In love with a Pisces man, but ....

So me and this guys been going out on and off for 10 months ... He's the one who's been breaking up with me, but of course we'd always end up back together . Well recently he sent me a text message out of the blue saying that he loves me but he feels although we can't be together anymore . So I called him and he basically said the same thing but he still wants me in his life he just doesn't feel like settling down right now but when he did he'd come to me.... He said he didn't expect for me to wait because that would be selfish but again he said that he loves me so much and he doesn't want to be with anyone else but me... Then he said he wouldn't do anything to hurt me. Now what gets me is I've asked him multiple times if he wanted to be with me in a relationship he'd say no but he didn't want to lose me... Now he does this!?

Now this isn't the only thing though once when we split some months ago he slept with another female while we were still involved ... He told me about it and felt badly but when I asked him why he did it he said because he wanted me to hate him and break up with him ... He said that he thought that I would hit him curse him out and grow angry at him but once he saw that I was really hurt and still loved him he felt horribly about doing it ... Of course I made my decision to stay with him but before that he still had flirtation problems ... Like when I'd check his phone he'd be talking to all of these females and everything but now recently that we've been together for so long he's stopped

I just need another PISCES male to tell me what's going on with him ... And the last time I spoke to him he said that he'd see me either Saturday or Friday and we'd talk about it but since then he's pretty much disappeared .....

What's going on with him PLEASE I really need to know he was my best friend before all of this and I'd hate to lose him !!!

P.S I'm a Gemini sun Aquarius moon he's a Pisces sun Aries moon

We may not be compatible but I STILL would like to know from a PISCES male point of view what's going on with him ... We love each other .. He said so him self that I'm his first love so that's gotta say something , right?

I can't guess what he is thinking, but my opinion is that this is not going to be a good relationship.
It's not enough to say that you love someone if you don't respect this person.

Posted by BeaShine

We may not be compatible but I STILL would like to know from a PISCES male point of view what's going on with him ... We love each other .. He said so him self that I'm his first love so that's gotta say something , right?

It doesn't matter what the truth may be because you have already made up your mind .... and only want people to tell you what you want to hear.

You should check yourself.

Run girl. Before you try to boil his bunny in a stew pot. No woman should be turned crazy because of a unloving man.

Posted by maelstrom

It's a really treetrunked up thing to do to someone, and if he really wanted you to be free and happy he wouldn't be .....

It's not up to him to make her free.

For people to even address him, as if he is the one who is in position to direct her life is an outrage, and instills in her that she SHOULD abide by him.

If a person wants to be free and happy ... it's their own job to do, it's not up to another person to grant that for you.

But, again .... she obviously only wants to be told what her ears enjoy hearing ... so bleh

To everyone who's posted thank you... But on another note, I DO NOT want to hear what I want.. I was looking for someone to make sense of the whole thing.. Someone who could actually relate to me .. There are maybe a few of you who does ... We all have that one person who we love and are use to and don't want to let go! I've been flip flopping around for the longest on what I should do ... Even though I know I should make a break for it.. Something's telling me not to... But even with that I still feel I NEED to!

And as a GemAquarian.. You can't tell me that I've made up my mind to what I want to do! The Aquarian side of me is telling me to let go then the Gemini in me is stubborn .. So there's a debate... So I really haven't made up my mind yet! But believe me I'm getting there ..with that being . I am checking myself! I feel as though the biggest problem isn't the fact that he's a Pisces and I'm a Gem but that we are still both YOUNG! ( not in high school though ) ... Guys at our age just wanna have fun and flirt around while most females for some reason would like to settle down ... My father has told me this multiple times .. So maybe I should just let him do whatever ... Settling at a young age isn't really best.... So with that being said ...

Posted by BeaShine

So I really haven't made up my mind yet!

.... we are still both YOUNG!

Guys at our age just wanna have fun and flirt around

So maybe I should just let him do whatever ...

You're an idiot .... you should check yourself

can someone help me..
there is a topic about an aries girl and a pisceman..
see it above the other topic
thank you

Excuse you P-Angel if you have nothing else to say rather than to criticize me I suggest you not post ... Please and thank you