How do you show

When you are interested in someone? And if you are but it's not the right time or you think that it might be too full on with this person, how do you act?

Are you the type to give out compliments or thankyou gifts, does it mean a great deal to do this?

Asking someone that you only see once in a while straight up how they feel is rather random dont you think? Sure to have them running a mile! They'll probably jump to the wrong conclusions...

Sometimes you just have to take a chance. Perhaps they feel the same way and don't have the guts to speak up.

As hip as I want to be...I'm old skool. If the guy doesn't make the move then he doesnt really want to for whatever reason...

Somethings cant be changed...

I'm old skool too sweethearts, but sometimes you have to reach for the golden ring. If your hand gets slapped well, it happens from time to time.

I'm less than 50% confident and now I'm actually wondering if there might be something going on with his flatmate... my friend....he bought her an orchid as a thankyou for picking his drunken arse up so many times the next morning...

There's definitely something there with us...just not sure its enough..so I'm pondering

Pondering is never a bad idea. 🙂 And to answer your original question, I do not give gifts unless I know the person well and/or there is feeling attached to it. I go out of my way to ensure that even small gifts are suited to whom they're given.

i feign indifference, but am generous with my time and i lock up the hot sauce.

It's complicated...he lacks in maturity which isnt all bad. There is a nice feeling around him and he softens when he talks to me in a room full of his friends which is nice as i know he has a front to put on. He has been through the nervous faze with me and has overcome that. i dont think he knows what to think of me and at this stage I'm not prepared to spell it out...

I'm comfortable with a friendship because I would prefer he make any moves...he has shown commitment phobia in previous relations and I'm looking for more than just a bed pal

Being with, and understanding a Pisces is always complicated, Sweethearts.


And I totally disagree with the advise given here .. which has said that you should be bold and profess your feelings to him. If you do that .. he will likely swim away. Fish don't normally work that way.

And another thing .. don't worry about the present he gave to the flatmate because we don't give gifts to get in a person's knickers .. we give gifts because we want to thank the other for something.



Here's the thing, and I know it's totally unfair of us, but, it's the Fish nevertheless .... we expect others to just know how we feel. We expect others to be able to read us like we can read them. And he can read you.

He knows how you feel, Sweethearts .. he can feel it, he can sense it.


My husband used to asked me: Do you want to be with me?
Answer: I'm here



Your Pisces friend knows you make time for him because you want to .... you don't have to. And he will expect you to realize the same in return. He doesn't have to even notice that you exist ... but, he does notice, and he is going to expect you to realize that he makes time and concern for you by his choice.


And that is all the matters to us, so we assume it is all matters to the other.

"And that is all the matters to us, so we assume it is all matters to the other."



^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ .... meaning that it is a choice, and one you/we made.




Alls that really matters to me is that my husband stays with me by choice. There is nothing else that is necessary for me to feel important.


He, as well as your friend ... doesn't HAVE to be there.

Don't feel guilty about it Seavixen ... being able to feel others is our gift. You must accept it as our gift, for it's the only way you will be able to project this outwards so that others can feel how we feel.


We do expect others to just know .... and they do just know when we are in a place where we are able to shine our energies to them. But, the only way to do that is to believe.

And I totally disagree with the advise given here .. which has said that you should be bold and profess your feelings to him. If you do that .. he will likely swim away. Fish don't normally work that way.

Yep think I felt that...that's why I wouldn't go there...





Here's the thing, and I know it's totally unfair of us, but, it's the Fish nevertheless .... we expect others to just know how we feel. We expect others to be able to read us like we can read them. And he can read you.

He knows how you feel, Sweethearts .. he can feel it, he can sense it.



Sometimes I think he does... I guess I am just waiting on him to move....but he doesnt... because I think he knows I'm not just a bit on the side and he's not there, where I am....




Your Pisces friend knows you make time for him because you want to .... you don't have to. And he will expect you to realize the same in return. He doesn't have to even notice that you exist ... but, he does notice, and he is going to expect you to realize that he makes time and concern for you by his choice.


Maybe one day...we might both be ready at the same time. We have, but at different times & the one kiss we shared was very passionate...I got cold feet thinking he was just playing and I think it scared him off...for good! That was nearly a year ago now, so all I can be is patient and if he has a change of heart...and if no one else enters into our lives....

thanks P 🙂