How do Pisces men break up with you?

Do they do it in the nicest way possible, sparing your feelings? Do they want to remain friends?

Yeah, I try not to "hang out" with former girlfriends because it will cause trouble with the new girlfriend.

Sorry, but I wouldn't want to damage a potential marriage partner by allowing previous girlfriends to threaten or otherwise cause trouble for the burgeoning relationship.

Posted by djbuck1
I can only speak for myself.

If I am going to break up with someone, I have probably reached that point where I don't want to waste any more energy on them. We both know "why." I don't care about your feelings, and you don't care about mine. We're breaking up.

This isn't the runway scene in "Casablanca."

I agree with djbuck1.....I would swim away slowly. Never say anything by not contacting you.....that means I wouldn't text, answer your calls, nor would I call you. I am more quiet and neither do I do the friends thing. Only makes situations worse, too draining and a waste of time.

I don't see how someone could break up with you, and spare your feelings at the same time... By definition when someone breaks up with you, it hurts your feelings. There can be no talking of feelings spared in something like that. So, even if the guy breaks up with you in the NICEST way possible, you should still prepare for having your feelings hurt.

But, to get back to the actual question. Usually, Pisces men hate break-ups, and they hate them with a passion. They would rather continue beating the proverbial dead horse until there's nothing left, before they do anything like that. But generally, if they decide in the end to do it (and i do mean the VERY END), it's usually not very nice. Pisces, being non-confrontational beings, tend to get rid of the problem as quickly as possible. So don't expect something like holding your hand for hours and hours, while you cry on his shoulder, and beg him to reconsider, or things like that. There may be some guys that do that (depends on the person, his past experience, and probably the other signs in their chart), but generally, expect a quick & dirty affair. Expect breaking up via text, or even him disappearing without a word, and ignoring any contact you try to make. Chances are, though, that if the relationship is on the rocks, you'll break up with him way before he even thinks of doing something like that.

But, anyway, when he does it, and if the words actually come out of his mouth, expect it to be final. There probably was a long and hard thought process before that, so when he finally does it, it means he's already made up his mind. Fish may be flimsy and indecisive sometimes, but there is nothing more final than a Fish who made a decision.

Posted by Treplev
I don't see how someone could break up with you, and spare your feelings at the same time... By definition when someone breaks up with you, it hurts your feelings. There can be no talking of feelings spared in something like that.

+1

So if all of this is true, why are there so many stories of pisces men long hot and cold and coming back and getting back together?

This site and others are full of them.

Break ups are hard to do but to break up with someone I would tell them and its usually them who cant take the break up and start all the bullshit but they have to realise it will never work out coz thats the way it is and always has been. I find this sad but necessary and understood.

If someone were to break up with me then it would hurt me badly and cause me to suffer greatly eventually realising that it were all my fault and then I would learn to move on.

My cousin will send them a song that says what he wants to say (he communicates through music) to break the ice. Then he would talk about it with them in person. They'd already be expecting it by the time they talked. He'd such a sweetheart, he'd still be a gentleman. Unless they go all psycho on him, then the shark would come out.

Posted by truecap
My cousin will send them a song that says what he wants to say (he communicates through music) to break the ice. Then he would talk about it with them in person. They'd already be expecting it by the time they talked. He'd such a sweetheart, he'd still be a gentleman. Unless they go all psycho on him, then the shark would come out.

Interesting approach! To be serenaded with a break-up song 🙂!

I just cut straight to the point.

"It's not me, it's you"

Gets the job done.

yeah this is the same type of behaviour I would later expect from a man wishing to rekindle the sex...

plus you have to be exclusive to end a 'relationship'. otherwise it is someone telling you they don't have enough time for you atm... but maybe later when other shit hits the fan again. kthxbai for now!

Posted by deezie
yeah this is the same type of behaviour I would later expect from a man wishing to rekindle the sex...

plus you have to be exclusive to end a 'relationship'. otherwise it is someone telling you they don't have enough time for you atm... but maybe later when other shit hits the fan again. kthxbai for now!

That's the break up I got. Not had the exclusive talk yet and he said work was rubbish and not in the right frame of mind for dating.

Maybe he will try and rekindle the sex later. How lovely.