@RoseAngel81
12 Years
Confusing pisces man 2
Understanding Pisces Men Who Send Mixed Signals
Pisces men can be confusing due to their emotional depth and sensitivity. They may act playfully or teasingly, but often mean no harm. Their behavior might reflect inner conflict or a desire for reassurance. Recognizing their subtle cues can help clarify their intentions and improve communication in your relationship.
Ha! Hope we're not seeing the same guy.
Ernie are you American?
Yes
Are you living in America?
Yes. In Chicago.
It isn't the same guy then. We live in England.
Phew!
Seriously though guys what is it? Are they checking how mu or whath we like them or what?!
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Here's a question. When each of these guys said that to you, what did you *want* to say and what did you *actually* say?
I've already told you.
I wanted to ask if he was serious and I did ask that.
and what was it that he helped you out with?
or he meant with seeing hot guys help you out by you seeing him?
lol if so
Posted by deezie
and what was it that he helped you out with?
He said I should be seeing hot guys so id have to see him.so he could help me out with that.
I.e. he was complimenting himself: he was a hot guy he meant.
Posted by deezie
or he meant with seeing hot guys help you out by you seeing him?lol if so
Got it!!!
lol ya. and did you guys have sex?
Seriously though he brought it up and asked me exactly how I got home.
It was as if he was checking if I did go home.
Yeah we were sleeping together.
I don't care either way... but it is a key point.
I'm pretty sure he is ok with hanging out and having sex but he wants to make sure you know it isn't exclusive. don't get attached.
I may be wrong.
lol I neede some punctuation there. phone typing is an excellent conduit for circular thinking
Posted by deezie
I don't care either way... but it is a key point.I'm pretty sure he is ok with hanging out and having sex but he wants to make sure you know it isn't exclusive. don't get attached.
I may be wrong.
he must like you then.
he is texting you and not out. but not with you or trying to take you out.
that to me sounds like minimal effort guy liking sex.
but you want to hear he likes you and that he is testing to see what your feelings are... so....
he must like you.
As far as my Pisces fellow goes he was asking if I ever got hit on in my neighborhood since I live in a predominately lesbian area. I said yes and since I have been with girls in the past he said I should just go into one of the bars and go home with one of the bartenders. I told him I couldn't do that. He asked why. I said I was too picky. He had no response to that.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Here's a question. When each of these guys said that to you, what did you *want* to say and what did you *actually* say?I've already told you.
I wanted to ask if he was serious and I did ask that.
Ok. He didn't really answer the question did he? Or at least not specifically. I guess I'm trying to figure out why you didn't ask him what he meant by that because its an unusual thing to say. Open to much interpretation. Just a thought.
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No and I was very suspicious but whatever. I thought the worse too. I did think that he wanted to imply that it wasn't serious by saying that to me. but when I saw him next he actually made me describe my commute home. I told him I went home and it didn't seem enough....he asked when, how, train or tube and the route. if he wanted me to be out with others why check I went home.
He was between jobs when we met and saving for a deposit. he didn't go out much as money was an issue. pride was as too.
Ernie its one thing to ask if you're seeing others....quite another to suggest you do it. that would puiss me off.
also... didn't he suggest that you should be seeing lots of hot men Rose?
both of these guys sound like the epidemic of ding dongs lol
Posted by deezie
also... didn't he suggest that you should be seeing lots of hot men Rose?both of these guys sound like the epidemic of ding dongs lol
Epidemic?!
I think you mean epitome. Lol
Posted by deezie
also... didn't he suggest that you should be seeing lots of hot men Rose?both of these guys sound like the epidemic of ding dongs lol
Epidemic?!
I think you mean epitome. Lol
nope. I meant they are a part of what appears to be an epidemic.
this follows on from erniechicks thread about the pisces guy who suggested she see other people.
It surprised the heck out of me because mine did something similar.
I was out for the evening with friends and saw something I thought he would like and sent him a picture message.
He saw it the next morning and sent me this text:
" I hope you went with another hot guy? Who kept you up very late! 😉"
I asked if he was serious and then said I was with friends. So he then replied:
" Yeah its a great place. I meant you should be seeing as many hot guys as possible. Now you're going to have to come over on Tuesday so I can help you out with that! 😉"
Then when I saw him on the Tuesday he asked me about where I was again and asked me how I got home. I told him by public transport and he asked me exactly how I did it and I had to tell him the route I would have taken from where I was to how I.got home. then he seemed happy.
-first text he was putting you on trial. Like giving you a bait and waiting silently to analyze your reactions.
-Second one he was trying to make fun of it.
He is worried about your night out.
Is there sthg you forgot to tell us?
What ever happened to people being direct and not playing games? I can't tell if this guy is passive aggressive, a player, or insecure. Or maybe all three?
Thanks guys. That's what i couldn't figure out. I thought he might be (ok hoping) he was trying to find out if I was seeing others but then why not just ask me.
I got so many questions about how I got home like he was checking if i did go home.
He took me out a couple if times after this, he was lovely to me and then he got into shit at work and pulled the disappearing at. May he swim back someday 😢
Thanks guys. That's what i couldn't figure out. I thought he might be (ok hoping) he was trying to find out if I was seeing others but then why not just ask me.
I got so many questions about how I got home like he was checking if i did go home.
He took me out a couple if times after this, he was lovely to me and then he got into shit at work and pulled the disappearing at. May he swim back someday 😢
88 I'm screwed then.
He doesn't contact me and when I contacted him he replied nicely but not somewhat to do now.
He is in a bit of a mess at work and had a relationship break down when we met. his ex was depressed too and took a lot out of Jim 😢
How likely are they to come back though.
Should I say anything to him?
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Hi
this follows on from erniechicks thread about the pisces guy who suggested she see other people.
It surprised the heck out of me because mine did something similar.
I was out for the evening with friends and saw something I thought he would like and sent him a picture message.
He saw it the next morning and sent me this text:
" I hope you went with another hot guy? Who kept you up very late! 😉"
I asked if he was serious and then said I was with friends. So he then replied:
" Yeah its a great place. I meant you should be seeing as many hot guys as possible. Now you're going to have to come over on Tuesday so I can help you out with that! 😉"
Then when I saw him on the Tuesday he asked me about where I was again and asked me how I got home. I told him by public transport and he asked me exactly how I did it and I had to tell him the route I would have taken from where I was to how I.got home. then he seemed happy.
WTF was that about?! I've never had that from a guy before. Did he really want me to be seeing other hot.guys?!