doesn't always equal unwillingness, or inability to go through it. Sometimes the whinning makes it seem that we are more bent out of shape than we really are. In the end it's probably just a way of coping. You could be crawling your way beneath machine gun fire and complaining about the cheap quality of the bullets being fired at you because they are more likely to fragment inside if you??re hit. haha. But you keep on going. It's just a coping mechanism.

Posted by XV2
"1) COMPLAINING.
it seems like they're always in a negative mood w/ a gray cloud over the head 24/7. something's always wrong! n it seems like they feed off it & enjoy being miserable b/c thats the state they're always ."
Hahaha, I think this has to do with how we idealize X, and since X never lives up to our idealized version of it, we are always complaning about it. The rougher the going goes, the harder we are likely to complain

Posted by piranhaparadiise
We immerse ourselves in a situation so much so it becomes a part of us for that time being and is not even on a conscious level...
It is not about being fake at all...it's not about anything really ...
A simple evaluation is...the atmosphere is what brings change for a Pisces...and most often on a subconscious level...not at all recognized...it just is...
We adapt to the atmosphere...the vibes surrounding us...the moods...everything is taken in subconsciously and we immerse ourselves...
When a Pisces [at least this happens to me] relays a story about a situation we go into a semi trance...ok it's not a trance but we go into a dream state where we are not in focus on the current surroundings...it's like we are looking inside our minds in a type of movie scene...relaying that story...then we snap back into the the current surroundings and refocus our eyes...it's a weird feeling at times because you lose those moments of reality when this happens...
Posted by aquarius21
3) ALL BARK AND NO BITE.
Probably at the time it felt right...then they realise not worth the trouble...why waste breath on shit not in our control...who wants to be confronted by others crap —!!! Call it fake / weak ?! I call it sensible and move pass the bullshit...Usually they don't care about what was with someone anymore...it's moving on time...


Posted by iceredrobot
wow. I dunno what to tell ya, I'm none of those things so can't relate. The strongest Pisces trait I possess is I'm overly sensitive!
Posted by aquarius21
O n another thing that confuses me: y do pisces act different w/ different people? i mean of course you'd act more professional at work -- that's a given. but socializing with diff groups of friends. ive seen a lot of pisces change the way they act and talk (even w/ diff accents!) w/ diff groups of people. and my question is WHY? To me that just seems fake b/c wuts up w/ the diff acts? if you were keepin it real, u'd act the same way w/ everyone else no matter who it is, right? like what's ur guys' take on that?? i kno pisces is a mutable sign but is it b/c of tht? help me understand 😛
Ahhh this I do😄 Why?? What other option is there? People have big egos and if you give them what they want they'll be happy. Some people accept me for who I am, they get the real me...warts and all. Then there are those that wont accept you unless you agree with everything they say - they get the fake all-smiles me, as I cant be bothered to confront them or get into a debate. Really if someone is that close-minded and stupid I just don't respect them enough to be honest, so I just humour them by agreeing with everything. No one I truly care for gets the fake me, just a clue for ya ;P
Hope that helps🙂click to expand

Posted by iceredrobot
Oh wow. But don't confuse all Pisces brutal honesty as respect. They may just not like you. I tease my Leo best friend allll the time, but I j'adore her and would never disrespect her in public. Honesty + respect = a Pisces liking you.
Honesty + disrespect = they hate you.

Posted by aPiscesPrincess
Why are you friends with Pisces like that then?

Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by aquarius21
but socializing with diff groups of friends. ive seen a lot of pisces change the way they act and talk (even w/ diff accents!) w/ diff groups of people.
lol! 😄 wthclick to expand


Posted by Nights22
1. I think I have quite the ray of sunshine over my head. But I do tend to complain. I'll blame it on passion. lol. But seriously if I'm complaining its because I feel strongly about the subject and because I want it to be better.
2. I suppose I do this. Not all the time tho.
3. Idk bout pisces females. I never pick physical fights. But If I've promised something threatening Ive gone through with it 99% of the time.
4. Yeah we're good at mimicking people we dont know. If Im with friends or family I am the same person. But with strangers or people I dont know I may act different. I think it more usual to act different with different people when we're younger because We dont quite know ourselves.

Posted by Wasis
Speaking about myself...
"1) COMPLAINING"- Only if it helps solve the problem. I believe in doing something about it rather than bitch and moan.
"2) PLAYING THE VICTIM CARD"- Nope. I take personal responsibility for my f-ups. If anything, I'm more self deprecating than victim.
"3) ALL BARK AND NO BITE"- Fighting is immature. Why bother with negative energy? I don't bulk at confrontation. I state my position. Give reasons why I think/ feel the way I do. If the person doesn't agree then I move on. Because I understand that everyone is different and maybe my way is not the best for them. I don't believe in forcing myself/ opinions on anyone. However, I will be clear on my views and say it tactfully to their face.

Posted by WasisPosted by Nights22
4. Yeah we're good at mimicking people we dont know. If Im with friends or family I am the same person. But with strangers or people I dont know I may act different. I think it more usual to act different with different people when we're younger because We dont quite know ourselves.
I was the same way when I was younger. Maybe in some instances even now. I look at it this way. You don't go to a black tie event dressed in cutoffs and flip-flops. You dress accordingly. Most Pisces are uncomfortable sticking out, so they blend in. But when a comfort level is established , then we tend to not edit.click to expand

Posted by DAMEN VI
aqua's and pisces just aren't meant to figure each other out..

Posted by nimbue
as a fixed sign, aquas must find pisces' shape-shifting tendencies very annoying

Posted by ~mystic_fish
I can't comprehend being "the very same" with everyone.. To me, that would be robotic, insincere and viewing "everyone" else the same. Some people ARE simply more special or approachable to me than others and so i'll naturally give the best or more of myself. Of course you're going to "naturally" show various layers of yourself in varying circumstances and i would expect the same from others. I really don't see it as complex, at all.

Posted by ArticleL
Weird I've never seen Pisces act this way the only thing I would say about Pisces is their weird as shit. And yeah they do complain alot but there so cute 😛

Posted by extempjunk
I have to level the "complaining" grievance back at the OP -- this is a BIG trait of the all of the Aquariuses I happen to meet, including my SO. What gives? They'll even do it in front of people they just met to the extent that it's rude and just...odd-seeming. It seems to come from a place of incredible resentment towards the world, the origins of which, well, who can tell. I'll respond to the Pisces stuff in-depth later when I'm not about to go to work 🙂

Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by extempjunk
lol My Aqua ex-bf was a really big complainer too. I don't think he could help it though, he had anger issues, etc. 😢 So he wasn't necessarily the 'typical' Aqua in that way.click to expand
i can c how aquas can b perceived as complainers too. i think we're just overly opinionated and always speak our mind esp wen it comes to things that r unfair. we personally could care less, but we speak for injustice n things tht aren't right so it's reflex to make it known that something's not right jst so that YOU know lol. probably not a desirable trait many signs like likes about us as well but that's wut it is 🙂

If you're talking about things your Pisces friends do that I don't do, or that I don't understand either, then I won't be able to provide insight. So how is that questionable lol.
The one thing you listed that I do sometimes is 'playing the victim'. We probably do that sometimes to help others understand how we felt in certain situations, like Nimbue said. Since we are sensitive inside, we tend to feel strongly about certain things when we feel hurt or wronged. Even though when I've done that, I also mention my own screw ups so that my side is understood accurately, as well as my own faults in the situation.



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1) COMPLAINING.
it seems like they're always in a negative mood w/ a gray cloud over the head 24/7. something's always wrong! n it seems like they feed off it & enjoy being miserable b/c thats the state they're always . i actually only have fun w/ a lot of them if we're partying & their drunk. sober, they're dull.
2) PLAYING THE VICTIM CARD.
i feel like they love being the victim. n when they tell stories they always omit things that show their @ fault so everything looks like their the innocent victim
3) ALL BARK AND NO BITE.
ok yes there r some pisces who can fight, but for the most part the pisces women ive met r all punks. not that i've ever tried starting fights w/ any, but seeing them act all hard and tough and then acting like a scared puppy when getting confronted. Or NEVER following through w/ what they say they're going to do. like saying they're going to tell this person off and they dont.
not that any of that stuff matters, but the important thing is: Y SAY YOU'RE GOING TO DO ANYTHING @ ALL IF YOU'RE REALLY NOT DOING TO DO IT—